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Cunning Stunt
12-04-10, 06:19
Well if you didn't realise already then it's certainly something to be aware of that when you send a message to a girl, she has not signed a confidentiality agreement and may chose to show that message to whoever she likes.

Oh fuck, do you mean to say that I’ve been pouring out my heart and soul to that cute little doxy I met online yesterday and she might not be sincere? I'm heartbroken;).

Wikileak is in the news at the moment. What we could do with on ISG is something similar to give us all a laugh! Should we call it willileaks or more appropriately pussyleaks?, both apt if rather disgusting titles:D.

FreebieFan
12-04-10, 09:15
So Mr Kilt, how are your chaps doing in the cricket. LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL.

I'm not sure if WR is one of us or one of you. Got a foot in both camps (no WR I'm not calling you camp!)

Matius
12-04-10, 12:18
I would not be quite so scornful of those who prefer interaction via the internet Matius. Different people are in different positions. You may be a in a position where you can wander out to a mall any time you feel like it and flirt with a cute Filipina, get her mobile no and arrange a date, but the majority of guys on this list are not in this position. If you are sitting in Akron, Ohio you can turn on your TV and get 100 channels or signup to netflix and watch any movie you wish to whenever you want. But movies and porn are not "interactive", they are passive you just sit their and receive info without any two way flow. What people yearn for is this interactivity. That's why guys will spend hours in front of a computer trying to get some Filipina to reveal a shot of her probably not very impressive boobs in blurry web cam footage when he could just flick channels on his 52 inch LCD TV and watch hi def porn in gynecological detail with exceptionally endowed porno sluts.

You are certainly right that there is something strange and illogical about internet dating. I have felt that for example if I make a date to meet an internet contact at some mall and I'm waiting 45 mins for her to show up. What am I doing waiting for this particular girl who is probably no more or less attractive than hundreds of other girls in this mall wandering around several of whom may smile at me? I know next to nothing about her, it's not as if I'm waiting for a buddy I knew 20 years ago, infact these other girls I know better than her because at least I can see them in the flesh, know they are real can speak to them right then and there if I wish. And if that's weird, when all I have done is taken a 10 mins jeep ride to Ayala how much more weird to fly all across the Pacific and maybe get to some distant and remote Province just to see a particular girl who in reality is only fractionally less of a stranger to me than 20 million others.

So well written, had to read it a couple of times and still not sure if it was sarcasim. Never the less enjoyed it. I think your first point is that an interactive wank is much more enjoyable than watching a porn movie. I think with the comments from previous members, the interactive portion is all the more enjoyable as the girl, her friends, family, strangers gathered around the internet cafe watch some slob choke his chicken. They then can record it to their phone to show those who missed the live action.

Then your second point about flying half way around the world to meet up with that special someone who told her Filipino boyfriend she hooked one, or her mamasan she has fever and can't come to work.

My point remains for those who can actually come to the Philippines, your time spent on the dating sites is wasted. Any one can line up girls by the hundreds of equal to or better quality than the couple you are wasting time with on the internet. Don't care how old you are, how much you weigh or whether you have hair. If you shower daily, have a basic amount of charm, you will not have a problem here. I feel for guys who have the financial means, want to, but for whatever reason just won't board the plane to come here.

One thing I do miss, wish we had that many movie channels here. ha ha

Rampana
12-04-10, 15:15
Well if you didn't realise already then it's certainly something to be aware of that when you send a message to a girl, she has not signed a confidentiality agreement and may chose to show that message to whoever she likes. That's just the way the internet works and if you are not comfortable with it, you had better stop using it. I would agree with one of the earlier comments that if the situation is a guy deliberately trying to make fun of sincere guys it's pretty shallow and unethical behaviour. There are situations as described by FBA when guys are being idiots so maybe pulling something like FBA describes is reasonable. As for myself, when i have found a new potential female contact that I may have doubts about then i will often call over my GF if she is in the room and ask her opinion for example is this girl a ladyboy, does her claim to be a nursing student stack up etc? Of course Filipinas find it much easier to identify such things than we do and might say, Ok ask her which campus of the college does she go to.

Similarly if my GF is hunting for a Western husband she might say come and read this, is this guy for real? Is what he is saying plausible? It's very difficult for a Filipina to separate the wheat from the chaf because they have never been abroad met just a handful of guys etc, whereas I can generally tell very quickly what type of guy he is, or suggest some question she may ask to better judge his true intentions.


Hi GL,

this I can agree now. It is somehow understandable for a naive guy like me. lol.

ram

Gangles
12-04-10, 16:06
mathius,

i agree that any guy with a few dollars can fly to the philippines and line up hundreds of women.

but these are *****s, bargirls, from brothels, street walkers. they can also be lined up via dating sites, and i agree that this can be wasteful. but also, meeting semi pros over the internet gives an opportunity to screen them first, rather than take pot luck, and also creates an atmosphere of anticipation in both parties, and generally turns up low mileage, sincere, gfe type women.

what you can not find easily on the streets is regular, educated filipinas, which you can find on dating sites.

it takes time and effort, but for the guys who are looking for the real filipina, the true girlfriend, the dating site enables him to speed up the meeting process. i have no doubt that the women that i have found by dating site, i could never have found in a short stay of a few days.

to each his own.

g

Germanboy 2
12-04-10, 16:09
Hello, all together

Some weeks ago I was writing some words about dia-girls I met in manila (manila threat, number 6136). Now I am back and will tell you some more stories.

Lets say by the words from forest gump: dia girls are a box of chocolates, you never know what you are going to get. Thats so true. Keep in mind: not every filipina is a stunner, not every girl wants to have sex after 5 minutes, but also you can find some wonderful surprises. One thing seems to me important: often you need some time, more then maybe only one day, a lot of chatting or texting before. I will give you some examples and start with the most strange one: A.

The A story

Met A. Maybe 4 weeks before my departure, a lot of chatting in dia and yahoo by cam (thats important, some girls are really different in reality then they are in the dia-picture). A. Is from Cagayan de Oro and told me about the island camiguin. I checked it in the web and thought its a nice place to go to. I asked A. If she wants to join me, and she said yes. While chatting she told me that she never had a boyfriend before, that she never kissed and that she is 18 but virgin. I thought: wow, can become some nice days with her.coming to Cagayan we met immediately, she showed up with her mother and one sister. We went for a little dinner, talked a lot and she agreed to go with me next morning to the island, which is 2 hours by boat from cagayan. She refused spending the last night with me in the hotel, said she will be there 7. 30 am next morning. And showed up 7. 15, with a suitcase more or less as big as mine. She had 7 jeans for a 3 day trip)))

Everything she said before was right. She was still a innocent girl. No experience in kissing or sex, and. She did not want to make it. Wow. She told me that she feels not matured. Was very nice, friendly, great to talk with. But asked me not too touch her. This was a shock in the first moment, then I decided that it is okay, and that I will see more my little sister in her. Okay, after 2 days there was something like a shy kiss (like a kiss you give your mom at Christmas), thats all. Anway, it was a nice and relaxed time, I did a lot of reading, and she did as well. Her book was about "beautiness of purity", why girls should not dress too sexy and keep themselfes pure till marriage. It was strange, but it was okay. And from the time I was leaving her, she did not stopp texting to me how wonderful the trip has been, and that she will see me again.

The B story

As A I was texting with B some weeks before my departure, she is from Cebu and told me that she has strict parents, have to be at home at 8pm but free time in the afternoon. We met in ayala, had a coffee at starbucks and went straight to the hotel after that. B told me that she is so curious in having sex with foreigners, that she has had 2 american guys before, one was okay, one not soo much. So I tried to tell this 18 yo lady to show how germans can do, and it seems she was not unsatisfied. Good kissing, sweet small boobs, a bit unexperienced in giving full satisfaction, but vey willing to learn. After some hours she had to go home, I gave her 700 "taxi money", and she seems to agree absoltely with that. Gave me a lot of textings the next days, that she wants to continue. Even if she was nice, I tried to make other experiences and answered always polite, but never met her again.

The C, the and E girls

The three girls C. D. And E. Are all from Cebu, seems to be very willing to meet and did a lot of texting. I made appointements with them, but they never showed up. 2 never contacted me again, one came with strange excuses. I decided not to contact her any more.

A girl named F.

Met F. At dia on Wednesday morning and told her that I am in cebu right now, she asked if we can meet early afternoon. F. Was far away from good looking, but she was nice. Active in a opposition group at her university, smart, clever. We had a one hour coffee-meeting at ayala, then she had to go. Which was totaly ok in my eyes, I had a appointement with G. As well, and was not interested in closer contact. Anyway F. Was nice, and continued some light texting in the following days.

The G..Girl

Its a bit strange to have appointements with girls in a 2-hour-rythm, but I did so, because these dia-girls have a lot of no-shows. G. Came. She is 20, a bit chubby and shy. Nice, but not my type. So I decided to stay at ayala for one more coffee with her, then going back alone. Seemed to me, that she agrees as well in doing that. We did. Starting one day later G. Became very enthusiastic in texting, telling me she wants to meet again. But I have been on my way to manila.

H. From Manila

Asked 3 girls in manila for a meeting, two did never show up, H. Came. We met in front of my hotel. Guys, thats something I learned: ask the girls to come to a place which is convenient for you. If they want, they can manage to go to every direction. And if it is a no-show it is much better for you if you wait on your hotel bed then running through the half city to a place where you have nothing to do.

Well, H. Came in the evening. We went for a small dinner, then going back to the room. She came with me, but was not enthusiastic in closer contact. So we have been only sitting arround and talking, anyway it was a nice time. Obligatory texting when she went home after some hours, she wanted to meet again the next day, I agreed. H. Has such sweet eyes

H. Suggested me to go to a disco next evening (paddies place), asking if she can bring 2 friends with her, I agreed and she showed up with 3 friends (2 guys, one girl). First I have been a bit angry, then I thought: why not. The whole beer and food damage for all 5 of us was arround 2000 peso, and if this is a way how to make some young falks happy, why not. I left disco with her arround 2am, the others stayed, we went to hotel. There was nothing more to see from the shy girl. Had some wild more hours. After breakfast she had to go home, but came back in the evening. I went back to home next day, so she did not stay overnight. I gave her 1300 pesos which I had left, and she seemed to be really deep happy about it.

The I. Girl

I. Is one of the biggest surprises. I met her in dia after my arrival at Philippines 3 weeks ago. She wanted to meet, but had no time at this day. After that contact there was a long time of silence, then her texting came suddenly. I told her to come to my hotel 1 hour after H. Went home, and was sure for 100 % that she is a typical now show. But she came. And wow, she was the only girl I met who looked much better in reality then on her dia-picture. We went for a coffee in starbucks, then back to the hotel. After 2 minutes of talking, she started a wonderful, deep and unforgetable kissing. Cloths went of, and we had a wonderful time. When she went home after some hours, I wanted to give her 1000 taxi money. She looked at me, seems like with some tears in her eyes and said that she will not accept something. I told her thousand sorries. She went home, and texted "100 thanks for being so nice to me". I will try to stay in contact with her even from my home.

Radical Guy
12-05-10, 03:24
Not making any judgement or anything but just curious what a happily married "former monger" would be doing on a mongering sex site? Just curious.

There's a warm spot in my heart for the "good ol' days." I participate purely for entertainment. My wife enjoys reading the posts also, as she finds the whole subject area amazing, especially Dragon Slayer's forum. Sometimes we read them together.

Tally Wacker
12-05-10, 05:05
Ah ok thats cool. Its kinda like a recoverd alcoholic hanging out in a bar sipping Iced Tea because they like the atmosphere. Thats good you have a cool wife. Do you two expieriment outside your marriage with others? Its an interesting subject.


There's a warm spot in my heart for the "good ol' days." I participate purely for entertainment. My wife enjoys reading the posts also, as she finds the whole subject area amazing, especially Dragon Slayer's forum. Sometimes we read them together.

Wicked Roger
12-05-10, 05:09
So Mr Kilt, how are your chaps doing in the cricket. LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL.

I'm not sure if WR is one of us or one of you. Got a foot in both camps (no WR I'm not calling you camp!)
LOL

FF RK knows am a Pom for cricket.....and yes am enjoying watching it..not as much as lovely slim shaved pinay pussy but still a lovely time to be a Pom

RK...has been very quiet for a few days but am sure he is plotting his next trip to Cebu for more peaches....he sort of over indulged last time ;)

Red Kilt
12-05-10, 05:29
LOL

FF RK knows am a Pom for cricket.....and yes am enjoying watching it..not as much as lovely slim shaved pinay pussy but still a lovely time to be a Pom

RK...has been very quiet for a few days but am sure he is plotting his next trip to Cebu for more peaches....he sort of over indulged last time ;)

F%@$!^& cricket. I am dismayed. After 20 years of pouring shit on all the Pommies I can find with the Aussie dominance of world cricket I now have to sit back and cop it coming back on me.
Life isn't fair LOL.

On more important matters more pertinent to the target population of this board: WR is correct. I over-indulged in Cebu last week. After a rather hectic week of fitting shagging in between work (which quickly became fitting work in between shagging), I poured myself back onto the plane and returned to my sedate position in society here in Manila.
I know this isnt the Cebu thread but as an aside I found Ayala Mall a bit quiet for trawling this trip, and Lone Star bar still far and away the best light entertainment venue. Pump disco destroyed my hearing.

FreebieFan
12-05-10, 07:39
F%at$! & cricket. I am dismayed. After 20 years of pouring shit on all the Pommies I can find with the Aussie dominance of world cricket I now have to sit back and cop it coming back on me.

Life isn't fair LOL.

On more important matters more pertinent to the target population of this board: WR is correct. I over-indulged in Cebu last week. After a rather hectic week of fitting shagging in between work (which quickly became fitting work in between shagging), I poured myself back onto the plane and returned to my sedate position in society here in Manila.

I know this isn't the Cebu thread but as an aside I found Ayala Mall a bit quiet for trawling this trip, and Lone Star bar still far and away the best light entertainment venue. Pump disco destroyed my hearing.Its called Karma, mate! I hear England are thinking of declaring at 1000 for 3. Massive LOL.

FYI just broke my Freebiecherry here in Taipei with a cute Indonesian. Dropped her off at a subway station, and now going to scout out next weeks target amongst the helpers and care providers who are nicely gathered in target groups, of Filipinas to the left and Indonesians to the right.

Congrats on surviving the over indulgence. Its one thing we have in common and one that even Aussies are good at. Because they sure can't bat nor bowl at the moment. Extra loud LOL.

Fast Buck Artist
12-05-10, 08:06
The girls C. D. E. F. G. H. I...Z

I have a question for you guys who chat with 10+ girls and manage to arrange a meeting with all of them.. where do you find the time to keep in touch with them all?

Having a full time job I find it hard to keep a regular chat with 2 or 3.. what do you do, just tell them "I am coming 2 weeks from now, leave me your phone number I'll txt you when I am there" ?

FreebieFan
12-05-10, 12:25
I have a question for you guys who chat with 10+ girls and manage to arrange a meeting with all of them.. where do you find the time to keep in touch with them all?

Having a full time job I find it hard to keep a regular chat with 2 or 3.. what do you do, just tell them "I am coming 2 weeks from now, leave me your phone number I'll txt you when I am there" ?The secret is to chat to lots of them (during work breaks etc, text them a bit as many don't receive many overseas texts and the charmer is to call them, once or twice (both so that you are sure that she's a girl, and that she can converse with you) and also so she thinks she's "special)

Then when you are in country you play juggling games and see how many you can fit in., You make wild and wonderful excuses for not being able to see one (a leaking pipe in my condo has been successfully used often as it sounds quite probable)

Wicked Roger
12-05-10, 15:24
F%@$!^& cricket. I am dismayed. After 20 years of pouring shit on all the Pommies I can find with the Aussie dominance of world cricket I now have to sit back and cop it coming back on me.
Life isn't fair LOL.

On more important matters more pertinent to the target population of this board: WR is correct. I over-indulged in Cebu last week. After a rather hectic week of fitting shagging in between work (which quickly became fitting work in between shagging), I poured myself back onto the plane and returned to my sedate position in society here in Manila.
I know this isnt the Cebu thread but as an aside I found Ayala Mall a bit quiet for trawling this trip, and Lone Star bar still far and away the best light entertainment venue. Pump disco destroyed my hearing.

Cricket is fine if a Pom and about time the Aussies got it in the neck :D

As for your work/shagging trip..you are showing your age :) Pump is fine for young men like me....and also the peach destroyed your libido for a while but she did enjoy the time :D

DriveAllNight
12-05-10, 22:02
.. what do you do, just tell them "I am coming 2 weeks from now, leave me your phone number I'll txt you when I am there" ?Pretty much.

I establish contact about 4-6 weeks prior to my trip with a couple dozen girls from DIA and FH. Then I trade a few messages with each until a couple weeks before my flight, and having now broken the ice a bit, I start gathering cell numbers of the ones who seem like good possibilities.

Once I hit Manila, I buy a cheapie Nokia and some load. Then I lay on my bed in the hotel and fire off a volley of texts to the, um, "winners" of the DIA/FH fishing expedition.

I usually meet the girls for lunch, a drink, etc. somewhere in the Greenbelt malls, often at Hard Rock or Cafe Havana. It's a bit of a crapshoot, but I'd estimate that the girls agree to accompany me back to the hotel on the first date about 50% of the time.

If nothing works out on a given day, I'll usually then just roll to EDSA or else call a girl I met on a previous trip that I *know* will be good to go.

GregLondon
12-06-10, 06:28
Had a sad text from one of my girls in Cebu this morning. She said she was in a funeral parlour. Apparently she went island hoping/diving with a 57 yr old Singaporean guy before being scheduled to go to Boracay for a week today. sadly the guy drowned - related to a heart problem.

So guys, if especially if you have some medical condition, don't overdo it.

Quite a traumatic experience for a 20 year old girl too, fortunately he was travelling with colleagues so she's not having to deal with the situation alone.

Matius
12-06-10, 07:03
mathius,

i agree that any guy with a few dollars can fly to the philippines and line up hundreds of women.

but these are *****s, bargirls, from brothels, street walkers. they can also be lined up via dating sites, and i agree that this can be wasteful. but also, meeting semi pros over the internet gives an opportunity to screen them first, rather than take pot luck, and also creates an atmosphere of anticipation in both parties, and generally turns up low mileage, sincere, gfe type women.

what you can not find easily on the streets is regular, educated filipinas, which you can find on dating sites.

it takes time and effort, but for the guys who are looking for the real filipina, the true girlfriend, the dating site enables him to speed up the meeting process. i have no doubt that the women that i have found by dating site, i could never have found in a short stay of a few days.

to each his own.

g

it is clear i am not a fan of the dating sites. i used them and had no end to offers, but awoke one day to realize just how much of my personal time i was wasting, sitting in front of the computer in mindless chatter. but some are addicted to electronic games and in a similar vain if it is entertainment value then by all means.

but this is a monger's site, by definition we are for the most part womanizers and fishing analogies are most appropriate. even in response, referring to yourself you use the plural women, not finding the one woman. and if a person is coming to ph to be a monger, then the dating sites (in my opinion), limit options and consume a great deal of time (admittedly back home), that just is not required to get volume and quality.

i agree it might be complicated cruising the lawyer's offices to pick the right secretary or paralegal, but do know guys that cruise the hospitals picking up nurses. the mall/shop girls are easy pickings and even the bars have a fair amount of virgins if one likes a challenge. i know a guy who has picked up more than one bank teller and if you are game to go to some of the more popular filipino hangouts, even the good girls go out with their friends to videoke and dance bars (non-freelance type establishments).

i do get your point though, and for some they need the comfort of a couple of familiar relationships to justify their visit. won't deny it works to a degree, just not really the most effective method by my experience. i do not agree that the screening aspect works, so many of the "bar girls" are roping in guy after guy who thinks they are semi virgins. and in many cases the guys are paying far more for that relationship than if they just paid the bf and took the girl out for the evening.

FreebieFan
12-06-10, 12:17
Once I hit Manila, I buy a cheapie Nokia and some load. Then I lay on my bed in the hotel and fire off a volley of texts to the, um, "winners" of the DIA/FH fishing expedition.In the crappy old Manila airport, theres a cell phone load machine just before you get the yellow taxis. I load that and I'm texting from the taxi seeking those same winners. Maybe we; ve both scored with some (or to continue the Cricket analogy we may have bowled some of them over. Something the Aussies can't do at the moment Lolololol. Hi RK!

GregLondon
12-06-10, 14:55
It is clear I am not a fan of the dating sites. I used them and had no end to offers, but awoke one day to realize just how much of my personal time I was wasting, sitting in front of the computer in mindless chatter. But some are addicted to electronic games and in a similar vain if it is entertainment value then by all means.

But this is a monger's site, by definition we are for the most part womanizers and fishing analogies are most appropriate. Even in response, referring to yourself you use the plural women, not finding the ONE WOMAN. And if a person is coming to PH to be a monger, then the dating sites (in my opinion), limit options and consume a great deal of time (admittedly back home), that just is not required to get volume and quality.

I agree it might be complicated cruising the Lawyer's offices to pick the right secretary or paralegal, but do know guys that cruise the hospitals picking up nurses. The mall/shop girls are easy pickings and even the bars have a fair amount of virgins if one likes a challenge. I know a guy who has picked up more than one bank teller and if you are game to go to some of the more popular Filipino hangouts, even the good girls go out with their friends to Videoke and dance bars (non-freelance type establishments).

I do get your point though, and for some they need the comfort of a couple of familiar relationships to justify their visit. Won't deny it works to a degree, just not really the most effective method by my experience. I do not agree that the screening aspect works, so many of the "bar girls" are roping in guy after guy who thinks they are semi virgins. And in many cases the guys are paying far more for that relationship than if they just paid the bf and took the girl out for the evening.

I guess I am at the opposite end of the spectrum to Matius. I really don't like bars. I agree that if quantity and choice of looks / ease of access is what you are after bars are the way to go. But to me it seems a bit akin to the difference between buying fish at a supermarket and going out with a rod and line and catching for yourself.

Yes the supermarket offers a huge range of fish all easy to get just hand over the money and take your choice, but the taste can be abit "farmed" . Going fishing is far less productive but thats not the point if you enjoy the experience of fishing itself.

I understand Matius does plenty of hunting in the malls etc. Personally I find this more challenging than the dating sites but maybe its because I'm not so confident and am relatively PC literate.

DriveAllNight
12-06-10, 21:37
I guess I am at the opposite end of the spectrum to Matius. I really don't like bars. I agree that if quantity and choice of looks / ease of access is what you are after bars are the way to go. But to me it seems a bit akin to the difference between buying fish at a supermarket and going out with a rod and line and catching for yourself.

Yes the supermarket offers a huge range of fish all easy to get just hand over the money and take your choice, but the taste can be abit "farmed" . Going fishing is far less productive but thats not the point if you enjoy the experience of fishing itself.

I understand Matius does plenty of hunting in the malls etc. Personally I find this more challenging than the dating sites but maybe its because I'm not so confident and am relatively PC literate.I'm with you on this, GL. In fact, I've shared that exact same fishing metaphor with many fellow mongers who feel as Matius does.

But please, everyone, don't get me wrong; I love hitting the go-go "fish market" and barfining a nice fillet of snapper just as much as anyone. But I generally find using my pole and lures to pursue DIAfish and mallfish more stimulating.

Tally Wacker
12-06-10, 23:07
Heres a video on How to Ride the Jeepney - Knda funny :)

http://www.metacafe.com/watch/yt-tuIQHiAHExg/how_to_ride_the_jeepney_in_the_philippines/

Polyorchid
12-07-10, 03:18
but the taste can be abit "farmed" . Going fishing is far less productive but thats not the point if you enjoy the experience of fishing itself. Love the metaphor, GL, and I agree.

When I lived in the PI, I had lots of time; and although I continued to use DIA, I also liked the chase. Believe me, if you spend any amount of time in PI (or at least Cebu and Davao, where my personal experience was), you will not want for girlfriends.

I moved from PI to Bangkok and only last week moved to Saigon. For my money, it's very difficult to beat Filipinas.

In fact, I shall re-enlist in the Church of Rome and begin attending Sunday Mass faithfully since I know that's where I can find the best Filipina overseas workers.

Red Kilt
12-07-10, 03:29
I.................................. Maybe we've both scored with some (or to continue the Cricket analogy we may have bowled some of them over. Something the Aussies can't do at the moment Lolololol. Hi RK!

I guess it must be time for me to suck it up and take some lip from the Poms, even FF who is not sure what race he belongs to LOL.

You poor bastards have had to cop it for long enough from us. Lets hope we don't have to take it for as long as the Poms have had to.

Wicked Roger
12-07-10, 05:25
I guess it must be time for me to suck it up and take some lip from the Poms, even FF who is not sure what race he belongs to LOL.

You poor bastards have had to cop it for long enough from us. Lets hope we don't have to take it for as long as the Poms have had to.

While there is not thread for this ...yes RK you will have to suck it up from the Poms and in person when we meet :) but that will be tempered by the fact that you will be eating some peaches...unlike many Poms who had to endure years of pain. :D

Wicked Roger
12-07-10, 05:27
I moved from PI to Bangkok and only last week moved to Saigon. For my money, it's very difficult to beat Filipinas.

In fact, I shall re-enlist in the Church of Rome and begin attending Sunday Mass faithfully since I know that's where I can find the best Filipina overseas workers.
In the UAE I would always take the girl to church as while I never partake, there was always a few cuties coming out who i could try and 'charm'. As mass would take a long time it gave me plenty of time for my 'worship'. Excellent idea P and good luck in Vietnam

GregLondon
12-08-10, 18:35
The new Yahoo Messenger 11 version is now available for download in beta version.

The critical new feature for Phils mongers is integration with your facebook account.

As most of you will be aware Facebook has now almost completely displaced Friendster as the preferred photo storage oriented social network. Many of the girls also use it as a chat platform mainly with their friends.

Personally I find Facebook chat terrible to use. The new YM allows you to link with your Facebook account so that your facebook friends show up on your YM and can be chatted to through the YM system which is much more user friendly. Sadly some of the YM features are disabled (such as renaming contacts and video chat) on the other hand clicking on the profile takes you straight through to her facebook profile.

As previously discussed revealing your genuine Facebook account may not be smart, so I personally have trampled through Facebook's terms of agreement (hope this doesn't generate yet more condemnation from the legal beagles out there RK?) and set up a dedicated phils mongering account.

Germanboy 2
12-08-10, 23:04
I have a question for you guys who chat with 10+ girls and manage to arrange a meeting with all of them. Where do you find the time to keep in touch with them all?

It is not as complicated as it sounds. Chatting does not mean deep philosophical discussians. With some "how are yous" or "I miss yous" you can have a lot of success.

Fast Buck Artist
12-09-10, 04:24
Thanks for the tech update Greg.

Integration with FB will be be really useful. I am off to play with YM 11.

Do you put your real photos on your fake facebook account by the way? I found the problem with fake facebook accounts is that it's extremely easy to figure out it's fake. There is just too much activity going on in a real facebook account to be able to fake it. The years of social games posts, photos, status updates. Hundreds of friends, all making 10 comments on each post you make. You just can't fake all of that.


The new Yahoo Messenger 11 version is now available for download in beta version.

The critical new feature for Phils mongers is integration with your facebook account.

As most of you will be aware Facebook has now almost completely displaced Friendster as the preferred photo storage oriented social network. Many of the girls also use it as a chat platform mainly with their friends.

Personally I find Facebook chat terrible to use. The new YM allows you to link with your Facebook account so that your facebook friends show up on your YM and can be chatted to through the YM system which is much more user friendly. Sadly some of the YM features are disabled (such as renaming contacts and video chat) on the other hand clicking on the profile takes you straight through to her facebook profile.

As previously discussed revealing your genuine Facebook account may not be smart, so I personally have trampled through Facebook's terms of agreement (hope this doesn't generate yet more condemnation from the legal beagles out there RK?) and set up a dedicated phils mongering account.

GregLondon
12-09-10, 06:27
Thanks for the tech update Greg.

Integration with FB will be be really useful. I am off to play with YM 11.

Do you put your real photos on your fake facebook account by the way? I found the problem with fake facebook accounts is that it's extremely easy to figure out it's fake. There is just too much activity going on in a real facebook account to be able to fake it. The years of social games posts, photos, status updates. Hundreds of friends, all making 10 comments on each post you make. You just can't fake all of that. I think there is Zero point in trying to "fake" a facebook lfe. II just mean open an account in a pseudo name, upload a few of your pics and bio detail and use that to all all your Phil gfs No girl has ever complained that maybe this isn't your real name or where are all your British friends etc. They just want to see a few pics that's all

Red Kilt
12-09-10, 08:41
....................... (hope this doesn't generate yet more condemnation from the legal beagles out there RK?) and set up a dedicated phils mongering account.I think you are misrepresenting me a bit too strongly here GL.

I am NOT a "legal beagle" by any stretch of the imagination. In fact, I have a fake FB account too!

I think there is a major difference between a "fake" FB account and a deliberate falsification of an airline ticket to mislead airline clerks (and possibly immigration too) but maybe it is just a question of degree.

Cheers.

GregLondon
12-09-10, 10:48
I think you are misrepresenting me a bit too strongly here GL.

I am NOT a "legal beagle" by any stretch of the imagination. In fact, I have a fake FB account too!

I think there is a major difference between a "fake" FB account and a deliberate falsification of an airline ticket to mislead airline clerks (and possibly immigration too) but maybe it is just a question of degree.

Cheers. Sorry just yanking your chain a little there RK. I am surprised to see who different people's ideas of morality on this tyep of subject are even within a very specific intereste group such as this

Fast Buck Artist
12-09-10, 11:07
I think there is Zero point in trying to "fake" a facebook lfe. II just mean open an account in a pseudo name, upload a few of your pics and bio detail and use that to all all your Phil gfs No girl has ever complained that maybe this isn't your real name or where are all your British friends etc. They just want to see a few pics that's all

If all you want is to share photos.. I think it would be better off to email them than present a fake facebook. I did have a fake facebook and actually it was reasonably well presented. With 20 photos. 100 friends, some status messages and social games. Yet it was still obvious its fake. One girl flat out called me on it. Within 5 minutes of adding me she said. This isn't your real facebook account, where is your real facebook?. There is no good comeback to it, all excuses are totally lame. Most girls will not make a comment but they still understand you are hiding your real facebook account from them.

The flip side of this is that some girls will also refuse to add you to their real facebook.. the reason is almost always that they are "In A Relationship with " [some filipino guy] or [some foreign cash cow] in the said account.. the excuses I heard for why they cant add me to their real facebook range from lame to hilarious.. the latest girl I tried to add said "my ex-bf hijacked my account and I dont have access to it anymore" :D

GregLondon
12-09-10, 11:36
If all you want is to share photos. I think it would be better off to email them than present a fake facebook. I did have a fake facebook and actually it was reasonably well presented. With 20 photos. 100 friends, some status messages and social games. Yet it was still obvious its fake. One girl flat out called me on it. Within 5 minutes of adding me she said. This isn't your real facebook account, where is your real facebook. There is no good comeback to it, all excuses are totally lame. Most girls will not make a comment but they still understand you are hiding your real facebook account from them.

The flip side of this is that some girls will also refuse to add you to their real facebook. The reason is almost always that they are "In A Relationship with " [some Filipino guy] or [some foreign cash cow] in the said account. The excuses I heard for why they can't add me to their real facebook range from lame to hilarious. The latest girl I tried to add said "my ex-bf hijacked my account and I don't have access to it anymore". Only a couple have asked, if they do I just say no this is my Phil dating facebook as I don; t want my buddies back home to know how many cute girls I'm chatting with. Trying to "fake" a facebook with spurious posts etc seems to me a complete waste of time. Al I am looking to do is not give away my real name and reveal to my family and friends the array of girls I am meeting here. I'm not trying to fool any of the phil girls

Fast Buck Artist
12-09-10, 11:57
Only a couple have asked, if they do I just say no this is my Phil dating facebook as I don; t want my buddies back home to know how many cute girls I'm chatting with. Trying to "fake" a facebook with spurious posts etc seems to me a complete waste of time. Al I am looking to do is not give away my real name and reveal to my family and friends the array of girls I am meeting here. I'm not trying to fool any of the phil girlsSo you are ok with adding a girl to a fake account where your only friends are 25 other slutty-looking filipinas? You don't think it harms your image in their eyes? I'd rather just email my photos to her email account.

GregLondon
12-09-10, 12:10
So you are ok with adding a girl to a fake account where your only friends are 25 other slutty-looking filipinas? You don't think it harms your image in their eyes? I'd rather just email my photos to her email account.I just took a look at my account about 60 hot babes and zero guys. None of them has ever questioned it and if they do so the answer is pretty simple I'm here looking for a hot girl, I'm not interested in guys or gays period so why on earth would I want to add them to my Facebook dating profile? LOL.

Next you will be telling me that you have been adding a bunch of fat American guys to your favourites list in Date in Asia just to give it some "balance" LOL.

Of course if I were trying to persuade girls here that I was just here wanting tom play golf and looking for Miss Right, then it may be more of an issue. But even then iI don't see its an issue.

Fast Buck Artist
12-09-10, 12:37
Next you will be telling me that you have been adding a bunch of fat American guys to your favourites list in Date in Asia just to give it some "balance" LOL.

Haha ok. Well in my experience with fake accounts. No the girl will not comment on it being fake (only one did) but they will quietly earmark you as a trickster.

Since I don't have a wife I can actually add girls to my real facebook, and comparing the two methods. The response is much better for the real account. If thats not an option for those of you with a wife and kids in your real FB account. I still think a fake account does more harm than good

GregLondon
12-09-10, 12:55
Haha ok. Well in my experience with fake accounts. No the girl will not comment on it being fake (only one did) but they will quietly earmark you as a trickster.

Since I don't have a wife I can actually add girls to my real facebook, and comparing the two methods. The response is much better for the real account. If thats not an option for those of you with a wife and kids in your real FB account. I still think a fake account does more harm than goodI'm sure using your real FB does give the girl a warm feeling, but I don't think its a big deal especially if you looking for a short term relationship. Personally I would not give my FB account to any girl in the Phils certainly unless I knew and trusted her very well.

It's really how this could cause all sorts of problems assuming that you have family and friends also linked in. Girls and especially those who turn out to be ladyboys can sometimes be quite vindictive if they feel feel slighted, humiliated mistreated for whatever reason. I really don't a slighted Filipina starting to blackmail me about sending embarrassing emails to my family friends and business contacts.

Fast Buck Artist
12-09-10, 13:08
It's really how this could cause all sorts of problems assuming that you have family and friends also linked in. Girls and especially those who turn out to be ladyboys can sometimes be quite vindictive if they feel feel slighted, humiliated mistreated for whatever reason. I really don't a slighted Filipina starting to blackmail me about sending embarrassing emails to my family friends and business contacts.My friends and family know I am in the Philippines. I don't have a wife. Business buddies couldn't care less who I am sleeping with. And well, if you accidentally let in a nasty critter. You can always delete them / block them from your list of FB friends.

GregLondon
12-09-10, 13:54
my friends and family know i am in the philippines. i don't have a wife. business buddies couldn't care less who i am sleeping with. and well, if you accidentally let in a nasty critter. you can always delete them / block them from your list of fb friends.i am a bit nervous about using real name fb account as i've had some minor but irritating examples of spurned lb / girl hassling such as being sent 500 repeat texts which girls can do for free if they are on unlimited plans or being blackmailed by a lb that his friend who he had accompanied to meet me was **** (which fortunately i discovered before anything happened) and he was going to call the police blah blah blah. if you find yourself in that sort of position or for example someone is claiming that you got them pregnant and can you pay maintenance etc. if things like that happen you really don't want the extra hassle of knowing that he / she knows your real name, friends and other private information. that's my view in any case. in 99% of cases you won't have any problems but i'd rather not take a 15 risk.

Fast Buck Artist
12-09-10, 15:55
i am a bit nervous about using real name fb account as i've had some minor but irritating examples of spurned lb / girl hassling such as being sent 500 repeat texts which girls can do for free if they are on unlimited plans or being blackmailed by a lb that his friend who he had accompanied to meet me was **** (which fortunately i discovered before anything happened)yea you have a good point. the said lb could have snapped a photo of you with the **** minor, uploaded on facebook and tagged you so it would show up in all your facebook friends' news feed. embarassing indeed.

GregLondon
12-09-10, 16:37
yea you have a good point. the said lb could have snapped a photo of you with the **** minor, uploaded on facebook and tagged you so it would show up in all your facebook friends' news feed. embarrassing indeed.yes there is plenty of scope for embarrassment. the other issue is blackmail. things can sometimes turn very nasty, very quickly in the phils and you don't necessarily have to have done anything wrong to find yourself in deep trouble. remember there are many police men who are working in cahoots with various shady characters with a view to shaking down foreigners and the police are deeply involved with the **** sex scene. what actually may or may not have happened is to some extent irrelevant because a serious accusation from someone even if she's lieing through her teeth will be treated by the police as an excuse to extract however large a bribe they think they can get away with. the more real details you give such people about your real name etc the more scope for trouble. i may sound paranoid, but it's not until you get involved in a nasty situation personally that you learn to be a bit more cautious at least until you know the girl quite well.

Red Kilt
12-10-10, 08:23
I can add something to the on-going discussion of what different phrases might mean in various profiles.

Of course, most of us start from the premise that most girls don't understand what they put in their profiles anyway but..........

I have been chatting to a cute Cebuana who has the phrase "no games please" in her profile. We have chatted about various things including which position she prefers for sex and how we are going to try them all out when I meet her next in Cebu. Our chat seems to contradict her expressed preference for "no games please".

I just asked her what she meant by that.

Her reply: I mean I don't want guys playing with me by saying they are going to meet me at a time and place and then they don't turn up. Further chat revealed that this had happened to her "a lot".

So. Just another term to explore with the filipina of your choice. If she says "no games" or "no players" then maybe you should ascertain what she means.

This girls is definitely going to play with me. She knows my profile and understands it.

It could partly explain why so many girls are no shows too. Maybe guys are not definitive enough about exactly where and what time and you never confirmed that you were there waiting for her. My chatmate says she doesn't even leave home any more until she is assured the guy IS going to meet her.

I think if you set up a meeting you really should go through with it - simple courtesy isn't it?

GregLondon
12-10-10, 08:34
I can add something to the on-going discussion of what different phrases might mean in various profiles.

Of course, most of us start from the premise that most girls don't understand what they put in their profiles anyway but.

I have been chatting to a cute Cebuana who has the phrase "no games please" in her profile. We have chatted about various things including which position she prefers for sex and how we are going to try them all out when I meet her next in Cebu. Our chat seems to contradict her expressed preference for "no games please".

I just asked her what she meant by that.

Her reply: I mean I don't want guys playing with me by saying they are going to meet me at a time and place and then they don't turn up. Further chat revealed that this had happened to her "a lot".

So. Just another term to explore with the filipina of your choice. If she says "no games" or "no players" then maybe you should ascertain what she means.

This girls is definitely going to play with me. She knows my profile and understands it.

It could partly explain why so many girls are no shows too. Maybe guys are not definitive enough about exactly where and what time and you never confirmed that you were there waiting for her. My chatmate says she doesn't even leave home any more until she is assured the guy IS going to meet her.

I think if you set up a meeting you really should go through with it. Simple courtesy isn't it? I agree with RK here, having spoken to a number of Filipinas on the subject what most of them mean is: Please don't piss me around by saying you are in the Phils when infact you are on your sofa in Milwawkee, don't lie to me by saying that you are single and looking for a wife when you are just on a sex jaunt, don't tell me that young will turn up and then not show up, don't take me as your live in GF for 3 of my best years then throw me out with nothing when I start to get a bit older. Ie Just be honest, upfront and straightforward with me. Then she can decide whether despite the fact that her No 1 priority is to find a husband she can "play" with you for fun or especially for the younger girls, more likely for some pesos.

FreebieFan
12-11-10, 03:37
I can add something to the on-going discussion of what different phrases might mean in various profiles.

Of course, most of us start from the premise that most girls don't understand what they put in their profiles anyway but.

I have been chatting to a cute Cebuana who has the phrase "no games please" in her profile. We have chatted about various things including which position she prefers for sex and how we are going to try them all out when I meet her next in Cebu. Our chat seems to contradict her expressed preference for "no games please".

I just asked her what she meant by that.

Her reply: I mean I don't want guys playing with me by saying they are going to meet me at a time and place and then they don't turn up. Further chat revealed that this had happened to her "a lot".

So. Just another term to explore with the filipina of your choice. If she says "no games" or "no players" then maybe you should ascertain what she means.

This girls is definitely going to play with me. She knows my profile and understands it.

It could partly explain why so many girls are no shows too. Maybe guys are not definitive enough about exactly where and what time and you never confirmed that you were there waiting for her. My chatmate says she doesn't even leave home any more until she is assured the guy IS going to meet her.

I think if you set up a meeting you really should go through with it. Simple courtesy isn't it?

FreebieFan
12-11-10, 03:41
I agree with RK here, having spoken to a number of Filipinas on the subject what most of them mean is: Please don't piss me around by saying you are in the Phils when infact you are on your sofa in Milwawkee, don't lie to me by saying that you are single and looking for a wife when you are just on a sex jaunt, don't tell me that young will turn up and then not show up, don't take me as your live in GF for 3 of my best years then throw me out with nothing when I start to get a bit older. Ie Just be honest, upfront and straightforward with me. Then she can decide whether despite the fact that her No 1 priority is to find a husband she can "play" with you for fun or especially for the younger girls, more likely for some pesos.All that has been said here is true. Some Filipinas also just add their no players / no games as they know it might put a few potential guys off. Yesterday here in Taiwan, I saw a nice profile of a Filipina (not DIA) and it was very clearly written " I'm not here for games / no players etcetc. I sent her a nice message, we chatted online and 5 minutes later she called me. Her first question was " where's your wife" I described my situation that I am married, and she laughed and thanked me for my honesty and we are meeting up tomorrow. So don't take these messages at face value. They are there as a sort of filtering system.

Red Kilt
12-11-10, 05:14
All that has been said here is true. Some Filipinas also just add their no players / no games as they know it might put a few potential guys off. Yesterday here in Taiwan, I saw a nice profile of a Filipina (not DIA) and it was very clearly written " I'm not here for games / no players etcetc. I sent her a nice message, we chatted online and 5 minutes later she called me. Her first question was " where's your wife" I described my situation that I am married, and she laughed and thanked me for my honesty and we are meeting up tomorrow. So don't take these messages at face value. They are there as a sort of filtering system.The whole thing is quite weird as FF correctly says.

I decided to tick the "Married / Attached" box and said in my profile that I wanted "discreet meetings, preferably in afternoons", and the replies suddenly started to come thick and fast.

The reason given by some of them is as FF says: they all liked the fact that I was being "honest and upfront". So go figure that one out!

FreebieFan
12-11-10, 08:41
The whole thing is quite weird as FF correctly says.

I decided to tick the "Married / Attached" box and said in my profile that I wanted "discreet meetings, preferably in afternoons", and the replies suddenly started to come thick and fast.

The reason given by some of them is as FF says: they all liked the fact that I was being "honest and upfront". So go figure that one out! Its so nice when you and I agree on something LOL. Whens the next game? You didn't expect to get an easy ride did you.

PS. A girl went to the police in Sydney recently and said she had been sexually attacked by a cricketer.

The policeman said how did she know it was a cricketer.

She said he had white shirt and pants on, and pads that covered his legs.

The policemen asked if she knew his nationality. She said he was Australian.

Policeman asked how she knew this.

She replied " because he wasnt in for long!"

Enjoy your weekend Sir!

X Man
12-13-10, 10:40
Thanks RK, interesting post.

Filipinos do seem to need at least one confirmation, even if you are in country and have talked on the phone, etc.

On the other hand, I had a few who peppered me with constant and meaningless posts to the point of insanity. At least one wore out my cell phone battery before we were to meet. And we never met. Another came one hour late and even though I had assured her twice that I was sitting in the food court. The only foreigner as far as I could see. She couldn't find me. So I left. Only to be peppered with more msg imploring me to come back.

"I'm on my way" seems to mean something like she decided to get in the shower. Your generous offer to take a taxi and you will pay is often ignored (understandable considering.)

Those who write more intelligently in their messages can usually be expected to be more punctual. Nevertheless, I recommend meeting in a place where you can easily kill time: your hotel lobby, mall, etc.

At meeting points try to be specific and ask questions even though they will be annoyingly vague.

"I'm here"

"Great, I'm sitting in Starbucks, wearing a red carnation. Where are you?"

"In the mall. I don't know where Starbucks"

"Okay, I'll go there, where are you?"

"I'm here, in the mall"

I AM NOT EXAGERRATING!


I can add something

SNIP.

Our chat seems to contradict her expressed preference for "no games please".

I just asked her what she meant by that.

Her reply: I mean I don't want guys playing with me by saying they are going to meet me at a time and place and then they don't turn up. Further chat revealed that this had happened to her "a lot".

So. Just another term to explore with the filipina of your choice. If she says "no games" or "no players" then maybe you should ascertain what she means.

This girls is definitely going to play with me. She knows my profile and understands it.

It could partly explain why so many girls are no shows too. Maybe guys are not definitive enough about exactly where and what time and you never confirmed that you were there waiting for her. My chatmate says she doesn't even leave home any more until she is assured the guy IS going to meet her.

I think if you set up a meeting you really should go through with it. Simple courtesy isn't it?

Slippery
12-14-10, 02:49
Thanks for a great report with many years of insight. Many are a bunch of dingbats.

Slippery f / k/a PLC

WestCoast1
12-14-10, 03:20
"I'm here"

"Great, I'm sitting in Starbucks, wearing a red carnation. Where are you?"

"In the mall. I don't know where Starbucks"

"Okay, I'll go there, where are you?"

"I'm here, in the mall"

I AM NOT EXAGERRATING! Quite right. I was meeting on of mine at Havana Cafe in Greenbelt for dinner at 8pm. We've been together before, twice. I was a few minutes early, eyeing the candy. Around 8:15, sucking down my SML, I txt:

Me: are you coming?

Girl: yes. Sorry its traffic.

8:40pm, I order an appetizer.

Me: I ordered some small food.

Girl: oh ok.

Me: where are you?

Girl: in the taxi. Sorry I'm late ok. Close now.

8:55pm.

Me: ok tell me what kind of drink you want?

Girl: san mig.

So I order her San Mig, and have killed the appetizer. Still hungry.

9:10pm.

Me: jeez girl where is your taxi? Its greenbelt yes?

Girl: sorry I'm late. Just getting out of the bath.

Me: WHAT?

Girl: leaving soon. Don't go.

9:20pm. Steaming mad at her. Pay the bill, walk away. Get a few "Hi Sir" from the ladies in the Starbucks area, and ask one of them if she wants to go find a live band with me."Yes!" She directs the taxi driver to Taguig (oddly, where the first pinay lives) and we hit a disco.

9:55pm. Txt from the first girl.

Girl: just the taxi drop me off now greenbelt. [no kidding. 2 hours late]

9:57pm.

Girl: I don't see you. Where you?

Me: I'm the only white guy here. Near the front door.

Girl: don't see you. Where you.

Me: look around. I don't see you also [because I'm sitting in a disco in a different city what another filipina and we are laughing at you. ]

Girl: are you here?

Me: oh, sorry. Just getting out of the bath!

Girl: did you leave?

Me: duh.

Girl: how dare you!

Fast Buck Artist
12-14-10, 11:12
On the other hand, I had a few who peppered me with constant and meaningless posts to the point of insanity. At least one wore out my cell phone battery before we were to meet.

Unfortunately the phone companies are offering "all you can text for 30 pesos" type of deals that allows certain women with an obsessive compulsive mental disorder to unload very short and brief texts at a rate of 60 texts per hour on their victims.


"I'm here"

"Great, I'm sitting in Starbucks, wearing a red carnation. Where are you?"

"In the mall. I don't know where Starbucks"

"Okay, I'll go there, where are you?"

"I'm here, in the mall"

Sounds like you met a true genius there mate.

I try weed out these retards at the online chat phase so I don't have a frustrating evening trying to meet them in real life.

GregLondon
12-15-10, 01:09
Quite right. I was meeting on of mine at Havana Cafe in Greenbelt for dinner at 8pm. We've been together before, twice. I was a few minutes early, eyeing the candy. Around 8:15, sucking down my SML, I txt:

Me: are you coming?

Girl: yes. Sorry its traffic.

8:40pm, I order an appetizer.

Me: I ordered some small food.

Girl: oh ok.

Me: where are you?

Girl: in the taxi. Sorry I'm late ok. Close now.

8:55pm.

Me: ok tell me what kind of drink you want?

Girl: san mig.

So I order her San Mig, and have killed the appetizer. Still hungry.

9:10pm.

Me: jeez girl where is your taxi? Its greenbelt yes?

Girl: sorry I'm late. Just getting out of the bath.

Me: WHAT?

Girl: leaving soon. Don't go.

9:20pm. Steaming mad at her. Pay the bill, walk away. Get a few "Hi Sir" from the ladies in the Starbucks area, and ask one of them if she wants to go find a live band with me."Yes!" She directs the taxi driver to Taguig (oddly, where the first pinay lives) and we hit a disco.

9:55pm. Txt from the first girl.

Girl: just the taxi drop me off now greenbelt. [no kidding. 2 hours late]

9:57pm.

Girl: I don't see you. Where you?

Me: I'm the only white guy here. Near the front door.

Girl: don't see you. Where you.

Me: look around. I don't see you also [because I'm sitting in a disco in a different city what another filipina and we are laughing at you. ]

Girl: are you here?

Me: oh, sorry. Just getting out of the bath!

Girl: did you leave?

Me: duh.

Girl: how dare you! Sadly this does exemplify the attitude of many, probably a majority of Filipinas. In particular there is a very strong tendency to immediately say what she thinks you want o hear eg I'm in the taxi its close etc rather than the truth.

It's experiences like this that have lead me to the policy of arranging meetings at my hotel if at all possible, where I am less concerened if she is an hour late as I have things to do.

Cbea20
12-15-10, 01:17
You have to set a limit, and let her know beforehand. Sometimes a girl will not show at all, because she's tired or something comes up. And not even waste a text to tell you. More often, she will wait until you say you are there and waiting for her before she leaves home (it's a significant expense for her to come) , or even before she gets ready. Filipinos do not trust each other. They don't appreciate that foreigners are more reliable. I live in a small city, no traffic congestion, so I allow 15 minutes. In Metro Manila, maybe half an hour. But again, you need to let the girl know beforehand that after a specified time, you will be gone, and the date is canceled. You can ask a girl, How long would you say I should wait for a girl? I assure you, she will not say, Two hours. For a first-time meeting, I figure the girl should be eager and waiting for me. If she isn't, the relationship will probably not go well anyway. So I bail. I have ditched many girls, on their way and furious at me.


Quite right. I was meeting on of mine at Havana Cafe in Greenbelt for dinner at 8pm. We've been together before, twice. I was a few minutes early, eyeing the candy. Around 8:15, sucking down my SML, I txt:

Me: are you coming?

Girl: yes. Sorry its traffic.

8:40pm, I order an appetizer.

Me: I ordered some small food.

Girl: oh ok.

Me: where are you?

Girl: in the taxi. Sorry I'm late ok. Close now.

8:55pm.

Me: ok tell me what kind of drink you want?

Girl: san mig.

So I order her San Mig, and have killed the appetizer. Still hungry.

9:10pm.

Me: jeez girl where is your taxi? Its greenbelt yes?

Girl: sorry I'm late. Just getting out of the bath.

Me: WHAT?

Girl: leaving soon. Don't go.

9:20pm. Steaming mad at her. Pay the bill, walk away. Get a few "Hi Sir" from the ladies in the Starbucks area, and ask one of them if she wants to go find a live band with me."Yes!" She directs the taxi driver to Taguig (oddly, where the first pinay lives) and we hit a disco.

9:55pm. Txt from the first girl.

Girl: just the taxi drop me off now greenbelt. [no kidding. 2 hours late]

9:57pm.

Girl: I don't see you. Where you?

Me: I'm the only white guy here. Near the front door.

Girl: don't see you. Where you.

Me: look around. I don't see you also [because I'm sitting in a disco in a different city what another filipina and we are laughing at you. ]

Girl: are you here?

Me: oh, sorry. Just getting out of the bath!

Girl: did you leave?

Me: duh.

Girl: how dare you!

Fast Buck Artist
12-17-10, 06:07
You have to set a limit, and let her know beforehand. Sometimes a girl will not show at all, because she's tired or something comes up. And not even waste a text to tell you. More often, she will wait until you say you are there and waiting for her before she leaves home (it's a significant expense for her to come) , or even before she gets ready. Filipinos do not trust each other. They don't appreciate that foreigners are more reliable. I live in a small city, no traffic congestion, so I allow 15 minutes. In Metro Manila, maybe half an hour. I am hearing a lot of justifications being made why they should be allowed to be routinely late."congested traffic","its a big investment for her to travel meet you" "lots of guys stand them up" "filipinos don't trust each other" "geography isn't taught in school so they have trouble finding places".

Frankly its a load of excuses. A girl is one hour late because she is an irresponsible stupid *****. There is no other reason. The women I met that have a brain and have a job have no trouble at all coming on time. The "one hour late" club is almost always irresponsible dumb wh0res who never held a steady job in their life (no surprise) and don't really care about other people or value their time.

To lighten up, I have a funny story to tell. I was sitting outside SM North mall having a coffee and cake alone on lunch break. And saw an agitated westerner pacing up and down and looking at his phone for about 30 minutes. The guy was clearly looking for someone, he gave up, jumped in a taxi and left. 15 minutes later a taxi pulls over and a visayan girl runs out, spots me, comes to kiss me on the cheek and starts chatting. Oh Hello, James, how was your trip from Shanghai, are you tired, you look so much better in person than on photos (nice one!.) , I stopped at the shop to get some vitamins, blah blah, no mention of apology for being 1hr+ late. I briefly entertained the idea of snatching this girl and play along as "James". But frankly. She was 60 kgs on a 5'0 frame, and I don't know how many vitamins she took from the health shop but clearly she squeezed a few donuts in between. So I sent her on her way nervously fidgeting with the phone and trying to get hold of the pissed off James.

James, if you are reading this, get a better taste in women! .

GoodEnough
12-17-10, 09:41
My conclusion regarding the "time" issue, after seven plus years here is that, for the most part, Filipinos place no value on time. It's at best an estimate of when an event, such as a meeting, will occur. This is often true even with the senior executives of major corporations, and isn't limited to the behavior of random women from chat sites. My response, in the case of business meetings, is to wait a maximum of 15 minutes, and then to leave without further explanation. When a senior vice president of a major company here asked me why I didn't wait for him, after I had twice confirmed the meeting, I explained that I don't wait for anyone and that my time has value. He eventually rescheduled the meeting, and showed up on time.

The whole time conundrum is a factor of mismatched, mutually exclusive cultural conditioning and there's simply no way to resolve it. The only way to survive then, without succumbing to continual anger, is to create a rule governing your own behavior and to stick to it.

The other insight, that works for me, is recognition of the fact that Filipinos tell you what they think you want to hear, which may bear no relationship to what they actually intend to do. This is not perceived by them as lying, but as a way of making the other party feel comfortable.

GE.

GE

Cunning Stunt
12-17-10, 10:34
This is the enigma that is the Filipina / o. Only the haziest notion of time discipline and spatially organizing their lives and yet they dash around like they are on the tightest schedule. Look at the roads with everyone carving everyone else up and going for gaps which don't exist and have you ever tried queuing here where you are constantly being frustrated by people jumping ahead of you with the old 'Excuse me, miss, blah, blah, blah' line.

Yet if you want to meet a girl at 2, you had better tell her to be there at 1, and perhaps she might turn up near the time that you want. But this being the Philippines, she will probably turn up on the dot at 1 and then will bombard you with texts wanting to know where you are. But it is more likely that she will turn up promptly at 3:D.

FreebieFan
12-17-10, 10:59
this is the enigma that is the filipina / o. only the haziest notion of time discipline and spatially organizing their lives and yet they dash around like they are on the tightest schedule. look at the roads with everyone carving everyone else up and going for gaps which don't exist and have you ever tried queuing here where you are constantly being frustrated by people jumping ahead of you with the old 'excuse me, miss, blah, blah, blah' line.

yet if you want to meet a girl at 2, you had better tell her to be there at 1, and perhaps she might turn up near the time that you want. but this being the philippines, she will probably turn up on the dot at 1 and then will bombard you with texts wanting to know where you are. but it is more likely that she will turn up promptly at 3. on a trip a few months back i very specifically told a girl we would meet at 11am. she agreed and i agreed. and exactly as you state here, she arrived at 9. 30 am and did the said bombardment. she even went a stage further and sent me a i'm crying now because you arent here to meet me ", which was funny because when she sent it it was only 10am, still one hour before the scheduled time.

filipinas are just rep001terbrained, but in fairness 50% of my ladies are at the right place at the right time. the others are early late or doing the quoted "where are you, i'm here " routine when one has no idea where " here" is.

Red Kilt
12-17-10, 11:06
My conclusion regarding the "time" issue, after seven plus years here is that, for the most part, Filipinos place no value on time. It's at best an estimate of when an event, such as a meeting, will occur. This is often true even with the senior executives of major corporations, and isn't limited to the behavior of random women from chat sites. My response, in the case of business meetings, is to wait a maximum of 15 minutes, and then to leave without further explanation. When a senior vice president of a major company here asked me why I didn't wait for him, after I had twice confirmed the meeting, I explained that I don't wait for anyone and that my time has value. He eventually rescheduled the meeting, and showed up on time.

The whole time conundrum is a factor of mismatched, mutually exclusive cultural conditioning and there's simply no way to resolve it. The only way to survive then, without succumbing to continual anger, is to create a rule governing your own behavior and to stick to it.

The other insight, that works for me, is recognition of the fact that Filipinos tell you what they think you want to hear, which may bear no relationship to what they actually intend to do. This is not perceived by them as lying, but as a way of making the other party feel comfortable.

GE. I agree with GE, and because we have both lived and worked here for so long then both of us have evolved ways to cope with this "cultural" aberration. I put "cultural" in inverted commas because it is not really cultural. It is a learned piece of poor discipline.

My coping mechanism is similar to GE but slightly different.

I make a point of confirming at least twice that we have the time mutually agreed.

If it is a girl, I tell her at the time of scheduling to meet that I will wait no more than 20 minutes maximum unless I have been forewarned by text.

If it is a one-on-one business meeting, I wait 20 minutes and in the absence of receiving any excuses, I then text that I can no longer wait as I have another appointment.

If I am running a meeting at which other participants are punctually waiting I will wait 10 minutes and then start, irrespective of the importance of the latecomer.

The outcome always is that these late people LEARN from the experience and almost always are very punctual on the next occasion which reinforces my earlier point that it is just ill-discipline.

I have a friend who owns a call-center and his employees are ALWAYS either early or on-time because they are penalised if they are late.

I appreciate that some of you who don't have any profession or business here or for whom time is irrelevant will think we are being a bit "anal-retentive" about this factor but I assure you it is so reflective of other factors. If a person cannot be reliable enough to be punctual then they usually cannot be reliable in many other aspects either.

Red Kilt
12-17-10, 11:35
My conclusion regarding the "time" issue, after seven plus years here is that, for the most part, Filipinos place no value on time. It's at best an estimate of when an event, such as a meeting, will occur. This is often true even with the senior executives of major corporations, and isn't limited to the behavior of random women from chat sites. My response, in the case of business meetings, is to wait a maximum of 15 minutes, and then to leave without further explanation. When a senior vice president of a major company here asked me why I didn't wait for him, after I had twice confirmed the meeting, I explained that I don't wait for anyone and that my time has value. He eventually rescheduled the meeting, and showed up on time.

The whole time conundrum is a factor of mismatched, mutually exclusive cultural conditioning and there's simply no way to resolve it. The only way to survive then, without succumbing to continual anger, is to create a rule governing your own behavior and to stick to it.

The other insight, that works for me, is recognition of the fact that Filipinos tell you what they think you want to hear, which may bear no relationship to what they actually intend to do. This is not perceived by them as lying, but as a way of making the other party feel comfortable.

GE. I agree with GE, and because we have both lived and worked here for so long then both of us have evolved ways to cope with this "cultural" aberration. I put "cultural" in inverted commas because it is not really cultural. It is a learned piece of poor discipline.

My coping mechanism is similar to GE but slightly different.

I make a point of confirming at least twice that we have the time mutually agreed.

If it is a girl, I tell her at the time of scheduling to meet that I will wait no more than 20 minutes maximum unless I have been forewarned by text.

If it is a one-on-one business meeting, I wait 20 minutes and in the absence of receiving any excuses, I then text that I can no longer wait as I have another appointment.

If I am running a meeting at which other participants are punctually waiting I will wait 10 minutes and then start, irrespective of the importance of the latecomer.

The outcome always is that these late people LEARN from the experience and almost always are very punctual on the next occasion which reinforces my earlier point that it is just ill-discipline.

I have a friend who owns a call-center and his employees are ALWAYS either early or on-time because they are penalised if they are late.

I appreciate that some of you who don't have any profession or business here or for whom time is irrelevant will think we are being a bit "anal-retentive" about this factor but I assure you it is so reflective of other factors. If a person cannot be reliable enough to be punctual then they usually cannot be reliable in many other aspects either.

Fast Buck Artist
12-17-10, 12:47
look at the roads with everyone carving everyone else up and going for gaps which don't exist and have you ever tried queuing here where you are constantly being frustrated by people jumping ahead of you with the old 'excuse me, miss, blah, blah, blah' line.overpopulation + mass unemployment = no respect for their own time, and time of other people.

i find it extremely annoying just to watch them walking around at slug speed during the workday leasurely slapping their slippers on the road, stopping to beg a trike driver for a cigarette or trying to bust a cheesy move on some girl walking by. showing they have absolutely nothing to do all day. and thinking everyone else around them is just as useless.

if you fly over to hong kong which is just a few hours away, what a contrast. people walking quick to their destination, carrying papers, notebooks, goods. looking professional and acting like it.

Manta Ray
12-17-10, 16:38
A fairly quiet Saturday afternoon lazing about the Makati condo. Not much lined up for the evening, so I log on to DIA and start trolling. Doesn't take long to find a few likely candidates, so I pop off some quick, 'cut to the chase' messages-'Hi, you seem nice and sweet. Would you like to meet up this eve for a drink and / or dinner? ' Within minutes I start getting replies, and after a bit of back and forth with a few, I settle on one who looks good (in her no doubt doctored pic) , sounds relatively sane and lives in NCR. We agree to meet at Greenbelt Café Havana at 7:30pm.

Having done the DIA dance often, I have no delusions of Filipina punctuality—though I do remember the shock horror of being severely scolded by one DIA gal who I had kept waiting five minutes at Avenue a couple of months before (read my post about that one). Nonetheless, that must have been an aberration, I tell myself, so I decide to show up at GB3 around 7:45.

I text her at 7:30 and tell here I'm at GB. She texts me back, 'I get taxi now. ' No surprise there. A minute later she texts again: 'expensive to go there, can you pay my way? ' Also no surprise. I tell her, 'OK'.

I get to Café Havana at 7:45, stake out a table, order a beer and enjoy the scenery for a while. I look at my watch, order another beer and I text her again:

Me: where are you?

Her: on my way.

Me: how near greenbelt are you?

Her: in taxi now.

Me: how long to get here?

Her: sorry traffic.

A bit more of that, and then silence. I hunker down with the third beer.

8:40, time for texting round two. Carbon copy of round one. I start thinking about cutting bait or dropping my pole in another pond. I text her that I'm not going to wait much longer. 10 minutes later she gets back to me: 'still in taxi, traffic sorry'

Hmmm, dilemma: she does look good in her DIA pic and I do want to see what she looks like in the flesh. So I tell her, lamely, 'Ok, but please hurry'

No reply. Now it's 8:55 and I'm starting to stew (in spite of the scenery and three beers). I decide to leave, so pay the bill and wait for change. She texts: 'near now, sorry where are you? ' I reply: 'at café Havana outside. You here now? ' Her: '5 mins please wait sorry. '

Curiosity has me by the balls, so I wait. At 9:20 she texts again: 'I'm here where are you? '

Eventually, we see each other and she comes over to the table. She looks pretty good. Perhaps a wee bit fuller than her pic might have implied, but she's doable. I'm still stewing, but testosterone begins to take hold.

We order drinks and do the usual first date kind of Q & A thing. She's not too forthcoming, not particularly vivacious and I begin to tire of her company. By 11:30 I've had enough chit-chat. I need to either get her back to my place or send her home. I ask her what she wants to do now (test question) , and I get the uninspiring, 'up to you' answer. Hmmm, as much as I would like to do her, I don't relish waking up in the morning with her in my place. So, I lead her out to Makati Ave, flag down a taxi, stuff a few hundred pesos in her hand, tell her that I have to get up early for work, put her in the taxi with a kiss and 'keep in touch. ' I go back to Café Havana and order another beer.

Fast forward 5 weeks later. Once again at home in the afternoon with no major plans for the evening, when out of the blue (we haven't communicated at all since the first date) , I get a text from her: 'Hi remember me? I'm at home now, I'm bored can I come to your place. '

Hmmm, moment of weakness, Thinking with the wrong head, so I say 'ok, when do you want to come? ' She says 'I come at 6. Can you pay my way again? ' A little wiser now (but only a little) , I text back: 'ok I pay your way, but only if your not late. ' She says 'Ok I'm not late this time, promise. ' So I tell her to go to the Starbucks in the mall next to my place and text when she's there.

I go have a work out in the gym then head off to the mall to buy beer and snacks. Back at my place around 5:30, have a shower and get dressed. At 6 I text her: 'where are you? '. She texts back: 'I get taxi now. ' Why am I not surprised. Well, I figure, at least I'll save a few hundred pesos on taxi fare! I decide I won't text her again and will leave my place at 7 if she's not there yet.

Sure enough. 7 rolls around and no sign of her, so I grab wallet and keys, and, more amused than angry, head out the door to see a few gal friends at Rogues. At 7:20 I get a text from her: 'I'm in taxi now sorry late but traffic na. ' I don't reply. 15 minutes later I'm walking across the street to Flamingo when I get another text from her: 'I'm near na sorry for late again. ' I don't reply. Then another text: 'I'm here at your place where are you? '

This time I reply. I tell her I got tired of waiting and I'm now out with friends. I tell her our date is off because she's too late. She replies immediately: 'what I do now, I don't have money to get home. ' I text her back: 'this is 2nd time you keep me waiting. Now its your problem. Bye. ' I do feel slightly guilty leaving her stranded, but I did indeed warn her about being late again, and I figure she must have enough pesos for a jeepney home. And if she doesn't have enough to get home, she can at least get to Greenbelt from my place and hook up with a bloke there. Fortunately, I get no more texts from her.

Manta Ray

FreebieFan
12-18-10, 03:04
overpopulation + mass unemployment = no respect for their own time, and time of other people.

i find it extremely annoying just to watch them walking around at slug speed during the workday leasurely slapping their slippers on the road, stopping to beg a trike driver for a cigarette or trying to bust a cheesy move on some girl walking by. showing they have absolutely nothing to do all day. and thinking everyone else around them is just as useless.

if you fly over to hong kong which is just a few hours away, what a contrast. people walking quick to their destination, carrying papers, notebooks, goods. looking professional and acting like it. you said ti well. the other thing thats gets me laughing, is when you say to a girl," i haven't heard from you in a while" and she replies " yes i've been busy". i'm thinking, busy doing what? you have no job, no income and have nothing to do.

FreebieFan
12-18-10, 03:46
Ok so I'm sitting here with a major hangover (Taiwan beer is reallllllly quite good) and have just had a morning perusal through some young ladies who looked quite suitable and beddable.

The irritant is when they write " don't contact me unless you have read my profile" and upon reading the said profile it merely says something inane, banal and lacking in substance such as " I like playing badminton ".

OK honey, I read it, now can we go to bed LOL.

Irony Monger
12-18-10, 06:32
Sorry, yet another woeful 'damn filipinas are always late' story! I guess I'll have to post a rebuttal. I had my first real DIA date last week. At the end of my trip I was in Manila and decided to fire off but bunch of shotgun texts to the DIA contacts that had given me their digits in the two weeks prior to my trip. Got some maybe's, some "send me a cell phone load first" replies (crossed off the list) , and one that seemed promising. Unfortunately even though her profile showed her in Manila, she said she was visiting her family and was currently a multi-hour bus ride away. I was expecting her to hit me up for cash, but nope, she said she just wanted to meet me and would catch the morning bus and be at my hotel at noon sharp the next day.

Well, noon the next day rolls around, and I was fully expecting her not to show (in which case I would have left in search of other company) , but there she was, in the lobby, looking stunning (tight little spinner with a bounce in her step). I asked if she wanted to go upstairs to "rest" after her long ride, and she says yes with a sly smile. We started kissing in the elevator. 5 minutes later she was in the shower. 10 minutes later she was in the sack, riding me like an inverted jack hammer. Ended up inside her no less than 5 times over the next 16 hours. Learned quickly that she is multi-orgasmic and nearly insatiable...not much sleep that night :-). She never once asked for money, I had to almost force her to take money for the bus and cab (I snuck a little extra holiday money in her purse too...she deserved it).

When I had to leave the next morning, she was ready on time too, and even asked if I had enough money for MY cab ride to the airport :-) Wonders will never cease. Oh yes, I will be looking her up next time I am in PI...this time on my first day instead of my last.

FreebieFan
12-18-10, 16:11
Maybe not having been to the Phils in past two months is getting to me. Here in Taiwan I'm chatting with several Pinays but the same nonsense is occurring as in Manila.

Thank goodness the Indonesians are proving to be way better than their Pinay sisters so far.

Anyways I sent a meaningless text to one Pinay who I've been chatting with before, tonight which said something like " Hello, how are you, are you having an enjoyable Saturday ".

The highly intelligent, well educated, well schooled and clear leader in the IQ stakes clearly thought as to what would be the best response and thus composed her award winning response of " Huh?"

WestCoast1
12-18-10, 16:38
I guess I'll have to post a rebuttal. I had my first real DIA date last week. At the end of my trip I was in Manila and decided to fire off but bunch of shotgun texts to the DIA contacts that had given me their digits in the two weeks prior to my trip. Got some maybe's, some "send me a cell phone load first" replies (crossed off the list) , and one that seemed promising. Unfortunately even though her profile showed her in Manila, she said she was visiting her family and was currently a multi-hour bus ride away. I was expecting her to hit me up for cash, but nope, she said she just wanted to meet me and would catch the morning bus and be at my hotel at noon sharp the next day.

Well, noon the next day rolls around, and I was fully expecting her not to show (in which case I would have left in search of other company) , but there she was, in the lobby, looking stunning (tight little spinner with a bounce in her step). I asked if she wanted to go upstairs to "rest" after her long ride, and she says yes with a sly smile. We started kissing in the elevator. 5 minutes later she was in the shower. 10 minutes later she was in the sack, riding me like an inverted jack hammer. Ended up inside her no less than 5 times over the next 16 hours. Learned quickly that she is multi-orgasmic and nearly insatiable. Not much sleep that night. She never once asked for money, I had to almost force her to take money for the bus and cab (I snuck a little extra holiday money in her purse too. She deserved it).

When I had to leave the next morning, she was ready on time too, and even asked if I had enough money for MY cab ride to the airport. Wonders will never cease. Oh yes, I will be looking her up next time I am in PI. This time on my first day instead of my last. On occasion, I get this kind of thing. Some girls, I think, just want to get their hands on a white guy (or foreigner). Its just for the thrill of it. In fact, two girls I met in the last year in Manila from dating sites told me that, and in advance. Like yours, neither wanted money, and I had a hard time slipping 1000 pisos in their purse. Yet, over the next several days, they each deluged me with sex, and both offered and brought an extra 'friend' or niece with them one another visit so I could have two scoops of ice cream at the same time. Either in chat before I came, or once with me, they would say things like:

"I hate pinoy they teribal. Just I want white guy for the f*cking."

"Is my dream to sex with white guy. Never I have that."

"You have friend here he travel with you? White guy? I want try two men sex same time."

When I pointed out to this last girl that having a second guy in bed meant she would get sandwiched front / back, she was fine with that: "Yes its fine to me. I do any you want. And I bring other girl if you want she can take the pitures. Or you can also f*ck her." Then, thats exactly what she did. I didn't have a buddy in Manila at the time to double-up on her, but she brought her niece anyway, who took pics of her aunt f*cking me, then the aunt took some pics of me f*cking the niece, and they spent the night. I had a hard time slipping them money the next morning; they seemed happy with the hotel breakfast.

I find most filipinas are fairly un-cooth. But sometimes they are in STUNNINGLY good form!

Salsadude
12-30-10, 21:03
What exactly is FH? How do I join it?

[QUOTE=Stroker Ace88; 830793]Puerto La Cruz,

I had a very simillar thing happen to me on FH a few months back.

In my profile I state that I am looking for a GF only when I visit the PI and one day this cute young girl I will call "R" Pm's me on FH looking to chat. I accept her invite and we start to chat. I ask her if she has read my profile and she says no. (Why is it that it seems all the girls do not even bother to read the profiles, sad really but I digress).

She goes off and reads my profile while I wait. R comes back and we continue chatting and I ask her if she was ok with what she read on my profile and if she understood that I was only looking for a GF. R says she is ok and we continue to chat for the next 15 minutes or so then I tell her I have to go. We say goodbye and that was that, or so I thought.

R sends me 4 or 5 emails on FH within the preceding 24 hours each one more excited than the previous one. They all contain things like,"I told my parents about you, they are so happy","My parents can't wait to meet you","My mom wants you to come stay at our house when you visit".

It took me a few minutes to put together that she thought I had asked her to become my GF. Which I did not, but I can see how things might have been confusing to her.

I sent her an email in which I clearly stated that we were not BF-GF and that she seemed nice but for her not to get the wrong idea.

A few days later I saw that she was on FH once again and Pm'ed her to explain the mess, but I was shocked by the response. It seems R gave her Mom the I'd and password to her FH profile so that her Mom could respond to emails while R was at school. WOW, this I did not expect. So I chatted with her mom and she seemed nice and unphased by the fact her 19yr old daughter was chatting with men twice her age. I thanked her for the offer for me to stay at her house and then she informed me she would tell R that I had something to talk with her about.

I chatted with R that same day and everything got straightened out, but it kind of freaked me out somewhat.

A few days later we chatted again and R accepted the offer to join my YM and R happened to be in a cafe so she turned on the cam and the first thing I see is R, and her Mom standing beside her. Her mom seemed to be telling R what to say and what to do and I just could not help but feel strange.

I would suggest that the author or another Forum Member consider posting a link to this report in the Reports of Distinction thread. Please.

Click Here (http://www.internationalsexguide.info/forum/announcement-reportsofdistinction.php?)

For more information.

David_33
12-30-10, 21:22
Common for Mom to be sitting next to her daughter or daughters in the cyber cafe. I have experienced this many times. The first time was kind of strange. They seem to get off on it, or are prompting the daughters or checking out the guys to see if they approve or who would be the best catch.

GregLondon
12-31-10, 00:02
What exactly is FH? How do I join it?

[QUOTE=Stroker Ace88; 830793]Puerto La Cruz,

I had a very simillar thing happen to me on FH a few months back.

Click Here (http://www.internationalsexguide.info/forum/announcement-reportsofdistinction.php?)

For more information. FH is Filipino heart a dating site aimed at Filipinas which has recently been rebranded Filipinacupid.

http://www.filipinocupid.com/

You can create a profile fro free but to actually do anything will need to pay a subscription.

Andrewbaez
12-31-10, 11:56
[QUOTE=Salsadude; 1107381]What exactly is FH? How do I join it?

FH is Filipino heart a dating site aimed at Filipinas which has recently been rebranded Filipinacupid.

http://www.filipinocupid.com/

You can create a profile fro free but to actually do anything will need to pay a subscription. I am a menber of FH, but the girls seem interested in the marriage, but for me pretend.

Then they have others profiles on Tagged and Dia, for less serious things!

My opinion in FH, They try the long relation. But are the same girls on Dia and Tagged.

You can search for city, but often used to write where they were born, but and the end live in Manila area!

If they really live In San Jose for example, They are not open mind!

Fredje1961
12-31-10, 13:39
Hi guys,

The proper word to use in this kind of situations is "companion".

Over the years, I've learned a few things about our favourite pinays.

A) they are group" people, they can't imagine someone would want to travel alone.

B) girls are raised to "serve" men.

See) men are considered incapable of taking care of themselves.

The) pinays are proud to be sexy (using "western" wording, this means they are happy in their own bodies)

So.

A) when you say you travel alone and you're looking for a companion, they'll think that perfectly normal.

Be) even though I'm not (very) macho, it can be a pleasureable experience when some sweet and sexy girl fills your plate while in the restaurant or massages your back in your hotel room.

See) so they need a companion even more.

The) tell them straight away that they look sexy, that they have nice bodies and they'll be happy to use it in the context of be) (wild fun is to be had)

Enjoy life!


What exactly is FH? How do I join it?

[QUOTE=Stroker Ace88; 830793]Puerto La Cruz,

I had a very simillar thing happen to me on FH a few months back.

In my profile I state that I am looking for a GF only when I visit the PI and one day this cute young girl I will call "R" Pm's me on FH looking to chat. I accept her invite and we start to chat. I ask her if she has read my profile and she says no. (Why is it that it seems all the girls do not even bother to read the profiles, sad really but I digress).

She goes off and reads my profile while I wait. R comes back and we continue chatting and I ask her if she was ok with what she read on my profile and if she understood that I was only looking for a GF. R says she is ok and we continue to chat for the next 15 minutes or so then I tell her I have to go. We say goodbye and that was that, or so I thought.

R sends me 4 or 5 emails on FH within the preceding 24 hours each one more excited than the previous one. They all contain things like,"I told my parents about you, they are so happy","My parents can't wait to meet you","My mom wants you to come stay at our house when you visit".

It took me a few minutes to put together that she thought I had asked her to become my GF. Which I did not, but I can see how things might have been confusing to her.

I sent her an email in which I clearly stated that we were not BF-GF and that she seemed nice but for her not to get the wrong idea.

A few days later I saw that she was on FH once again and Pm'ed her to explain the mess, but I was shocked by the response. It seems R gave her Mom the I'd and password to her FH profile so that her Mom could respond to emails while R was at school. WOW, this I did not expect. So I chatted with her mom and she seemed nice and unphased by the fact her 19yr old daughter was chatting with men twice her age. I thanked her for the offer for me to stay at her house and then she informed me she would tell R that I had something to talk with her about.

I chatted with R that same day and everything got straightened out, but it kind of freaked me out somewhat.

A few days later we chatted again and R accepted the offer to join my YM and R happened to be in a cafe so she turned on the cam and the first thing I see is R, and her Mom standing beside her. Her mom seemed to be telling R what to say and what to do and I just could not help but feel strange.

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GregLondon
01-01-11, 02:19
Hi guys,

The proper word to use in this kind of situations is "companion".

Over the years, I've learned a few things about our favourite pinays.

A) they are group" people, they can't imagine someone would want to travel alone.

B) girls are raised to "serve" men.

See) men are considered incapable of taking care of themselves.

The) pinays are proud to be sexy (using "western" wording, this means they are happy in their own bodies)

So.

A) when you say you travel alone and you're looking for a companion, they'll think that perfectly normal.

Be) even though I'm not (very) macho, it can be a pleasureable experience when some sweet and sexy girl fills your plate while in the restaurant or massages your back in your hotel room.

See) so they need a companion even more.

The) tell them straight away that they look sexy, that they have nice bodies and they'll be happy to use it in the context of be) (wild fun is to be had)

Enjoy life!

[QUOTE=Salsadude; 1107381]What exactly is FH? How do I join it?F is absolutely right. Companion is the right term. If you are travelling alone people will ask incredulously where is your companion and consider you some sort of leper if you say you haven't got one. There is a real disconnect because as a foreighner you are perceived as being necessarily a wealthy and desirable person to be with so that an absence of a companion must be an indication of some dangerous psychosis. You could say "sexy compnion" but sexy esp in the province tends to mean the type of girl with big boobs who wears a bikini at the beach. Many very attractive girls would fervently deny they are sexy. You could say intimate companion, but intimate is probably beyond the diction of most high school educated girls,

Wicked Roger
01-01-11, 02:52
We have all beeen asked for cash at tume in chatting with a cutie. Is rare that someone has not been hot up for a small donation to some charitable cause.

However, recent chats with 2 girls even surprised me.

The first offered me her viriginity for 100, 000 pesos (I kid you not). My advice was that can get many more cuties and some virgins or go try the koreans / japanese guys LOL.

The second I have met, known on and off, very much h0t and cold, very cute and has lots chat mates etc. We ended it all as she was too cute for herself and I could not be bothered with all the crap.

Then suddenly she pops up and says lets meet, am sorry for all the crap, and you anything you want to me (music to my ears I thought). If I buy her an IPhone4 3G at SM Mall for 32, 000 pesos (I checked yesterday and she is correct). But for this small fee I can't take nude pics, sex pics, enjoy Greek or CIM. So not much of a bargain there.

Now am slightly suspicious of this as she told me she recently she had split with a pinoy boyfriend who had a huge dick. And other bits of chat don't line up so could be the ex boyfrrend, so will play this along a bit and see where it goes

Must be Christmas LOL

Jambo
01-01-11, 04:08
If I buy her an IPhone4 3G How about for an Ipod Nano and you just put the head in her ass?

Cunning Stunt
01-01-11, 11:13
I had one cute, little 19 year old honey offer me her ass cherry if I would get her a Nokia N70! Why this particular phone I have no idea as it is a pretty old and clunky model, long discontinued. But who was I to argue.

So, whilst in UK, I picked one up off ebay for 30 nicker, smartened it up with a new case and battery and brought it out with me. She was so happy to get it but denied promising her ass and reneged on the deal. Sufferin' Succotash. She did, however, give me lots of loving in return;).

FreebieFan
01-01-11, 12:34
We have all beeen asked for cash at tume in chatting with a cutie. Is rare that someone has not been hot up for a small donation to some charitable cause.

However, recent chats with 2 girls even surprised me.

The first offered me her viriginity for 100, 000 pesos (I kid you not). My advice was that can get many more cuties and some virgins or go try the koreans / japanese guys LOL.

The second I have met, known on and off, very much h0t and cold, very cute and has lots chat mates etc. We ended it all as she was too cute for herself and I could not be bothered with all the crap.

Then suddenly she pops up and says lets meet, am sorry for all the crap, and you anything you want to me (music to my ears I thought). If I buy her an IPhone4 3G at SM Mall for 32, 000 pesos (I checked yesterday and she is correct). But for this small fee I can't take nude pics, sex pics, enjoy Greek or CIM. So not much of a bargain there.

Must be Christmas LOLI've had one who firstly wanted my Itouch then wanted me to get her an Itouch.

I said sure I will get you one but asked her "how will you put any music / pics / apps on it."? She said its easy, you just load.

I showed her how it works. Namely that in order to create to account on Itunes etc you have to load a credit card. I asked the sweet girl whether she had a credit card. She sweetly said no, but her uncles cousin used to have one.

I told her when she had a functioning credit card we could talk more. Knowing we would NEVER talk more.

I said

Hairy Wonder
01-02-11, 06:33
I wanted to reply to the message below, but felt it was better to put it here.


It is usually fairly easy to sort out the girls who have had profiles written by someone else.

More annoying for me is the woman who has her own personal "english speaker" and interpreter tagging along with her.

I was chatting with a girl on DIA and then YM for a few times with a cam and decided to meet her for coffee after I found her interesting.

She arrives, looking even better than on cam, but with her "chaperone" too, a small, dumpy, uninteresting friend. The friend was her interpreter. The woman could barely speak english nor could she understand me so the whole conversation was conducted through the 3rd party. The friend had also been typing all the chat messages (out of cam range) when we had been chatting too.

The whole thing was a waste of time so I sent them off with jeepney money. She buzzed me again next night on chat and after saying Hello, I asked if she was alone. The answer."No. My friend is typing my answers".

So just to follow on from GL and X Man's points: ask a few additional questions if you suspect that a 3rd party is involved just so that you have a better picture of who it is you are planning to meet. I'm a bit late on this reply, but I wanted to add my similar experience to what RK posted.

On a trip some time back, I made arrangements to meet a DIA girl in General Santos City. It was my understanding that she would meet me at the airport there. However, she was a no show. I managed to get to a phone and called her to ask where she was. Her shocked response was "You really came here?" Then she directed me to a specific hotel where, once again, she was a no show.

After waiting around for most of the day, I went online in search of other DIA contacts in the area. I found one that looked great in her profile photo, and was online. Right away, we started video chatting on YM. The same great looking girl was seen on cam responding to all of my messages. We agreed on a time to meet at the bar in front of the hotel. I went in early to make sure I would see her when she walked in. It was mid-afternoon, so there were not many customers in the bar. I sat down at the bar, facing the door, and ordered a beer. As I waited, I noticed a short, plump, unattractive girl sitting with 2 ladyboys. They all kept staring at me, pointing, and commenting to each other. Finally, the girl walked over to me and stated she was the one I had just been chatting with, and was here to meet me. I objected at first, saying she must be confused. But she gave me my screen name and the one for the girl I was chatting with. I was cornered now, and did not want to be rude. So I sat down and talked with her and the ladyboys, who turned out to be her cousins (so she said). The ladyboys had to translate many things for her, and relayed that the girl I had seen on cam was another translator that she used. Finally the question came from the girl about going to my room. However, she also wanted her "cousins" to come to the room also. I said no to the cousins, but I took her because I was upset over 2 failed attempts already. It wasn't pretty, but it turned out to be a decent shag.

After she left, I went online again, and opened YM. As soon as I signed in, the original girl started buzzing me. I thought maybe she was going to finally come to meet me. But the first line of text from her was "Did you have sex with the girl you took from the bar?" Needless to say, we didn't chat long, and I never saw her. She claimed that she was just arriving at my hotel, with her mother, when they saw me walk into the bar. Supposedly she stood in the shadows and eavesdropped on the entire conversation I had with the girl and her "cousins." When she saw me take the girl into the hotel, she left crying. Personally, I think the whole thing was some sort of setup.

I left GenSan the next day en route to Manila. I met another monger at the airport who invited me to meet up with him on Burgos. I had a great time there. My first night, I managed to have 2 girls from the local bars meet me in my hotel room. The next day, another bar girl came to my room, and spent the next 2 days with me shagging all the time.

Hairy Wonder
01-02-11, 06:37
I've had many DIA girls ask me what I planned to give them for their birthday, Christmas, or any other occasion they could think of. Some have even come across with the sad stories about needing money for school, baby, sick relative, and so on. Most recently, I was asked to send a laptop to one, so she could keep in touch with me more easily (and all the other suckers I'm sure).

Cbea20
01-02-11, 09:41
My usual response, mostly to Facebook friends, is "Virtual (or, electronic) friends get virtual gifts." And send a. Gif rose.


I've had many DIA girls ask me what I planned to give them for their birthday, Christmas, or any other occasion they could think of. Some have even come across with the sad stories about needing money for school, baby, sick relative, and so on. Most recently, I was asked to send a laptop to one, so she could keep in touch with me more easily (and all the other suckers I'm sure).

Wicked Roger
01-02-11, 12:03
I've had many DIA girls ask me what I planned to give them for their birthday, Christmas, or any other occasion they could think of. Some have even come across with the sad stories about needing money for school, baby, sick relative, and so on. Most recently, I was asked to send a laptop to one, so she could keep in touch with me more easily (and all the other suckers I'm sure).Well when asked those sort of 'pasalubong' questions I always tell them it is in my trousers and I hope she likes pork.

Laptop is a classic question and they will also say so I can show you all the time (yes true and countless others :)

FreebieFan
01-02-11, 12:39
I've had many DIA girls ask me what I planned to give them for their birthday, Christmas, or any other occasion they could think of. Some have even come across with the sad stories about needing money for school, baby, sick relative, and so on. Most recently, I was asked to send a laptop to one, so she could keep in touch with me more easily (and all the other suckers I'm sure).The alternate response is to have fun and ask them back what they will get you as your birthday is coming. They will immediately blush (electronically) and say they can't get you anything.

You then reply, if you can't get me anything why do you expect me to get you anything.

Again, they will blush and sweetly reply " because you are rich ".

Jambo
01-02-11, 15:14
I made arrangements to meet a DIA girl in General Santos City.Wow all the way to Gensan and you get stood up / scammed. I would be pissed. I bet if you stayed longer you would have found something better. I suspect since girls know few guys have any interest in flying into the West side of Mindanao, they figure scamming is what they have. Good thing you didn't offer to pay for her bus ride to Davao to meet you. I might have done that.

Cunning Stunt
01-02-11, 17:58
Has to be the buffest Filipina on DIA,

Sammon
01-02-11, 18:17
I've had many DIA girls ask me what I planned to give them for their birthday, Christmas, or any other occasion they could think of. Some have even come across with the sad stories about needing money for school, baby, sick relative, and so on. Most recently, I was asked to send a laptop to one, so she could keep in touch with me more easily (and all the other suckers I'm sure).To all girls asking for money I tell them I cannot send money because I have problem with my western union account.

Then they generally shut up. One girl even said she did not eat because she has no money for rice but looked healthy not malnourished. I told she survived without me helping her before and she will find a way to survive.

The new thing with these girls is they wait patiently saying in the begining that she does not want money but slowly hinting no money for this and that. Suddenly after you get to know her more she will say things like she cannot spend birthday, no money for x mas etc.

Once again do not send any money till you meet and get to like her. After that it is your decision.

Rampana
01-02-11, 18:19
Has to be the buffest Filipina on DIA,

I know her!

Ha Ha Ha his one sent me an Email with pics many years ago. I will search for them and post them here.
I nearly had to vomit after I opened that Email.

Ram

Hairy Wonder
01-02-11, 20:02
Has to be the buffest Filipina on DIA,Is that a "buff lady," or buff ladyboy? .

LittleTruths
01-03-11, 01:39
Has to be the buffest Filipina on DIA,. I agree, that thing looks more like a dude than anything else, expecially the face. .

Cunning Stunt
01-03-11, 04:18
Is that a "buff lady," or buff ladyboy? .I think she has to be female as she competes in womens bodybuilding events. She also has a child.

Just imagine having them meaty thighs wrapped around you? One over energetic squeeze and your head would pop like the top off a toothpaste tube!

Red Kilt
01-03-11, 14:03
I think she has to be female as she competes in womens bodybuilding events. She also has a child.

Just imagine having them meaty thighs wrapped around you? One over energetic squeeze and your head would pop like the top off a toothpaste tube! I actually know her. She is a nice person; even a little shy. She lives in Santiago City in Isabela in Nthn Luzon. She has her own little local gym there, and often comes to Manila for serious training with her German trainer (who lives in Manila).

She looks quite pleasant (her legs are great) when she wears a dress that covers the shoulders and arms.

But she is a very serious body-builder and is also seriously looking for a serious guy.

LittleTruths
01-03-11, 14:56
I think she has to be female as she competes in womens bodybuilding events. She also has a child.

Just imagine having them meaty thighs wrapped around you? One over energetic squeeze and your head would pop like the top off a toothpaste tube! Alright then, let's say that the previous picture didn't show her best angle. .

Female bodybuilder can be an interesting experience, but be aware, a lot depends on how into the sport they are and what are their contacts. As a rule of thumb, the anabolics they take, besides having the effect of buffing them up, tend to grow their clitoris into a sort of mini dick. And well, okay they still lack balls but hey! .

Real pro female atlethes tho, the ones that have first class connections with dedicated labs have access to some kind of uncommon steroids that don't tend to turn them into a man.

GregLondon
01-03-11, 17:41
Had quite an amusing situation a couple of days ago. I'd been chatting to a promising contact based in Lapu Lapu. We agreed to meet at 5pm at SM mall. She texted me to meet her outside the National Book Store. I duely made my way to the store where a young woman recognized me and came up to me said Hello, and where are we going to go etc. My high hopes for this date were dashed. Apart from medium length black hair she looked nothing like her profile pic. Whereas she had claimed she was slim this woman was a serious tubby. Her voice and daubed makeup made me suspicious that she was a LB. The main thing playing against this hypothesis was that most LBs are more attractive than this creature. She obviously sensed my discomfort and asked whether I liked her. I explained that she looked nothing like her profile and I was indeed disappointed and didn't think it was worth going somewhere to eat. She said, OK well I'll go in that case, but please cover my taxi cost. How much I asked. 500P was the answer. I told her she must be joking and gave her 100P and told her she shouldn't have told lies re her profile.

Anyhow I went off to look around the computer stores. About 10 mins later I had a couple more texts, where are you? I'm fed up with waiting, I'm going now? Etc I called and had some typically confused poor quality tel exchange. 10 mins later I met up with my real date who I was immediately very attracted to a real sweetheart. She said she had thought it was me when I fist come to the Book Store, but had seen me walk off with another girl and therefore had been confused. All' s well that end's well and she left me a day and a half later for her cal center job, not even being too disconcerted by the appearance of a couple of my regular girls around midday the following day.

I don't know whether this was a one off genuine misunderstanding or whether this is a girl and maybe others hang out at strategic points in the malls ready to hijack other girl's blind dates. Anyone had a similar experience?

Rampana
01-03-11, 17:46
Is that a "buff lady," or buff ladyboy? .She actually IS a female as she has a female christian name and also. As said. Attended in a contest with female body builders.

I will search that Email long ago and will post the pics here in the Forum.

Jambo
01-03-11, 22:47
this is a girl and maybe others hang out at strategic points in the malls ready to hijack other girl's blind dates. Anyone had a similar experience?Hmm that would be bold, but given Philippina's look so similar.

I suggest you try a challenge-response system. Like those airborne troops in D-Day: "Thunder" "Lightning".

Wicked Roger
01-04-11, 00:42
I actually know her. She is a nice person; even a little shy. She lives in Santiago City in Isabela in Nthn Luzon. She has her own little local gym there, and often comes to Manila for serious training with her German trainer (who lives in Manila).

She looks quite pleasant (her legs are great) when she wears a dress that covers the shoulders and arms.

But she is a very serious body-builder and is also seriously looking for a serious guy. Rk.

As you know her so well maybe you should take one for the team and do an insightful FR of what she is like in bed LOL. Am sure her peach is rock hard given the pictures posted.

I know you are not shy but best take an oxygen tank in case she gets you ina vice like grip with her legs while you DATY :eek:

Tally Wacker
01-04-11, 01:23
Sorry the Pics forum has been taken over by HIV topic.

Not sure if this is the ugly muscle chic 3rd from the last one but if not she is buff and ugly too.

http://ethionamide.org/asian-fitness-women-the-top-ten-asian-fitness-beauties-for-february/


She actually IS a female as she has a female christian name and also. As said. Attended in a contest with female body builders.

I will search that Email long ago and will post the pics here in the Forum.

Red Kilt
01-04-11, 02:45
Rk.

As you know her so well maybe you should take one for the team and do an insightful FR of what she is like in bed LOL. Am sure her peach is rock hard given the pictures posted.

I know you are not shy but best take an oxygen tank in case she gets you ina vice like grip with her legs while you DATY. Ahhh WR. When I say I "know" her your mind immediately flashes back to those religious education lessons you had at elementary school and how the Bible uses "Knowing a woman".

No way would I go anywhere near her peach or rock or buff or anything else. I much prefer warm soft peach-shaped formations. The very same thing being offered up to you by Cebu favorite.

You have any interesting FRs for us mate? Any chocolate bullet nipples popped into your bed lately?

Fast Buck Artist
01-04-11, 02:59
I don't know whether this was a one off genuine misunderstanding or whether this is a girl and maybe others hang out at strategic points in the malls ready to hijack other girl's blind dates. Anyone had a similar experience?Yea happens all the time. Usually either.

1) The tubby was waiting for another foreigner, and mistook him for you.

2) It's a ladyboy trolling the mall for hookups, and no, they are not all pretty haha.

Make sure you use webcam before you meet them, but I know, after you met 100+ girls, the faces tend to blur in your memory.

Modern phones have the ability to store a photo in the phonebook attached to the phone number.. I use it to remind myself who the heck I am meeting on that day haha

Wicked Roger
01-04-11, 07:02
You have any interesting FRs for us mate? Any chocolate bullet nipples popped into your bed lately?LOL.

Check the Photo Gallery for more chocolate shaped nipples. About time that was full of pictures not the current crap on safe sex etc.

Funktup
01-04-11, 15:29
I fucking love DIA!

GregLondon
01-05-11, 16:19
I've just been trying out findloveasia. Com

Seems to be a new totally free asian / filipina oriented web site.

Much better functionality than DIA.

4 pics, online chat option, search options location / kids / age / smoking / drinking body type etc.

Ie most of the functionality of the pay sites Cherry Blossoms and Filipina Cupid without the membership costs.

Initial thoughts: nice clean interface, excellent functionality fro a free site, hope it succeeds, so far far fewer members than the major sites but early days.

Tally Wacker
01-05-11, 16:30
Greg have you been hanging arround WR again? Kids? That does not sound like you. LOL kidding. Get it kidding.


Much better functionality than DIA.

4 pics, online chat option, search options location / kids / age / smoking / drinking body type etc.

Red Kilt
01-06-11, 08:38
I posted a reply on another board that is partially reprinted below in response to a young newbie poster who was on his first trip to the Phils and was planning to take a girl he had met on DIA to a number of tourist places in the Phils. The girl is 23, lists her occupation as "waitress", and comes from Angeles. He described her as sweet, very smart, and definitely a keeper (hmmmm; yeah. Right). Clearly he does not yet understand that "waitress" is a euphemism for 1000s of jobs in AC.

Anyway. Unfortunately, newbies often make a fundamental mistake in that they actually believe that everything that transpires between them and a girl in chat is both true and that it WILL happen as planned.

I gave him some tips as a monger with heaps of experience interracting with and then (sometimes) meeting women from DIA.

"Whatever you do DON'T make specific plans with her about taking her anywhere until AFTER you have met her in person.

Despite having chatted with cams and even spoken on cell phone, many (most) girls are NOT the same when you meet them.

Sometimes they turn out to be even better, but often they are a disappointment"

As someone else added to my original post, sometimes they can just irritate you or they have halitosis or they have a stinky pussy etc. All things that long detailed chats with cams cannot determine.

This guy had obviously made lots of promises to her about going here, there and everywhere with him to get her "onside". I told him that he doesn't need to make all of these sorts of promises to her in advance just so she will meet you. She will be VERY keen to meet up even if you don't promise her all these wonderful places to visit. When she turns out to be just the girl you wanted then you can shower her with largesse, but hold your fire until after you have checked her out "in real" (as they say).

I reprinted my advice to him here because I think some guys (especially newbies) get all befuddled by the ease with which you can chat with beautiful women on a chat site.

There is a big difference between the "virtual" world and the "real" world.

Wicked Roger
01-06-11, 10:59
I fucking love DIA!Funktup.

Correction. You like fucking DIA girls. As I know LOL

FreebieFan
01-06-11, 10:59
I posted a reply on another board that is partially reprinted below in response to a young newbie poster who was on his first trip to the Phils and was planning to take a girl he had met on DIA to a number of tourist places in the Phils. The girl is 23, lists her occupation as "waitress", and comes from Angeles. He described her as sweet, very smart, and definitely a keeper (hmmmm; yeah. Right). Clearly he does not yet understand that "waitress" is a euphemism for 1000s of jobs in AC.

Anyway. Unfortunately, newbies often make a fundamental mistake in that they actually believe that everything that transpires between them and a girl in chat is both true and that it WILL happen as planned.

I gave him some tips as a monger with heaps of experience interracting with and then (sometimes) meeting women from DIA.

"Whatever you do DON'T make specific plans with her about taking her anywhere until AFTER you have met her in person.

Despite having chatted with cams and even spoken on cell phone, many (most) girls are NOT the same when you meet them.

Sometimes they turn out to be even better, but often they are a disappointment"

As someone else added to my original post, sometimes they can just irritate you or they have halitosis or they have a stinky pussy etc. All things that long detailed chats with cams cannot determine.

This guy had obviously made lots of promises to her about going here, there and everywhere with him to get her "onside". I told him that he doesn't need to make all of these sorts of promises to her in advance just so she will meet you. She will be VERY keen to meet up even if you don't promise her all these wonderful places to visit. When she turns out to be just the girl you wanted then you can shower her with largesse, but hold your fire until after you have checked her out "in real" (as they say).

I reprinted my advice to him here because I think some guys (especially newbies) get all befuddled by the ease with which you can chat with beautiful women on a chat site.

There is a big difference between the "virtual" world and the "real" world. You said it perfectly right RK. I'm going there next weekend and in theory I have 7 bookings in a 3 day slot. Now I know that some won't work for various reasons but I will be fine with 5.

Rather like a cricket match really. You're not sure whether with 5 wickets down its a good performance or not. Unless of course its the English batting in which case the Aussies know you will have 100's more runs scored against you. Just in case you thought the cricket jokes had ended RK!

FreebieFan
01-07-11, 10:25
I've just been trying out findloveasia. Com

Seems to be a new totally free asian / filipina oriented web site.

Much better functionality than DIA.

4 pics, online chat option, search options location / kids / age / smoking / drinking body type etc.

Ie most of the functionality of the pay sites Cherry Blossoms and Filipina Cupid without the membership costs.

Initial thoughts: nice clean interface, excellent functionality fro a free site, hope it succeeds, so far far fewer members than the major sites but early days.I joined today, and quite a few girls with no pics and no really stunners surfaced yet. But 5 have given me a phone number already (without me saying anything). Theres the normal sprinkling of young to old. Pics are larger and better than DIA and has the option to show additional pics. Not as fast to load as DIA. And I've already seen some of my former DIA " conquests " there. LOL

FreebieFan
01-08-11, 11:26
Got a message on YM today from some girl I've never talked to before.

Said she got my name from a website, had seen my pic, was interested to meet, and sent me her number.

I replied and saw she was a 30 year old, with lovely smile home alone somewhere in Cavite.

I told her I was in Manila next week and maybe we could meet. She insisted on checking that I now had her number again. I confirmed I had.

I told her I needed a sleep, but I couldn't sleep so I watched some movies of me and my old girlfriend.

I got another message from her mid wank as it were, asking what day we could meet.

I told her I was naked and busy so she asked if she could join.

So there are we are doing the webcam thing. 15 minutes after saying Hello.

Her body confirmed she should be on my "doables " list for my next week trip. She says she can't wait to meet me. And with her little warm body, I think Ms 30 from Cavite will get what she wants. Especially as we will meet at Heritage hotel and take a little Sogo trip therafter!

I love Lifes unexpected moments!

Wicked Roger
01-09-11, 15:59
I got another message from her mid wank as it were, asking what day we could meet.

I told her I was naked and busy so she asked if she could join.

So there are we are doing the webcam thing. 15 minutes after saying Hello.

I love Lifes unexpected moments! Evil Twin.

An interesting FR. But will need to work harder to put out of my mind that you are now a web cam star. Please ask Ms Cavite to post any of the web photos she took on those twisted web sites LOL.

I get lots of weirdo YMs but these are from Arfican who claim they are Americans now living in Ghana, Nigeria. Even get some weirdo PMs

Hairy Wonder
01-09-11, 16:16
Evil Twin.

I get lots of weirdo YMs but these are from Arfican who claim they are Americans now living in Ghana, Nigeria. Even get some weirdo PMsI get those "American in Ghana" YMs all the time also. When that line comes across the chat, I block the user.

Mr Enternational
01-09-11, 17:51
I get those "American in Ghana" YMs all the time also. When that line comes across the chat, I block the user.It's funny but whenever I tell them I am in Ghana too (although I usually forget to use the proxy when I am really there and get blocked off the site) and ask them to meet me at a certain location they tend to disappear. Once the person asked me if I was a scammer and I told them that I was. They admitted that they were too then disappeared.

Gaijin Gigolo
01-09-11, 19:28
As most of you already know. DIA is a fantastic place to meet chicks for pre-arranged fun. I had been chatting one Cebuana 18yo up and got straight to the point with her. I would take her shopping, dinner and back to my room for some sweet lovemaking afterward. She agree without hesitation, even though she claimed she 'had never been touched." I met her at the Robinson Place Mall in Cebu City as arranged. She had on a short skirt and tee shirt. Her legs got me hard from the start. We skipped the shopping bit at her suggestion and she had already eaten so I told her we'd go to my room first and I would give her some money to shop later. Back in my room she was very quiet and nervous. But as soon as I sat down on the couch beside her and started to caress her and give her a kiss, she warmed up instantly. I kissed her and started working my hand up her thigh and she spread her legs and started to moan. I soon had her panties down around her ankles and her skirt up around her midriff, tee shirt up and bra off. I fingered her for a while while sucking her young titties then carried her to the bed and layed her back, went down on her, lickiing and fingering her. It was obvious she had never experienced this before. She was writhing and moaning and grabbing my hair. I moved up and rubbed the head of my cock over her tight pussy next. . She looked down and gave me a nervous look but spread her legs for me and covered her face. She was very wet and I soon was able to work it in. Only halfway at first. Then after I moved up for some kissing and sucking her titties, she got even wetter and I went to work. Fucking her deeply, popping her tight cherry and feeling her orgasms gripping my dick for the first time she'd ever had one. I laid back next and pulled her on top of me. And she rode me slowly as I grabbed her ass and sucked her titties some more. I grabbed her tiny ass hard harder and made her ride me harder and she soon was cumming again. As she got tired, I stood her up and bent her over slightly and worked it into her still throbbing pussy from behind at the edge of the bed. Grabbing and smacking that hot tight ass made her knees buckle but she managed to take it and let me fuck her til I spun her around and came all over her budding titties. She ran to the shower after that. Came back out all shy like we'd just met again, fully clothed and sat down on the couch. She told me she had to go but wanted to know if we could do this again. Tomorrow. And the next day. And every day til I left town. She was sweet and nervous but tight and wet as they come. I gave her 1000 pesos and taxi fare and sent her home. She seemed very happy with what I had done to her..and given her. She was quite the hot little fuck for the next 5 days in a row.

Red Kilt
01-10-11, 04:26
You said it perfectly right RK. I'm going there next weekend and in theory I have 7 bookings in a 3 day slot. Now I know that some won't work for various reasons but I will be fine with 5.

Rather like a cricket match really. You're not sure whether with 5 wickets down its a good performance or not. Unless of course its the English batting in which case the Aussies know you will have 100's more runs scored against you. Just in case you thought the cricket jokes had ended RK! Send me a text when you are in-between assignations FF.

I hope you get your 5 out of 7. As for cricket, there are spoil-sports on the board who don't like us talking about "in-house" jokes, and I fully support them.

There should not ever be ANY reference to cricket on this site EVER AGAIN.

Now, as I was saying, I will check out findloveasia. Com and see which women are doubling up on this site too.

BTW, as I have posted before, I had another experience of a girl's profile on DIA being completely opposite to how she turned out. Her profile said "Shy, good girl, wants to meet nice guy. No playing etc".

We met at MOA, sat down for coffee, and she wanted to sit next to me on the bench seat in the coffee shop (and I mean "next to me", as in "right up close touching from shoulder to knees").

Within 30 mins we were heading for SOGO and 3 hours of bliss.

Profiles really don't mean much at all, so don't be put off by them on your initial contact.

Slippery
01-10-11, 14:26
Twice in the last week I had girls ask for money for return ferry fare from the provinces to Manila. Twice I asked who would be so frigg'ng stupid as to only buy a one way ticket and then spend all of their money in the province.

FreebieFan
01-10-11, 14:52
Heard from one girl I know in Davao all teary eyed today. Said some Australian guy (No RK its not a joke about burnt sports equipment) had scammed her by promising to pay for photos of her. She said she sent them to him but he never paid for them. She then started laughing and said the photos she had sent him werent of her. This world has all sorts of characters.

Then I had an YM chat with an old friend. Ms A used to be the hottest girl in Rogues till the mamasn fired her for being too much a party girl.

I remember her totally naked on the bar one drunken wine and cheese party. She was great fun and really loved to party with boys and girls. Got a memorable blow from her in Rockwell cinema one day.

Anyways today we are chatting and she's says she can't stay for long.

Her Hubbie (a Swiss guy) was home, they now live in the province, she doesn't see guys anymore, misses to see girls, and says she's now a dutiful wife with baby as well.

Some guys here probably know who I'm talking about. Funny how the girls change but we horny Andersons and horny Cooks don't.

Wicked Roger
01-10-11, 16:29
Twice in the last week I had girls ask for money for return ferry fare from the provinces to Manila. Twice I asked who would be so frigg'ng stupid as to only buy a one way ticket and then spend all of their money in the province.They could say "well I will find aguy even more stupid to pay the return fare later" and they will find trust me LOL

Gaijin Gigolo
01-10-11, 18:47
Great story. Thanks, GG.Cheers for the note. .

Robbaf
01-10-11, 22:20
Got a message on YM today from some girl I've never talked to before.

Said she got my name from a website, had seen my pic, was interested to meet, and sent me her number.

I replied and saw she was a 30 year old, with lovely smile home alone somewhere in Cavite.

I told her I was in Manila next week and maybe we could meet. She insisted on checking that I now had her number again. I confirmed I had.

I told her I needed a sleep, but I couldn't sleep so I watched some movies of me and my old girlfriend.

I got another message from her mid wank as it were, asking what day we could meet.

I told her I was naked and busy so she asked if she could join.

So there are we are doing the webcam thing. 15 minutes after saying Hello.

Her body confirmed she should be on my "doables " list for my next week trip. She says she can't wait to meet me. And with her little warm body, I think Ms 30 from Cavite will get what she wants. Especially as we will meet at Heritage hotel and take a little Sogo trip therafter!

I love Lifes unexpected moments! FF, I always enjoy your reports, but I have to ask, if she got your name from a website, how did she get your YM?

In the past I have had girls give girls my YM to try and see if I would bite on their friends. Any time I get a YM that is not in my friends list, I do not reply.

Robb

Robbaf
01-10-11, 22:23
Twice in the last week I had girls ask for money for return ferry fare from the provinces to Manila. Twice I asked who would be so frigg'ng stupid as to only buy a one way ticket and then spend all of their money in the province.Your are correct, that is one of the oldest scams in the PI. I had a girl in Samar who complained she spent all her money on building her house and could not afford to go back to AC. I told her, it sucks to be her and when I went to AC a week later, she was back in the bar:D

Robb

Wicked Roger
01-10-11, 22:42
Now this is for you 'neanderthals' (I as call you nicely LOL) who for some unknown twisted reasons like the girls unshaved. Despite my efforts in Cebu to the contrary. Robbaf, David_33 et al please take note of the following DIA girl LOL.

Mentioned in earlier FR a DIA girl who I have known for a while asking for an IPhone for her undying love and devotion to me. That tempered with her rules regarding no nude photos, no CIM, no greek etc. List went on. I played along but she was being very silly and although seriously cute (likes to model, nice body, spinner) there are plenty as cute in Cebu etc much cheaper and less resistant/more compliant to WR's menu :D

This demand regarding her love etc recently dropped to 15k pesos but same conditions. Again I play along (part of me says this is the ex boyfriend who has the ID. But I do manage a very quick cam session of about a minute before the cam went off)

Now she YMs me again (messages like "you want to f#k" etc) saying just buy her a phone and she is mine forever, compliant etc but still same conditions.

Now. Knowing that all (well most) Filipinas understand mobile brands I told her I had a Nokia dual SIM with me (cost $30) she could have and thus deal sealed I could have my wicked way before I left. Of course I am naive LOL. She mentioned the brand and price (Samsung 8k pesos).

So again playing along I agreed, told her wear the pek peks and heels, where to meet in Ayalaetc and then said don't shower just come to the hotel, do it there and shave. Standard words for man of culture like myself :p

Then the bombshell. She would not shave, she was tirmmed some hair but no more. Absolute refusal.

Now tell me guys, have you ever met a Filipina that would not shave for a brand new expensive mobile. Not me. So we cut off YM.

Maybe it was the boyfriend after all but plenty more Cebuanas much cheaper, less demanding and shaved. And if will be the time I get to DATY on them LOL.

Any takers for this DIA girl who says no CIM no Greek no nude photos (well maybe but no face) , hairy muff and much more baggage? PM for details.

Perhaps finally you hair muff lovers a girl who truly loves hair and refuses to shave for any temptations

PS she sent me another YM before I left - a general "Hi boys' message. Amazing memory span!

David_33
01-10-11, 23:51
WR, I think you should experience the joys of shaving YOUR privates. Then maybe you will understand her refusal.

Fast Buck Artist
01-11-11, 04:00
PS she sent me another YM before I left - a general "Hi boys' message. Amazing memory span!Hi Boys? Sounds like you caught a ladyboy buddy.

Hairy Wonder
01-11-11, 04:13
WR, I think you should experience the joys of shaving YOUR privates. Then maybe you will understand her refusal.Had that done to me in preparation for a surgery (can't remember if it was the removal of my appendix, or the gall bladder). I have no idea why my genitals needed to be hairless for removing something in my gut! Regardless, it was very itchy and uncomfortable for about a week after. Even so, if a horny spinner wanted to shave me, I would let her! .

Red Kilt
01-11-11, 05:44
.

In the past I have had girls give girls my YM to try and see if I would bite on their friends. Any time I get a YM that is not in my friends list, I do not reply.

RobbI had a girl in Davao get one of her friends to send me a message on DIA to check up and see if I was a player.

She discovered that I was.

The original girl got pissed off but the friend was seriously cute and I ended up seeing her on the next visit hahaha.

Steve Dubai
01-11-11, 07:41
My observation and comparison.

I have been on CB for two months now. At first I got about 80 smiles / e-mails a day for the first two weeks, then it seemed to drop to about 20 per day. This was with very little searching from my side. Two months on and I still get about 10 smiles / e-mails each day. I started by trying to play the nice guy, but after a few weeks and reading this forum, I changed my tact to be more direct about not wanting a serious relationship, and the conversations still continued.

After visiting Makati in December (See FR in that thread) I came to the conclusion that I just don; t have the time to play our a few dates to get the girls in the sack. I also read a number of times how easy it is to get DIA girls into the sack, spelling out exactly what you are looking for.

With another trip on my mind, I thought I would see if a more direct approach would work having read comments about meet-ups from DIA.

So out of curiosity, I joined DIA about 3 weeks ago. I have not searched that much, as I did on CB. I put a message that I am not looking for a serious reltionship, but company on my trip and gifts can be expected. So far I've had 18 interested girls from Philipines and 8 from Thailand.

Obviously I have not got the right MO for this type of meet-up. Any lesssons from anyone. I'm I being too direct on the profile. Is it all in the chat?

Steve

Wicked Roger
01-11-11, 12:17
Hi Boys? Sounds like you caught a ladyboy buddy.She is definitely not a LB as have met her before and I vouch for that LOL

Wicked Roger
01-11-11, 12:18
WR, I think you should experience the joys of shaving YOUR privates. Then maybe you will understand her refusal.Daivid.

I do and it is quite liberating LOL As long you don't offer am safe

Now that is a thought to take to dinner, bed etc.

Red Kilt
01-11-11, 12:29
So out of curiosity, I joined DIA about 3 weeks ago. I have not searched that much, as I did on CB. I put a message that I am not looking for a serious reltionship, but company on my trip and gifts can be expected. So far I've had 18 interested girls from Philipines and 8 from Thailand.

Obviously I have not got the right MO for this type of meet-up. Any lesssons from anyone. I'm I being too direct on the profile. Is it all in the chat?

SteveYour MO is fine Steve.

I have found that the best approach is to be very direct and very specific in what you want and just be patient until a "live" one comes along.

When I get either the usual irritating "Hi" or "Hi. How are you?" or a "Interested" msg I still respond by asking IF they have read my profile and IF they understand it. I do this especially for the women whose profiles seem to be directly opposite to what I am suggesting.

Around 50% write back saying Yes they understand what I want and are OK with it. Some tell me they didn't write their profile (WTF) ; others say they just copied other profiles.

I then pick the best of this group and follow up.

However, as I and others have said before, there is sometimes a hell of a difference between the girl you chat with (even on cam) and the girl you meet in person, so always give yourself room to ease yourself away if she doesn't shape up. Above all don't tell her where you are staying until you decide to take her there.

I met one today. She was very flirty on chat, looked ok, seemed to promise everything. In person she was shorter and much chubbier than she had said in her stats, and she did nothing for me at all when we met. I bought her a coffee, had a 30 min chat and then sent her on her way without transport costs because she was in my area anyway for a job interview so I felt no obligation for that and she never asked (I usually give them fare if they are not more than 30 mins late LOL).

In general though, if you are on a tight schedule on a visit, I agree that you can waste a lot of time with DIA women and sometimes with not much return. Of course, we can all report the highly successful encounters but it is not likely that these happen every time.

Hope this helps.

David_33
01-11-11, 16:49
They are experts at positioning the webcam in such a way as to disguise "sub-standard" body parts. Have to insist that they stand up. Many won't saying that there are too many people around and that it would embarrass them.

Mc Don
01-11-11, 18:35
My observation and comparison.

I have been on CB for two months now. At first I got about 80 smiles / e-mails a day for the first two weeks, then it seemed to drop to about 20 per day. This was with very little searching from my side. Two months on and I still get about 10 smiles / e-mails each day. I started by trying to play the nice guy, but after a few weeks and reading this forum, I changed my tact to be more direct about not wanting a serious relationship, and the conversations still continued.

After visiting Makati in December (See FR in that thread) I came to the conclusion that I just don; t have the time to play our a few dates to get the girls in the sack. I also read a number of times how easy it is to get DIA girls into the sack, spelling out exactly what you are looking for.

With another trip on my mind, I thought I would see if a more direct approach would work having read comments about meet-ups from DIA.

So out of curiosity, I joined DIA about 3 weeks ago. I have not searched that much, as I did on CB. I put a message that I am not looking for a serious reltionship, but company on my trip and gifts can be expected. So far I've had 18 interested girls from Philipines and 8 from Thailand.

Obviously I have not got the right MO for this type of meet-up. Any lesssons from anyone. I'm I being too direct on the profile. Is it all in the chat?

SteveMake sure you post here how you went. I might do the same on my next trip in May. If my trip is before yours I will let you know as well.

Slippery
01-11-11, 19:39
Twice in the last week I had girls ask for money for return ferry fare from the provinces to Manila. Twice I asked who would be so frigg'ng stupid as to only buy a one way ticket and then spend all of their money in the province.Tommorow is my birthday and I have no money to celebrate it. I don't even know who the woman is or how she got my yahoo I'd.

Gaijin Gigolo
01-11-11, 19:42
...I have no idea why my genitals needed to be hairless for removing something in my gut! Maybe the doc just had a thing for hairless nut sacks? You'll never know what he did while you were unconscious. .

Gaijin Gigolo
01-11-11, 19:50
My observation and comparison.

I have been on CB for two months now. At first I got about 80 smiles / e-mails a day for the first two weeks, then it seemed to drop to about 20 per day. This was with very little searching from my side. Two months on and I still get about 10 smiles / e-mails each day. I started by trying to play the nice guy, but after a few weeks and reading this forum, I changed my tact to be more direct about not wanting a serious relationship, and the conversations still continued.

After visiting Makati in December (See FR in that thread) I came to the conclusion that I just don; t have the time to play our a few dates to get the girls in the sack. I also read a number of times how easy it is to get DIA girls into the sack, spelling out exactly what you are looking for.

With another trip on my mind, I thought I would see if a more direct approach would work having read comments about meet-ups from DIA.

So out of curiosity, I joined DIA about 3 weeks ago. I have not searched that much, as I did on CB. I put a message that I am not looking for a serious reltionship, but company on my trip and gifts can be expected. So far I've had 18 interested girls from Philipines and 8 from Thailand.

Obviously I have not got the right MO for this type of meet-up. Any lesssons from anyone. I'm I being too direct on the profile. Is it all in the chat?

SteveDunno if this helps or not, but I find the percentage of DIA girls who are willing to meet up and play is about 60 percent. I message first the ones I like the looks of and tell them straight up front 'love to take you shopping, dinner, then back to my room for some sweet lovemaking afterward." Once I'm in Cebu, those I had emphatic 'yes' hits from show up about 90 percent of the time. I've done this pre-arranged DIA date thing on three separate trips now with the same results. Bear in mind I've always focused on Cebu though, not sure what my success rate might be elsewhere but I suspect pretty close. I'm sure other participants of the forum here would have differing numbers to share.

Paul2020
01-12-11, 00:16
Twice in the last week I had girls ask for money for return ferry fare from the provinces to Manila. Twice I asked who would be so frigg'ng stupid as to only buy a one way ticket and then spend all of their money in the province.There was one student nurse I had been chatting with and intended to see on my next trip to the Philippines. One day I get a request for $150 for her to return home on a ferry from some other island from an examination study course. I emailed her back to find out exactly where she needed to go.

Then I checked the ferry tickets and saw that I could purchase her a ticket for $12. I emailed her back and told her I would purchase the ticket for her online. Never heard back from her again. I guess she swam and drown. Too bad, she was hot.

Wicked Roger
01-12-11, 01:48
There was one student nurse I had been chatting with and intended to see on my next trip to the Philippines. One day I get a request for $150 for her to return home on a ferry from some other island from an examination study course. I emailed her back to find out exactly where she needed to go.

Then I checked the ferry tickets and saw that I could purchase her a ticket for $12. I emailed her back and told her I would purchase the ticket for her online. Never heard back from her again. I guess she swam and drown. Too bad, she was hot. That is alaways a good trick to remember. Say you will help but you will buy the ticket online and she can collect it. Tends to weed them out. Some will say don't as aunty / cousin etc gets a great discount.

If buying anything use the creidt card as then you can reclaim etc.

The scammers hate credit cards as they know they can't do much and can't get the casheven if they pick up the ticket

FreebieFan
01-12-11, 11:53
Maybe the doc just had a thing for hairless nut sacks? You'll never know what he did while you were unconscious. .The reason is from the risk of infections that can be carried by hairs. Standard medical procedure.

FreebieFan
01-12-11, 12:00
Been chatting to one girl from some province, can't really remember which. She Says its a 10 hour bus ride to Manila.

She looks fine on cam, is 23, and her pics also look fine. Weve been chatting for all of one week. She says she wants to come from whatever province to meet me. We've agreed that I will meet her at 10am on Saturday morning after her 10 hour bus ride.

She hasnt asked for one centavo, or asked how long we will be together only that we enjoy each others company. Says she doesn't mind if I dress her up (got some new uniforms!) , or take pics etc.

Just says she wants to get hot with me. 10 hours to be with a total stranger. Takes all sorts I guess.

She will probably be kicked out of her Sogo bed after 4 hours as I have others in line. But I'm just astonished that a gal would sit on a crappy bus for 10 hours to get laid. I'm sure I'd only sit on a bus for 2. LOL.

Then again was chatting with a gal from Davao recently, and we start talking about life and love and sex, and she says she could come to Manila if I wanted, and we could split the airfare. I ask her why, she says " I'm lonely and I want some fun" Says " my friends have fun so I think I should have too". Medium build, big tits. 32.

FreebieFan
01-12-11, 14:57
Dunno if this helps or not, but I find the percentage of DIA girls who are willing to meet up and play is about 60 percent. I message first the ones I like the looks of and tell them straight up front 'love to take you shopping, dinner, then back to my room for some sweet lovemaking afterward." Once I'm in Cebu, those I had emphatic 'yes' hits from show up about 90 percent of the time. I've done this pre-arranged DIA date thing on three separate trips now with the same results. Bear in mind I've always focused on Cebu though, not sure what my success rate might be elsewhere but I suspect pretty close. I'm sure other participants of the forum here would have differing numbers to share.Out of those I meet and I always have a plan A and Plan B lined up I'm hitting about 80. Every trip I repeat with some and also a new one or two. Seems to work well. Usually will go for a daytime girl an evening one. After a nice drink and a meal they are always ready to go home with me it seems. I leave the 18-20s tear olds to WR but I'm fine with 21-25s and that seems to work well. Ocassionally they will whinge about having no job and can they " lend some money" but sometimes not. Either way I give them a gift. And that aways helps with getting repeats.

I think its how you approach. Mine is softly softly, and they all think I'm a great gentleman. Even when I ask politely "can I remove your panties please ".

Gaijin Gigolo
01-12-11, 18:59
As most of you already know. DIA is a fantastic place to meet chicks for pre-arranged fun. I had been chatting one Cebuana 18yo up and got straight to the point with her. I would take her shopping, dinner and back to my room for some sweet lovemaking afterward. She agree without hesitation, even though she claimed she 'had never been touched." I met her at the Robinson Place Mall in Cebu City as arranged. She had on a short skirt and tee shirt. Her legs got me hard from the start. We skipped the shopping bit at her suggestion and she had already eaten so I told her we'd go to my room first and I would give her some money to shop later. Back in my room she was very quiet and nervous. But as soon as I sat down on the couch beside her and started to caress her and give her a kiss, she warmed up instantly. I kissed her and started working my hand up her thigh and she spread her legs and started to moan. I soon had her panties down around her ankles and her skirt up around her midriff, tee shirt up and bra off. I fingered her for a while while sucking her young titties then carried her to the bed and layed her back, went down on her, lickiing and fingering her. It was obvious she had never experienced this before. She was writhing and moaning and grabbing my hair. I moved up and rubbed the head of my cock over her tight pussy next. . She looked down and gave me a nervous look but spread her legs for me and covered her face. She was very wet and I soon was able to work it in. Only halfway at first. Then after I moved up for some kissing and sucking her titties, she got even wetter and I went to work. Fucking her deeply, popping her tight cherry and feeling her orgasms gripping my dick for the first time she'd ever had one. I laid back next and pulled her on top of me. And she rode me slowly as I grabbed her ass and sucked her titties some more. I grabbed her tiny ass hard harder and made her ride me harder and she soon was cumming again. As she got tired, I stood her up and bent her over slightly and worked it into her still throbbing pussy from behind at the edge of the bed. Grabbing and smacking that hot tight ass made her knees buckle but she managed to take it and let me fuck her til I spun her around and came all over her budding titties. She ran to the shower after that. Came back out all shy like we'd just met again, fully clothed and sat down on the couch. She told me she had to go but wanted to know if we could do this again. Tomorrow. And the next day. And every day til I left town. She was sweet and nervous but tight and wet as they come. I gave her 1000 pesos and taxi fare and sent her home. She seemed very happy with what I had done to her..and given her. She was quite the hot little fuck for the next 5 days in a row.Http://www.internationalsexguide.info/forum/showthread.php?2446-Photo-Gallery&p=1111723&viewfull=1#post1111723

Cunning Stunt
01-13-11, 03:27
I think its how you approach. Mine is softly softly, and they all think I'm a great gentleman. Even when I ask politely "can I remove your panties please ".You are a man after my own heart. It must be the shared tyke blood:).

I learned long ago, that it is necessary to be ultra-polite with Filipinas in order to get your wicked way. It reaps big dividends. In everyday life, Filipinos are routinely polite to each other and I have learned to follow suit. Won't call men sir (I always call them boss, which they like even more) but I always call women ma'am or miss which always elicits a positive response. I have seen too many ignorant, rude Kanos get increasingly frustrated and angry in their dealings with stubborn Pinoys when a little good manners would have quickly defused an uncomfortable situation.

In a similar vein, have you noticed how some Pinays carry on calling you Sir even when you are discussing, in intimate physical detail, what you are going to do to them? It can be quite a turn on.


She will probably be kicked out of her Sogo bed after 4 hours as I have others in line. But I'm just astonished that a gal would sit on a crappy bus for 10 hours to get laid. I'm sure I'd only sit on a bus for 2. LOL.Funny, though, how guys will put up with 14-16 hours on a much more uncomfortable plane to get to the same Pinay poontang;).


She hasnt asked for one centavo, or asked how long we will be together only that we enjoy each others company. Says she doesn't mind if I dress her up (got some new uniforms!) , or take pics etc.I, too, now have a decent collection of fantasy uniforms (isn't Ebay wonderful?) , which most of my Pinays just love to be dressed up in. My current fave is the air hostess gear. Couldn't get a real Air Asia uniform (has any full blooded male not lusted after one of their immaculately dressed trolley dollies) so it had to be the next best thing. Whoaaa, we are coming in for landing, return your air hostess to a vertical position!

Help, I'm turning into a dirty old man:D.

Econo Tech
01-13-11, 04:31
They could say "well I will find aguy even more stupid to pay the return fare later" and they will find trust me LOLI thought you guys are smart enough not to ask such questions.

Fredje1961
01-13-11, 07:45
You are a man after my own heart. It must be the shared tyke blood.

Help, I'm turning into a dirty old man.And what's wrong with being a dirty old man? Isn't life wonderful once you've understood how these young ladies enjoy the company of dirty old men?

FreebieFan
01-13-11, 11:42
I, too, now have a decent collection of fantasy uniforms (isn't Ebay wonderful?) , which most of my Pinays just love to be dressed up in. My current fave is the air hostess gear. Couldn't get a real Air Asia uniform (has any full blooded male not lusted after one of their immaculately dressed trolley dollies) so it had to be the next best thing. Whoaaa, we are coming in for landing, return your air hostess to a vertical position!

Help, I'm turning into a dirty old man.Funny, I have two airhostess uniforms, in my Manila bag ready for use this weekend.

Interestingly here in Taipei they have a street that rents uniforms for the weekend to anyone who wants to rent.

Its usually the anime age group who rents and its all done quite openly, deposit paid etc.

They have air hostess, nurse, police but the most popular, aside from Sailor Moon types, are cheerleaders. Will be having a look at those after this trip.

Gaijin Gigolo
01-13-11, 11:46
Haha. Just got this totally unsolicited one word message, with me mentioning not one thing about China.

"ok"

Lotus10, 50, China 3 hrs. 18 mins ago.

Ok

Mc Don
01-14-11, 04:49
Funny, I have two airhostess uniforms, in my Manila bag ready for use this weekend.

Interestingly here in Taipei they have a street that rents uniforms for the weekend to anyone who wants to rent.

Its usually the anime age group who rents and its all done quite openly, deposit paid etc.

They have air hostess, nurse, police but the most popular, aside from Sailor Moon types, are cheerleaders. Will be having a look at those after this trip. Can we get more info on this? Name of the street / prices? Taipei has been on my rader for while but never got the time to visit.

Slippery
01-14-11, 11:38
I have dengue fever. Can you send me $100. 00?

X Man
01-14-11, 12:13
I've never used such a direct profile, but I think 60% is about what I've achieved on the Visayans and Mindanao on a first or second date. A majority of the 40% failure tends to be those who didn't pass muster on the first date.

Recently came back from a rare tour of Subic / AC / Mnl. I don't think these places give good value for your online chat endeavors, unless you have a lot of time and patience. X.


Dunno if this helps or not, but I find the percentage of DIA girls who are willing to meet up and play is about 60 percent. I message first the ones I like the looks of and tell them straight up front 'love to take you shopping, dinner, then back to my room for some sweet lovemaking afterward." Once I'm in Cebu, those I had emphatic 'yes' hits from show up about 90 percent of the time. I've done this pre-arranged DIA date thing on three separate trips now with the same results. Bear in mind I've always focused on Cebu though, not sure what my success rate might be elsewhere but I suspect pretty close. I'm sure other participants of the forum here would have differing numbers to share.

FreebieFan
01-14-11, 12:34
Can we get more info on this? Name of the street / prices? Taipei has been on my rader for while but never got the time to visit.Theres one street in Ximen district, Hangzhou Lu, and they have nurses outfits, police, hostess, cheerleaders, and sailor moon all hanging on poles. Prices, to buy is about NT$ 750 or US$22. To rent for the weekend only 20% of that total. It seems its where all the students go before they go for a bonk.

An ISG bud in Taipei put on to this place, and I can see I might be a visitor there till I have the full fantasy uniform "set" LOL

Gaijin Gigolo
01-14-11, 18:07
I have dengue fever. Can you send me $100. 00?Haha. I once had a girl tell me she needed money for her sick grandmother's hospital expenses....just two days after she had also told me her grandmother had died and she needed money to bury her. Forgetful, that one.

Radical Guy
01-14-11, 21:45
Haha. I once had a girl tell me she needed money for her sick grandmother's hospital expenses....just two days after she had also told me her grandmother had died and she needed money to bury her. Forgetful, that one.Don't be such a Doubting Thomas! Everyone knows that Filipino witch doctors are frequently able to bring the dead back to life. Clearly, this is what happened here. .

Red Kilt
01-15-11, 02:38
Check out this link. Note carefully the final line in the article.

http://ph.news.yahoo.com/gma/20110114/tph-phl-post-in-guangzhou-warns-vs-onlin-ac8c905.html

Brymor
01-15-11, 08:57
Don't be such a Doubting Thomas! Everyone knows that Filipino witch doctors are frequently able to bring the dead back to life. Clearly, this is what happened here. .Did I miss something here? She said that her grandmother died 2 days AFTER needing her hospital expenses paid. Sounds quite normal to me with the public hospitals in the Philippines. Maybe they decided to exact revenge when she wasn't able to pay her bill

Cunning Stunt
01-15-11, 10:12
Did I miss something here? No, she asked for hep with hospital expenses 2 days post mortem. Mind you this also is possible as the hospital could have been chasing outstanding bills (although its unlikely as it is pay as you go in Philippine hospitals). Of course, she could have two grannies, each sick at the same time. And a three legged Caribou requiring an artificial limb!

I used to use a similar excuse of a grannies demise and funeral when I needed a day off work. That is until my boss asked me how come I'd got three grandmothers:).

Gaijin Gigolo
01-15-11, 10:14
Don't be such a Doubting Thomas! Everyone knows that Filipino witch doctors are frequently able to bring the dead back to life. Clearly, this is what happened here. .Haha. Yah, probably.

Gaijin Gigolo
01-15-11, 10:15
No, she asked for hep with hospital expenses 2 days post mortem. Mind you this also is possible as the hospital could have been chasing outstanding bills (although its unlikely as it is pay as you go in Philippine hospitals). Of course, she could have two grannies, each sick at the same time. And a three legged Caribou requiring an artificial limb!

I used to use a similar excuse of a grannies demise and funeral when I needed a day off work. That is until my boss asked me how come I'd got three grandmothers. The girl was just lying to me and forgot her own lie. That was my point. And she did mention a caribou too now that I think about it.

Cunning Stunt
01-15-11, 10:30
....I know 'because I met one last night. A perfect little spinner, with glowing brown skin, perfect complexion (often a let down with Manila girls), shiny black page boy hairstyle and a body to die for. All in a pint size frame. She was also a smiley, happy young thing, neither too sassy and streetwise, nor too naive and brain dead, like so many Pinays. I really thought that I had died and gone to mongering heaven.

And not only that but when I got her into a Eurotel room (yes, I did charm my way into her teeny weeny knickers) she turned out to be a mattress firecracker. I was so astonished and bedazzled that I forgot to ask for dirty photos! Am I losing it? Never mind, there's always the next time:).

My perfect ten.

Help, I'm in lust (again);).

Red Kilt
01-15-11, 12:16
The girl was just lying to me and forgot her own lie. That was my point. And she did mention a caribou too now that I think about it.Just a point of clarification guys.

The animal in the Philippines that attracts so much call for funding is a carabao (spelt kalabaw in Tagalog).

It is often also called the water buffalo but not to be confused with the wild ones that inhabit outback Australia or Africa. The carabao is a very docile and hard-working animal.

The caribou is a cold-weather animal from northern cold climates.

As you were. Back to tales of woe.

Gaijin Gigolo
01-15-11, 19:19
. I know 'because I met one last night. A perfect little spinner, with glowing brown skin, perfect complexion (often a let down with Manila girls) , shiny black page boy hairstyle and a body to die for. All in a pint size frame. She was also a smiley, happy young thing, neither too sassy and streetwise, nor too naive and brain dead, like so many Pinays. I really thought that I had died and gone to mongering heaven.

And not only that but when I got her into a Eurotel room (yes, I did charm my way into her teeny weeny knickers) she turned out to be a mattress firecracker. I was so astonished and bedazzled that I forgot to ask for dirty photos! Am I losing it? Never mind, there's always the next time.

My perfect ten.

Help, I'm in lust (again). Coool. Good on yer. And did you meet this one DIA or elsewhere?

Cunning Stunt
01-16-11, 03:12
Coool. Good on yer. And did you meet this one DIA or elsewhere?Tagged. She had just joined and hit lucky immediately (that is if she considers meeting a randy old perve like me, lucky). She is a real student (saw the pictures and her college ID) so, before you ask, I made the unasked for, but well deserved small contribution to her education fund;).

X Man
01-16-11, 10:03
I had a boss who insisted on sending flowers to the funeral home. I had no fkn idea since I was over 1000 miles away, so just blurted out a funeral home that I knew. Somehow the SOB was able to determine which funeral home it was because the flowers were there. And it wasn't the place I had suggested. I guess I was happy to see these unexpected flowers, but also couldn't help thinking that this was a devious way of searching out liars. I'm not a liar. Not usually.

CS, are you a liar? X.


I used to use a similar excuse of a grannies demise and funeral when I needed a day off work. That is until my boss asked me how come I'd got three grandmothers:).

Suwon
01-16-11, 14:34
R Qui is an 18 year old student on DIA. She is "free in the afternoons".

I contacted her and flat out said that I wanted to see her in my hotel room for a couple of hours next week. She asked if I would pay her, we agreed on a price in chat, and I might meet her next week. I can't say anything about her service levels, she stated in chat that she "doesn't care about price" and "just loves to fuck"; but that was after she asked for 3, 000 pesos as a first up request! Needless to say I baulked at that figure.

She doesn't like smokers, and from what I can see of her Facebook pics she has a baby already (so maybe she really does just love to fuck!).

Here is her DIA http://www.dateinasia.com/r.qui.html

I already have an evening date with a lass that WR recommended, but, I'm thinking of meeting this young spinner as a pre dinner snack.

I shall report back if I do venture forth, and please, if you contact her don't mention that you read about it here. I had a girl back out of an appointment last year after some other monger contacted her and said that he'd read on here that she would have sex for money! Try and be discreet and contact her as you would independent of this imformation.

Gaijin Gigolo
01-16-11, 15:12
Tagged. She had just joined and hit lucky immediately (that is if she considers meeting a randy old perve like me, lucky). She is a real student (saw the pictures and her college ID) so, before you ask, I made the unasked for, but well deserved small contribution to her education fund;).Haha. Well done!

Hairy Wonder
01-16-11, 16:37
R Qui is an 18 year old student on DIA. She is "free in the afternoons".

And please, if you contact her don't mention that you read about it here. I had a girl back out of an appointment last year after some other monger contacted her and said that he'd read on here that she would have sex for money! After having that experience, I think I would hold off on posting anything on here until after meeting the girl in person. That way, at least you can test drive her and tell us if she performs as well as she promises to do. I don't know why anybody would contact a potential contact of another monger, and tell her about this site. For that matter, why tell any woman about this site?

Just MHO.

HW

Offshore Swell
01-16-11, 16:57
R Qui is an 18 year old student on DIA. She is "free in the afternoons".

I contacted her and flat out said that I wanted to see her in my hotel room for a couple of hours next week. She asked if I would pay her, we agreed on a price in chat, and I might meet her next week. I can't say anything about her service levels, she stated in chat that she "doesn't care about price" and "just loves to fuck"; but that was after she asked for 3, 000 pesos as a first up request! Needless to say I baulked at that figure.

She doesn't like smokers, and from what I can see of her Facebook pics she has a baby already (so maybe she really does just love to fuck!).

Here is her DIA.

http://www.dateinasia.com/r.qui.html

I already have an evening date with a lass that WR recommended, but, I'm thinking of meeting this young spinner as a pre dinner snack.

I shall report back if I do venture forth, and please, if you contact her don't mention that you read about it here. I had a girl back out of an appointment last year after some other monger contacted her and said that he'd read on here that she would have sex for money! Try and be discreet and contact her as you would independent of this imformation. She's nice, I have seen her. Chatty. Loves being fucked. Happy to hang around and be fucked again

She hasn't had a baby so go for it.

OS

Bob Bowie
01-17-11, 07:50
She's nice, I have seen her. Chatty. Loves being fucked. Happy to hang around and be fucked again

She hasn't had a baby so go for it.

OS5' 5"? Is she really that tall? Huge for a pinay. She is on line now.

Red Kilt
01-17-11, 08:14
5' 5"? Is she really that tall? Huge for a pinay. She is on line now.She will be hiding her profile within 24 hours because she will have a few 100 hits on her page and I bet at least one of her suitors tells her where he learned about her, and asks her does she really like to fuck?

Happens every time some DIA girl gets a run here.

No competition from me. 18 year olds are way too young for me. Give me the more experienced ones any day

Wicked Roger
01-17-11, 15:14
She will be hiding her profile within 24 hours because she will have a few 100 hits on her page and I bet at least one of her suitors tells her where he learned about her, and asks her does she really like to fuck?

Happens every time some DIA girl gets a run here.

No competition from me. 18 year olds are way too young for me. Give me the more experienced ones any dayThere is always a prat / asshole etc who will say something while he types 1 handed trust me on that.

As for liking more experienced I assume you mean old ones RK, the MILFs ;) Because you are so old yourself :D .....with the exception of the peach of course :eek:

Red Kilt
01-17-11, 16:37
There is always a prat / asshole etc who will say something while he types 1 handed trust me on that.

As for liking more experienced I assume you mean old ones RK, the MILFs. Because you are so old yourself. . With the exception of the peach of course. I will back myself to beat you in a line up WR. More girls will pick me rather than you, unless they are kinky and weird and like nasty stuff then of course you will beat me (and everybody else) hands-down on that LOL.

So when do we get the FR and the accompanying lurid pics mate?
Looking forward to them. I assume you were aiming at middle stump every delivery but I bet you sprayed a few wide of middle and leg. (sorry guys - if you dont know cricket you will not know what I am talking about but I am sure you get the general idea)

Wicked Roger
01-18-11, 15:22
I will back myself to beat you in a line up WR. More girls will pick me rather than you, unless they are kinky and weird and like nasty stuff then of course you will beat me (and everybody else) hands-down on that LOL.

So when do we get the FR and the accompanying lurid pics mate?

Looking forward to them. I assume you were aiming at middle stump every delivery but I bet you sprayed a few wide of middle and leg. (sorry guys. If you don't know cricket you will not know what I am talking about but I am sure you get the general idea) LOL.

Well in any line up I would fix it so the girls are more like Cebu favourite and Bullet Nipples than others. And of course I would incentivise them with 'accessories' so I would be the natural 'normal' choice :eek:

FR? Lurid pictures? I never take those sort of photos RK. ;) Well just for your mucky mind and mainly peach shots.

As for spraying etc well a few do go leg and off as middle stump can be a tad boring while other guards are tighter and less used :p:

George111
01-19-11, 00:26
Are most ladies on the DIA site call girls or good girls? I will be going to the Philippines next month and decided to use another kind of approach, rather than going to the bars to pick up girls.

Jambo
01-19-11, 01:13
Are most ladies on the DIA site call girls or good girls?Hehe what, you looking for a girl to take to church? Just go to church and you will find good girls.

I believe all the online dating sites have a range of "good" to "hoping for rope a husband" to "looking to do it and thanks for the cab fare ++" to soft pro's. The old timers here may say the pay sites like Cherry Blossoms have more girls looking for husbands, and the free sites like DIA and Tagged filled in more with short-time semi-pro's.

Any way, you will spend more time (but a lot less than if you trolled for girls in the wild) , but maybe (depending on how firm you are about gifts) less money using dating sites compared to bar girls. IMHO though, its more engaging and a better girl friend experience than sitting in bars and drinking all day. Also I feel at more risk for theft, violence, and girl drama in the bar areas.

Cunning Stunt
01-19-11, 15:49
Just interested to know if any member know (biblically or otherwise) this rather tasty girl. Have noticed her rather provocative page on a well known dating site and wondered if she is for real. I think that the photo's are legit.

Sammon
01-19-11, 18:18
Are most ladies on the DIA site call girls or good girls? I will be going to the Philippines next month and decided to use another kind of approach, rather than going to the bars to pick up girls.Most ladies are not call girls or bargirls. Having said that how will you know which is which? You have to play it by ear after meeting the girl. You cannot decide by the way she behaves in bed. Many normal girls I have met are really good in bed.

Only the person who lives in Phi will find out the girls history. For a casual visitor it matters little. All we are looking for is good sex, company with least amount of damage. Beware that even normal girls are not above asking for money for services rendered.

Cheapy
01-19-11, 19:48
It's got a ladyboy face 4sure. But only an opinion.

Have never met it.

Cheapy


Just interested to know if any member know (biblically or otherwise) this rather tasty girl. Have noticed her rather provocative page on a well known dating site and wondered if she is for real. I think that the photo's are legit.

Cunning Stunt
01-20-11, 02:36
It's got a ladyboy face 4sure. But only an opinion.If she is then she is the worlds first heterosexual ladyboy:D. For I have since found out that she is a lesbian and is only interested in girls. What a waste!

GregLondon
01-20-11, 04:14
Are most ladies on the DIA site call girls or good girls? I will be going to the Philippines next month and decided to use another kind of approach, rather than going to the bars to pick up girls.The DIA demographic varies considerably depending on which city you are searching. In Angeles a high percentage will be bar girls or ex bar girls or soon to be bar girls. In other citiies and especially the provinces its less common for bar girls to sign up to DIA as they are getting a steady stream of contacts through the bar.

In Phils the dividing line between Pro and semi pro and "good girls" is blurry. IN AC, Manila and Cebu a high percentage will be willing to meet up and have sex. Unless the girl is over 30 or has a good job or you have conned her into thinking she is a prospective wife (not good form in my book) then she will probably have some expectation of financial compensation. How much will depend on how far down the road to professionalism she has travelled.

Red Kilt
01-20-11, 08:12
The DIA demographic varies considerably depending on which city you are searching. In Angeles a high percentage will be bar girls or ex bar girls or soon to be bar girls. In other citiies and especially the provinces its less common for bar girls to sign up to DIA as they are getting a steady stream of contacts through the bar.

In Phils the dividing line between Pro and semi pro and "good girls" is blurry. IN AC, Manila and Cebu a high percentage will be willing to meet up and have sex. Unless the girl is over 30 or has a good job or you have conned her into thinking she is a prospective wife (not good form in my book) then she will probably have some expectation of financial compensation. How much will depend on how far down the road to professionalism she has travelled. I agree completely with GL.

I have tried to get some idea of whether there is some common thread running through the DIA profiles and after a fair amount of (serious) analysis I have found that you virtually have to start at square 1 with each individual.

The content of the profiles seems to mean nothing at all UNLESS they are obviously intelligent, have a job, and have written a sensible profile that is unique to them and not just copied it. These latter girls are generally fairly clear in what they want and can spot BS from a distance. As GL says, if they are looking for a serious relationship and you're not, then it is not good form to give them bullshit just to con them. Apart from the fact that it will cost you $$, karma says that it will come back to bite you.

For those girls who have the standard "no games please, no pic-no reply, God-fearing guys only, serious guys only, etc etc" in their profiles, ignore it and send them a reasonable message as a first contact.

My MO if I see one who piques my interest (regardless of what she says in her profile) is to click on "Show Interest" and wait for her to respond. Sometimes I don't even show interest - I just read the profile because I know she will also in time get to read mine.

If she replies in any way after I have seen that she has read my profile, then I know she is worth following up because my profile is very explicit that I want friends only for fun times and that I am not looking for a wife. If they read that and still reply then I disregard their profile and it is "game-on".

I think that there is no rule about money.
GL mentions that some will require financial compensation and he is correct. I have never had anybody ask me for money directly, although a few have asked (in advance) if I could refund them their travel costs because they have borrowed money to travel to meet me.

Fredje1961
01-20-11, 09:14
"Open minded" seems to give some indication.


I agree completely with GL.

I have tried to get some idea of whether there is some common thread running through the DIA profiles and after a fair amount of (serious) analysis I have found that you virtually have to start at square 1 with each individual.

The content of the profiles seems to mean nothing at all UNLESS they are obviously intelligent, have a job, and have written a sensible profile that is unique to them and not just copied it. These latter girls are generally fairly clear in what they want and can spot BS from a distance. As GL says, if they are looking for a serious relationship and you're not, then it is not good form to give them bullshit just to con them. Apart from the fact that it will cost you $$, karma says that it will come back to bite you.

For those girls who have the standard "no games please, no pic-no reply, God-fearing guys only, serious guys only, etc etc" in their profiles, ignore it and send them a reasonable message as a first contact.

My MO if I see one who piques my interest (regardless of what she says in her profile) is to click on "Show Interest" and wait for her to respond. Sometimes I don't even show interest. I just read the profile because I know she will also in time get to read mine.

If she replies in any way after I have seen that she has read my profile, then I know she is worth following up because my profile is very explicit that I want friends only for fun times and that I am not looking for a wife. If they read that and still reply then I disregard their profile and it is "game-on".

I think that there is no rule about money.

GL mentions that some will require financial compensation and he is correct. I have never had anybody ask me for money directly, although a few have asked (in advance) if I could refund them their travel costs because they have borrowed money to travel to meet me.

Cunning Stunt
01-22-11, 02:57
I recently arranged a meeting with a 30 yr old lady with a rather frumpy photo on DIA. I only agreed because she sounded kind of desperate and was willing to travel some distance from her home to come to my local mall. I was not expecting a great package so imagine my surprise when a tight little spinner of just my type turned up. Don't get me wrong, she was no blown away beauty but rather the cute 'teacher lady next door that you fantasize screwing' type. I'm sure everybody here can visualize the kind.

I took her to a long lunch after which I asked her what she wanted to do next. She suggested going window shopping and I said that I would rather be hung up by my thumbs. I countered that there was a Eurotel across the road and we could get to know each other better if we took one of their nicely appointed little rooms. She hummed and harred and finally texted me a message (although I was seated opposite her) which said, and I quote from my CP:

'IF I GO WITH U WE WILL NOT FUCK. ITS OK WITH U. DO ITS EMBARRASING? OR JUST OK'

Amazingly she then told me that she was a virgin and had never had anything bigger than a finger inside her fun box. You could have knocked me over with a featherlite.

'A 30 year old 'cute as a button' virgin here with me', 'surely not true', 'Never in a million years'. 'Could I really? ' Such is a cocksmans stream of consciousness.

So to cut a long story short, she joined me in the Eurotel room. I would like to tell you that I could and plowed her virgin furrow but I would be lying. Despite my most valiant attempts to persuade her that she had been holding onto it for 30 years just to give to me, there was no way I could voluntarily divest her of her maidenhead. She loved being licked and came several times to a chorus of 'I'm so wet' and 'I'm so tight' in her sexy, breathy voice, which did absolutely nothing to reduce my libido. I managed a solitary finger inside and ascertained she was 'wet', 'tight' and decidedly 'virgo intacta'. But apart from this, the pleasure was all hers. I received a perfunctory few licks that could optimistically be called a BJ, a covered clit fuck and 2 messy COF / COB shots. Wow, it took me back to the halcyon years of my teens / early twenties.

But it was a quiet afternoon's diversion and all, of course, for free although I did press a little taxi money onto her, for which she was absurdly grateful.

I'm now getting bombarded with text messages, which is likely a testament to my lingual technique but I probably won't see her again unless she is prepared for the next big step.

Screaming Beaver
01-22-11, 03:21
I'm now getting bombarded with text messages, which is likely a testament to my lingual technique but I probably won't see her again unless she is prepared for the next big step.LOL. And what would that be? Let me guess, a whizz on the mug?

Tally Wacker
01-22-11, 06:01
'IF I GO WITH U WE WILL NOT FUCK. ITS OK WITH U. DO ITS EMBARRASING? OR JUST OK'

Amazingly she then told me that she was a virgin and had never had anything bigger than a finger inside her fun box. You could have knocked me over with a featherlite.Cool story CS. It's always nice to get a girl that is curious and horny. Interesting that she stil a virgin but ended up with a big pervert. LOL.

Red Kilt
01-22-11, 07:40
"Open minded" seems to give some indication.No Fredje.

"Open-minded" is an over-used and frequently copied word in profiles for which most women have absolutely no idea of the meaning.

I have actually sent a message to several women asking what they mean by "open-minded" and what they say never correlates with what we would hope such a term means.

When women on DIA use the term "open-minded" it usually means that their brains have fallen out through the opening LOL

Slippery
01-22-11, 11:30
I'm supposed to meet a girl from the Commonwealth area of QC. I will be staying in Manila on Roxas about a km south of the US Embassy. Anybody have local knowledge on a mutually accessible place to meet up? Need help on this one.

Red Kilt
01-22-11, 13:09
I'm supposed to meet a girl from the Commonwealth area of QC. I will be staying in Manila on Roxas about a km south of the US Embassy. Anybody have local knowledge on a mutually accessible place to meet up? Need help on this one.Meet at Robinsons Mall in front of Starbucks at Pedro Gil entrance. But tell her to go inside and meet you inside between Starbucks and the Marks & Spencer store because there are a lot of baklas and other FLs who hang around outside Starbucks near the little water feature. She might feel a bit like a hooker if she waits there.

Anywhere else is too difficult for them to find. Remember to be VERY specific in your details where to meet and what TIME. They are usually late and they have very great difficulty in orientating themselves in geographic space.

Cunning Stunt
01-22-11, 13:40
Let me guess, a whizz on the mug?In good time, but that's jack shit and you know it:D.

Screaming Beaver
01-22-11, 15:25
In good time, but that's jack shit and you know it:D.My compliments for finding the only 30 year old virgin in the Phils. How does he do it? LOL

Fredje1961
01-22-11, 18:15
And this is exactly the way in which I loose any illusion after another. Too bad, that's life.

I'll have to try to find another way to identify the really naughty ones.


No Fredje.

"Open-minded" is an over-used and frequently copied word in profiles for which most women have absolutely no idea of the meaning.

I have actually sent a message to several women asking what they mean by "open-minded" and what they say never correlates with what we would hope such a term means.

When women on DIA use the term "open-minded" it usually means that their brains have fallen out through the opening LOL

Wicked Roger
01-22-11, 18:36
No Fredje.

"Open-minded" is an over-used and frequently copied word in profiles for which most women have absolutely no idea of the meaning.

I have actually sent a message to several women asking what they mean by "open-minded" and what they say never correlates with what we would hope such a term means.

When women on DIA use the term "open-minded" it usually means that their brains have fallen out through the opening LOLTend to agree RK.

I actually tell them my definition of 'open minded' and I still get a girls wanting to meet me. A few are however somewhat numbed and shocked by my definition which to be fair is honest and what us mongers would consider to be 'mild' :eek:

Sky Ryder
01-22-11, 19:32
Tend to agree RK.

I actually tell them my definition of 'open minded' and I still get a girls wanting to meet me. A few are however somewhat numbed and shocked by my definition which to be fair is honest and what us mongers would consider to be 'mild'. I don't know Roger, I am still trying to figure out how you convince the gals you entertain to be so "open minded", no matter how "mild" it may seem. While our proclivities may not be exactly the same, for the most part I think I would find your "playtime techniques" an enjoyable way to spend time with a lady willing to participate. I just don't seem to have found the right button to push to convince them to jump in and ride along! Heck I get push back when I ask to leave the lights on and wear their stiletoes during the act! Photos seems almost out of reach and, using some of the 3rd entrance toys. Well that is a quixotic dream! Just means I have to "try harder" I guess.

P. S. Thanks again for the info and effort to help!

KongKing
01-22-11, 21:17
While our proclivities may not be exactly the same.........Proclivities?

That reminds me of a rather intellectual student (sadly not in the Philippines) I once met, and with whom I was trying to advance my cause.

She said "my awareness of your proclivities in the esoteric aspects of sexual behaviour prevents you from such an erotic confrontation".

"I don't get it" I said.

"Precisely" she said.

Sky Ryder
01-22-11, 21:31
Proclivities?

That reminds me of a rather intellectual student (sadly not in the Philippines) I once met, and with whom I was trying to advance my cause.

She said "my awareness of your proclivities in the esoteric aspects of sexual behaviour prevents you from such an erotic confrontation".

"I don't get it" I said.

"Precisely" she said. For some unknown reason "they" always seem to be one step ahead.

Jambo
01-22-11, 23:43
Just means I have to "try harder" I guess.I say stuff like: "you want to please me don't you?"."You are special to me, I want to do things I haven't done with anyone else (this week)"."I want a GF who will do anything for me"

Red Kilt
01-23-11, 07:27
I say stuff like: "you want to please me don't you?" ... ."I want a GF who will do anything for me"Unfortunately, many of the women on the chat sites here think that the answer you are seeking to these questions is being a good cook and keeping the house nice and clean. LOL.

The trick is to find the ones who prefer to keep their men happy by other means.

To Kong King: nice joke mate. Most unlikely to be a narrative used in the Philippines even if English is widely used and understood.

Marconista
01-23-11, 16:29
I would suggest to meet at the Mall of Asia, since there are FX and Jeepneys going there directly from QC.

Robinson may not be so familiar for many that don't know the area, while MoA is a place everyone has been to for sure.

MoA is about 5-10 minutes away from your place on Roxas.


I'm supposed to meet a girl from the Commonwealth area of QC. I will be staying in Manila on Roxas about a km south of the US Embassy. Anybody have local knowledge on a mutually accessible place to meet up? Need help on this one.

Red Kilt
01-24-11, 10:21
I would suggest to meet at the Mall of Asia, since there are FX and Jeepneys going there directly from QC.

Robinson may not be so familiar for many that don't know the area, while MoA is a place everyone has been to for sure.

MoA is about 5-10 minutes away from your place on Roxas. The jeepney from Commonwealth will most likely go past Robinsons on it's way to MOA. And Robinson's is about 5 mins north of where you are in Roxas.

MOA is way too big for successful meeting unless you are very specific about meet points.

I disagree that many girls from north of Manila know MOA. I know many from Caloocan, Valenzuela, Bulacan who have never heard of MOA and never been there.

The advantage of Robinsons is that if she turns out to be not what you expected then you have plenty of other options walking around just waiting for you to say Hi.

FreebieFan
01-24-11, 13:01
OK so a couple weeks back I met one young lady. 30 from Cavite. She was small petite and cute and in an earlier life had been a dancer in Japan.

We met, did the normal and still chat ocassionally. Last night was online but invisible, and was amazed when this same seemingly shy lady explained how she wanted to start an embroidery business but was lacking capital. At the end of long YM message she asks if I would lend her 60, 000 pesos as capital, and yes, she would promise to pay me back.

I'm more used to being hit up for P1000 here or there but 60K. I admire but her style. The answers still NO!

X Man
01-24-11, 14:11
WR has some advantage with his regular visits, but me thinks he's got a few other cards up his sleeve. I'll leave it up to him to elaborate.

As for myself, I've found a few things that USUALLY work for me. One being that I treat her like a princess when I meet her and then assume she's naughty in the bed. Which she most certainly should be considering the circumstances.

Turn the lights off. I hate that too."I'm afraid of the dark might get a laugh." I prefer,"we need to see a way to the toilet".

Photography, get some nice shots before things get naughty. They often get into it, especially if you are a good photographer or have a good camera. Make sure you show them the pics. Although it would be unusual if they don't stop you after every shot to get a look. If they get reluctant, just ask for just a "few more sexy shots". Don't push it.

A few times when I put the camera down they suddenly started posing. Go figure. And if you get some good G or R rated shots, send them to her. They usually don't want the x stuff. I had one gal who begged for more picture the next time I visited Philippines. I've had a few of my pictures show up at Cherry Blossoms, Cebu gals, Filipina Hearts, etc.

As for WR, I think you'll have to figure out his unique charm.

X.


I don't know Roger, I am still trying to figure out how you convince the gals you entertain to be so "open minded", no matter how "mild" it may seem. While our proclivities may not be exactly the same, for the most part I think I would find your "playtime techniques" an enjoyable way to spend time with a lady willing to participate. I just don't seem to have found the right button to push to convince them to jump in and ride along! Heck I get push back when I ask to leave the lights on and wear their stiletoes during the act! Photos seems almost out of reach and, using some of the 3rd entrance toys. Well that is a quixotic dream! Just means I have to "try harder" I guess.

P. S. Thanks again for the info and effort to help!

Slippery
01-24-11, 15:08
The jeepney from Commonwealth will most likely go past Robinsons on it's way to MOA. And Robinson's is about 5 mins north of where you are in Roxas.

MOA is way too big for successful meeting unless you are very specific about meet points.

I disagree that many girls from north of Manila know MOA. I know many from Caloocan, Valenzuela, Bulacan who have never heard of MOA and never been there.

The advantage of Robinsons is that if she turns out to be not what you expected then you have plenty of other options walking around just waiting for you to say Hi. And a 10 minute walk or 50 php taxi ride from MBC. Sage advice my friend. I will inquire accordingly as to which is more convenient for her.

Wicked Roger
01-24-11, 19:38
WR has some advantage with his regular visits, but me thinks he's got a few other cards up his sleeve. I'll leave it up to him to elaborate.

As for WR, I think you'll have to figure out his unique charm.

X. X.

You know I am just a quiet, unassuming nice guy. And that is what charms them :p

I always accessorise (girls love accessories LOL) and am very straight about my intentions. In more ways than one :D

Seriously I spend time chatting to them and I am very clear how naughty I am and how I can teach them....'Professor Naughty' is what I have been called before. And I try to pique their interest in my mild sexual needs :D Then of course the girls I do know have friends who want to meet the kinky white man friend of their friend so I am happy to oblige as I am a gentleman of course :eek:

Radical Guy
01-24-11, 20:33
At the end of long YM message she asks if I would lend her 60, 000 pesos as capital, and yes, she would promise to pay me back.But if she promises, you should go ahead and give her the loan. Filipinos always keep their promises, you know. . LOL

George111
01-24-11, 20:49
Anyone out there can tell me what is the best way to upload your picture to a dating site? I only have a laptop. I appreciate your feedback. Thank you

Jon von Neumann
01-24-11, 21:10
Anyone out there can tell me what is the best way to upload your picture to a dating site? I only have a laptop. I appreciate your feedback. Thank youOn many dating sites there are usually "Edit My Profile," "Manage Photos," and "Browse" buttons. Use the "Browse" to browse for files on your laptop harddrive.

Cunning Stunt
01-25-11, 03:36
As for myself, I've found a few things that USUALLY work for me. One being that I treat her like a princess when I meet her and then assume she's naughty in the bed. Which she most certainly should be considering the circumstances.Treat a lady like a wh@re, and a wh@re Like a lady. How very true!


Turn the lights off. I hate that too."I'm afraid of the dark might get a laugh." I prefer,"we need to see a way to the toilet".As its yourself, you might always ask her how are we supposed to locate your todger without a light:D.

Tally Wacker
01-25-11, 04:20
Anyone out there can tell me what is the best way to upload your picture to a dating site? I only have a laptop. I appreciate your feedback. Thank youWhich dating site? First save abd name your photos in a folder or on your desktop then follow the instructions on your dating site to upload.

Screaming Beaver
01-25-11, 05:44
As its yourself, you might always ask her how are we supposed to locate your todger without a light:D.Yes, since we are talking about X Man, it might be a good idea to pack a magnifying glass as well, LOL.

FreebieFan
01-25-11, 11:18
But if she promises, you should go ahead and give her the loan. Filipinos always keep their promises, you know. LOLRight. This little urban myth sits up there along with the Pope being Catholic and the other promise that I won't sploodge in your face. One good promise deserves another. LOL

Cunning Stunt
01-26-11, 01:56
Yes, since we are talking about X Man, it might be a good idea to pack a magnifying glass as well, LOL.LOL – need more than a magnifying glass to find your last useful contribution to the forum, Jack.

You are ISG's rubber ball – no matter how many times Jackson kicks you out on your sorry ass, you come bouncing back under another handle. But why?

Polyorchid
01-26-11, 03:04
I am happy to oblige as I am a gentleman of course.If Jackson ever initiates awards for selfless giving on this site, WR will surely get a front-row seat and be the beneficiary of many of them.

He travels many miles from far, far away and selflessly gives of his knowledge, day and night, that these darling little Filipina girls might benefit from his wisdom, caring, and deep experience.

In some ways, he could be seen as the Mother Teresa for Filipina innocence.

WR, your selfless charity and pictorial reports are greatly appreciated.

Cuba Tourist
01-26-11, 04:08
Surprising- this one is sensible!

So if you want to find one here, don't start by telling everyone that because it scares most girl off, including me, if you are looking for a long term partner or a wife please do not waste my time, you should be adult enough to know that it takes time, do not rush and one will come when it is time and not before, you will not find one when you are looking here if you rush, this is a dating site, not a marriage site, so don't rush to expect a life long mate with every guy you chat with from here. Just build a network and see where it takes you. Happy chatting

Red Kilt
01-26-11, 07:02
Surprising- this one is sensible!

So if you want to find one here, don't start by telling everyone that because it scares most girl off, including me, if you are looking for a long term partner or a wife please do not waste my time, you should be adult enough to know that it takes time, do not rush and one will come when it is time and not before, you will not find one when you are looking here if you rush, this is a dating site, not a marriage site, so don't rush to expect a life long mate with every guy you chat with from here. Just build a network and see where it takes you. Happy chattingHaha Cuba if you have been following the discussion here you will remember that there are a few profiles that read so very sensibly such as this one, but when you dig a bit deeper things invariably turn out to be different.

It will turn out that either (a) someone else wrote it for her; or (be) she copied and pasted it from somewhere else. Either way she will have no idea what it means and may not even remember what it says if you start quoting it to her.

There is a (c) of course. It is a valid, home-made, genuine profile and this girl is a very intelligent and sensible girl.

But, if she is steeped in such learning and philosophy, one must ask the question why at 22 she is still living in Maasin, Sthn Leyte which is a long way off the well-trodden tracks of higher learning.

I lean towards explanation (a)

Sinning Desi
01-29-11, 10:27
Just signed up a couple of days ago, and have had limited success. Likely to line up one girl for a meet and greet. Just have to convince her to not bring a along the sister.

Lots of ladyboys on the site, so beware.

Will also try CB.

Rampana
01-29-11, 11:35
guys,

just very recently i had 2 multi chatting ladies again in chatting ym.

this makes me very angry always and when i am discovering that my chat partner (which whom i had a chatting appointment of course) is multi chatting, i give one warning and explain that she is the only one i am chatting the same time and earn the same respect from her.

but most of the time the girl in question denies that she is multi chatting (which is a lie most of the time, indeed).

so, dear forum members, how do you deal with such multi chatting grab- girls?

and how can you discriminate between : slow speed of transfer and real multi chatting?

please share your opinion and your experiences.

it is a complete waste of time on my side when i have to wait 5 minutes for every answer because this gal is multi chatting.

and most of the time you also do not get the right answer to your question because the gal is confused with so many open chatting windows at one time.

how shameful.

ram

Steve Dubai
01-29-11, 11:42
Just signed up a couple of days ago, and have had limited success. Likely to line up one girl for a meet and greet. Just have to convince her to not bring a along the sister.

Lots of ladyboys on the site, so beware.

Will also try CB. You may have left it too late. It took 2-3 weeks on CB & DIA for me to get some dates I was comfortable with, after weeding out the ladyboys, husband hunters and girls who want to meet you just because your a foreigner but will have no intenion of taking it further on a first date.

Got your PM. Sorry for not replying. Will drop you a message later.

Steve

Sinning Desi
01-29-11, 12:07
Yeah, probably. Hope springs eternal, though. At least I'll have head start for the next trip.


You may have left it too late. It took 2-3 weeks on CB & DIA for me to get some dates I was comfortable with, after weeding out the ladyboys, husband hunters and girls who want to meet you just because your a foreigner but will have no intenion of taking it further on a first date.

Got your PM. Sorry for not replying. Will drop you a message later.

Steve

Wicked Roger
01-29-11, 13:00
guys,

just very recently i had 2 multi chatting ladies again in chatting ym.

this makes me very angry always and when i am discovering that my chat partner (which whom i had a chatting appointment of course) is multi chatting, i give one warning and explain that she is the only one i am chatting the same time and earn the same respect from her.

but most of the time the girl in question denies that she is multi chatting (which is a lie most of the time, indeed).

so, dear forum members, how do you deal with such multi chatting grab- girls?

and how can you discriminate between : slow speed of transfer and real multi chatting?

please share your opinion and your experiences.

it is a complete waste of time on my side when i have to wait 5 minutes for every answer because this gal is multi chatting.

and most of the time you also do not get the right answer to your question because the gal is confused with so many open chatting windows at one time.

how shameful.

ramram.

not shameful it is to be expected at least by me as i also multi chat :d just i type fast :) yes i make mistakes but cover my tracks fast also. some have made mistakes also with me but i point it out and if things don't improve i drop and leave / forget as plenty more fish in the sea.

expect the girls to mulit chat unless they ask you for cash and you refuse then they will disappear. because you have a time arranged does not mean exclusivity, it means that is the time they can get to cafe etc and log into ym etc.

if they multi chat do the same, as eventually you find the odd gem, but please expect this with all the girls hence they reply with very short sentences and abbreviations rather than a long well thought out reply

Sinning Desi
01-29-11, 13:17
Well, two dates set up now. Let's see how it turns out.

When they bring along rooomates / cousins / sisters, etc. What's the best strategy to get rid of the excess baggage?

Python75
01-29-11, 13:30
guys,

just very recently i had 2 multi chatting ladies again in chatting ym.

this makes me very angry always and when i am discovering that my chat partner (which whom i had a chatting appointment of course) is multi chatting, i give one warning and explain that she is the only one i am chatting the same time and earn the same respect from her.

but most of the time the girl in question denies that she is multi chatting (which is a lie most of the time, indeed).

so, dear forum members, how do you deal with such multi chatting grab- girls?

and how can you discriminate between : slow speed of transfer and real multi chatting?

please share your opinion and your experiences.

it is a complete waste of time on my side when i have to wait 5 minutes for every answer because this gal is multi chatting.

and most of the time you also do not get the right answer to your question because the gal is confused with so many open chatting windows at one time.

how shameful.

rami guess it depends on what your "relationship" with the girl is. for example, how long have you been chat mates? have you met her in person? what are your intentions towards the girl. casual one night stand or something a bit more?

i have a regular girl in cebu and she did that to me once. i said : "sorry to disturb you, we chat again when you are not busy." and then signed out. within an hour i had an email from her apologising and professing her undying love for me and she would never do it again. problem sorted.

we need to remember that a lot of these girls are playing a numbers game. they know through experience that although initially their male chat mate will make promises of visiting them. very few do. thus from their perspective. how does she know that you are sincere towards her and that you will visit her? i guess all she is doing is covering her options. like i said earlier. it depends on your "relationship" with her.

Python75
01-29-11, 13:40
Well, two dates set up now. Let's see how it turns out.

When they bring along rooomates / cousins / sisters, etc. What's the best strategy to get rid of the excess baggage? There are 3 options:

1. Give them some money to take a jeepney home.

2. Invite them to join in the fun.

3. If you like an audience invite them to watch

Sinning Desi
01-29-11, 13:51
Good advice. I'd love #2, but will settle for #1. Have experienced #3 in the past, when P. Burgos after hours spinner brings along a friend, who just sits there texting, while you bong the hell out of the gal. Weird, but nevertheless.


There are 3 options:

1. Give them some money to take a jeepney home.

2. Invite them to join in the fun.

3. If you like an audience invite them to watch

FreebieFan
01-29-11, 17:18
Well, two dates set up now. Let's see how it turns out.

When they bring along rooomates / cousins / sisters, etc. What's the best strategy to get rid of the excess baggage?Be very decisive. They tend to respect and follow the advice of a guy who knows what he wants. They live in an airy fairy world where telenovas / TV's give them dating advice (duhh) so when a guy knows what he wants and is firm with them, they back off.

I once met a virgin gal (not any more of course) and for first meeting she bought her 12 year old sister and 10 year odl brother. Mt them, gave them 100 peso each to go get jolllibee and told them there 19 year old sister wold be back at same place in two hours. Course neither of them had a watch but both had cellphones. Sadi older sister was delivered back at right time having seen her first naked white man, and guess what, neither had spent any of the P100 given. Amazing! Lots stories like that but the meaning is, be decisive and be prepared to walk if some girls fat friends insists on tagging along

Barba
01-29-11, 23:07
guys,

just very recently i had 2 multi chatting ladies again in chatting ym.

this makes me very angry always and when i am discovering that my chat partner (which whom i had a chatting appointment of course) is multi chatting, i give one warning and explain that she is the only one i am chatting the same time and earn the same respect from her.

but most of the time the girl in question denies that she is multi chatting (which is a lie most of the time, indeed).

so, dear forum members, how do you deal with such multi chatting grab- girls?

and how can you discriminate between : slow speed of transfer and real multi chatting?

please share your opinion and your experiences.

it is a complete waste of time on my side when i have to wait 5 minutes for every answer because this gal is multi chatting.

and most of the time you also do not get the right answer to your question because the gal is confused with so many open chatting windows at one time.

how shameful.

ramskip to the chase and tell you wish to see her when you come to cityname, and then just move on. you are the king. do not wait. find new ones to chat with. these multi chatters will fuck you for money normally so no need to waste 5 minutes for one answer. just call it taxi money so they can continue to pretend they are decent girls.

/barba

Barba
01-29-11, 23:20
Well, two dates set up now. Let's see how it turns out.

When they bring along rooomates / cousins / sisters, etc. What's the best strategy to get rid of the excess baggage?See them for a quick ice cream. Tell the girl you must meet a guy for a business meeting but would like to see her in 1 hour again at location x. This way you A) get rid of the extras and B) are not and your first date so banging is allowed. Twisted and hypocritical, I know but this is how many of the "can I bring a friend"-girls function.

I find it rare that the tag along will join you to the room, at least in sunny Davao where I go mostly. To achieve this I normally have to be on the night shift and go for karaoke and drinks. At this point anything can, and most likely, will happen.

Had a funny incident last visit to Davao. A preferred supplier wanted to come at 3 in the morning after a night out with her nurse school friends. And she wanted to bring her little petit friend as well. I saw the message and minutes later she knocked on my door. The petit one laid down on the second bed in my hotel room while I undressed the first. As always the first had the Niagara fall in her panties, and I started to stroke the other girls ass and legs. This freaked her out and she pulled the blanket over her head. So I continued with number one and the petit little nurse just laid there and twisted and rubbed her legs in heat. But she refused to join in. Nice to do the first doggy while looking at the second. Innocence is a turn on. She wanted but could not pass the barrier, and the next day she texted me to meet. I do not pay these girls a peso. They just like the attention, excitement and extra inches.

Good luck SD, and do share your findings.

/Barba

Red Kilt
01-30-11, 05:21
<SNIP

I have a regular girl in Cebu and she did that to me once. I said : "sorry to disturb you, we chat again when you are not busy." And then signed out. Within an hour I had an email from her apologising and professing her undying love for me and she would never do it again. Problem sorted. Exactly my strategy Python with girls that are regular friends and whom I have met before.

If I see them online with webcam I know they are already chatting so I use that same line with them too. Amazing how quickly they get back to you with the weird apologies. It is extraordinary how many girls are always chatting with sisters in Dubai, mothers in the province, uncles in USA etc etc. Silly excuses.

For girls who are just new or casual chat mates, then I am not too fussed about how much they are multi-chatting but I do get pissed off when they tell lies they are not. Even on webcam some girls insist they are chatting to you only but forget I can see them typing away and see them laughing at someone else's jokes.

As I have said before, it is all just a big game so we should just sit back and enjoy it.

Sinning Desi
01-30-11, 08:18
All the advice here and in the PM board much appreciated. I'll let you all know how it goes.

Mr Enternational
01-30-11, 09:12
Just very recently I had 2 multi chatting ladies again in chatting ym.

This makes me very angry always and when I am discovering that my chat partner (which whom I had a chatting appointment of course) is multi chatting, I give ONE warning and explain that she is the only one I am chatting the same time and earn the same respect from her.

It is a complete waste of time on my side when I have to wait 5 minutes for every answer because this gal is multi chatting.

How shameful. Can't understand why you would care if she was chatting with only you or 1000 more people. You two are not married and I assume from the term "chat partner" haven't even met. For all either of you know if it comes down to a real meeting one will stand the other up. So why put all your eggs in one basket? Maybe if you chatted with more people as well you would not care how long it took her to answer. You two probably had nothing really interesting to talk about together anyway. As Barba was saying just put your name in the hat to meet up with her when you get there and let it marinate. Don't get your underwear in a bunch over it.

Gaijin Gigolo
01-30-11, 10:13
Can't understand why you would care if she was chatting with only you or 1000 more people. You two are not married and I assume from the term "chat partner" haven't even met. For all either of you know if it comes down to a real meeting one will stand the other up. So why put all your eggs in one basket? Maybe if you chatted with more people as well you would not care how long it took her to answer. You two probably had nothing really interesting to talk about together anyway. As Barba was saying just put your name in the hat to meet up with her when you get there and let it marinate. Don't get your underwear in a bunch over it.

Totally agree. Need to be more realistic Rampana. Why the hell would you expect any kind of 'faithful chat' from one of these girls? You REALLY think she's only interested in talking to or meeting you? She's no doubt got hundreds of men she's talking to and hoping to meet and screw. You sound very naive if that surprises you.

Rampana
01-30-11, 16:17
Totally agree. Need to be more realistic Rampana. Why the hell would you expect any kind of 'faithful chat' from one of these girls? You REALLY think she's only interested in talking to or meeting you? She's no doubt got hundreds of men she's talking to and hoping to meet and screw. You sound very naive if that surprises you.Hi guys replying on my question.

Thank you for your suggestions.

My attitude of becoming upset in their multi chattin stems from a time when I still believed in the dream of a "one-to-one" relationship with a Pinay. But this dream has been given up long ago, this chatting attitude remained in me.

But. According your advice. I will cool down in these manners and follow Barba's advice. Just tell them I will txt them after I arrived and then log off.

No need anymore to waste my time.

Ram

Wicked Roger
01-30-11, 19:32
It is extraordinary how many girls are always chatting with sisters in Dubai, mothers in the province, uncles in USA etc etc. Silly excuses.

As I have said before, it is all just a big game so we should just sit back and enjoy it. RK.

If they say sisters / cousins etc in Dubai I ask them where and for their mobile number. Well I am gent and would happily take sister to dinner as long as she is not a fuglie and chubby. I do have standards (well some!)

Barba

You twisted?....surely not :eek: But I do agree that if they bring a third (or fourth) ask them if they want to join in the fun later...I have and can work a treat :)

Zip Lip
01-31-11, 06:37
The lonely heart scam: Mother sent £80, 000 to a man she thought was a charming USA soldier. But it was really Nigerian fraudsters.

Read more:

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1351954/Mother-conned-80-000-swindlers-posing-American-soldier-internet-dating-site.html#ixzz1CaXd4LxY

Cunning Stunt
01-31-11, 08:28
The lonely heart scam: Mother sent £80, 000 to a man she thought was a charming USA soldier. But it was really Nigerian fraudsters.Lots of British women have been caught in these scams, some operated out of Nigeria and some Ghana. Invariably a good looking white American befriends them and spends months grooming them before the trap is sprung. Its amazing how many lonely, gullible women have been caught and sent vast sums of money to these fraudsters. One women sold her house and is now homeless!

Run Mann
01-31-11, 08:56
The lonely heart scam: Mother sent £80, 000 to a man she thought was a charming USA soldier. But it was really Nigerian fraudsters.

Read more:

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1351954/Mother-conned-80-000-swindlers-posing-American-soldier-internet-dating-site.html#ixzz1CaXd4LxYHard to feel sympathy for her, sad as her story is. A 47 year old Mother of 3 and she fell for this. She shares the majority of the blame for the position she's placed herself in.

FreebieFan
01-31-11, 12:45
Hard to feel sympathy for her, sad as her story is. A 47 year old Mother of 3 and she fell for this. She shares the majority of the blame for the position she's placed herself in.Some time ago when I lived in Malaysia I was chatting on YM with a Filipina and she wanted us both to go on video cam. I said no I'm at work. I can go on cam but not with talking. She then accused me a being a Nigerian scamster. Anyone who has seen me, would know I'm surely and certainly not Nigerian.

I was telling this story to another Filipina I knew there, and she explained that the scams involve a white guy, who goes on cam and pretends to be the one falling in love. He is then used on cam to many many woman, but the guy who calls them is a different guy, the scammer. Many women will spot the fact the guy talking is in fact a black mans voice but some don't.

The scam is often a " I love you and I'm going to send you a gift". Women gets excited. Then someone supposedly from a courier company calls and says that the scammer has sent a package, but before she can collect please deposit usually a few hundred US$ so that immigration " fees" can be processed.

The scammers will then call a day later and say that a bribe has to be paid but the gift is gold and jewellery.

Greed takes over and they continue scamming till they think they have all they can get.

I knew three Filipinas scammed out of a months salary this way.

I hope that one day a scammer gets caught and is strung up by his balls.

FreebieFan
01-31-11, 12:52
Do any of you fine gents ever wonder who Jackson is. Is he an individual, a group of like minded souls, an overweight fellow revelling in sleeze, a guy who takes his briefcase, pecks said wife on cheek and says I'm going to work honey".

We all sit here and revere his work in setting up this fine board, but who might he be.

Oh and does he need an assistant. ? LOL

Gangles
01-31-11, 14:19
Rampana,

If your dream is a one on one relationship with a filipina, do not give up.

There are many of them there, looking for you.

I can attest to that.

But you need to stay away from the women who present as sexy minxes on their profile, look for the quieter ones. Be sincere yourself. Look for sincerity in her.

Be honest, do not ask for sex shows.

They take time and patience, but they are there.

And the payoff is just wonderful.

G

Rampana
01-31-11, 14:49
. With the weird apologies. It is extraordinary how many girls are always chatting with sisters in Dubai, mothers in the province, uncles in USA etc etc. Silly excuses.

For girls who are just new or casual chat mates, then I am not too fussed about how much they are multi-chatting but I do get pissed off when they tell lies they are not. Even on webcam some girls insist they are chatting to you only but forget I can see them typing away and see them laughing at someone else's jokes.

As I have said before, it is all just a big game so we should just sit back and enjoy it. Exactly RK,

What pisses me off most is NOT the fact that they are chatting with someone else the same time BUT lying me bluntly into my face with all their lame excuses and telling they are chatting with you only.

Another lame excuse is: "Ohh, I am here only to help my sister with their assignments." or ". To make my assignments."

And when I am confronting them: " And for doing assignments you have to be online ym and also online in DIA, di ba?"

SILENCE AFTERWARDS.

Yes, it is a big game.

Wicked Roger
01-31-11, 19:47
Do any of you fine gents ever wonder who Jackson is. Is he an individual, a group of like minded souls, an overweight fellow revelling in sleeze, a guy who takes his briefcase, pecks said wife on cheek and says I'm going to work honey".

We all sit here and revere his work in setting up this fine board, but who might he be.

Oh and does he need an assistant. ? LOLIf he needs an assistant FF there would an awfully long queue.

Am told by those who met him (and I know 5 people / mongers who claim they have met him. Mostly reliable mongers long time friends) that he is a nice guy.

But am in the queue before you LOL

Wicked Roger
01-31-11, 19:52
Exactly RK,

What pisses me off most is NOT the fact that they are chatting with someone else the same time BUT lying me bluntly into my face with all their lame excuses and telling they are chatting with you only.

Another lame excuse is: "Ohh, I am here only to help my sister with their assignments." or ". To make my assignments."

And when I am confronting them: " And for doing assignments you have to be online ym and also online in DIA, di ba?"

SILENCE AFTERWARDS.

Yes, it is a big game. For sure it is a big game and most of us are playing Rampana. A few who don't get some annoyed but I assume they are speaking to more than 1 guy so I try and get them to focus on me, my kinkiness and have fun, see how far a so called innocent will go with WR in chat on cam etc Make myself more intersting than the guy asking to see their susus, the boring old fart etc (not me I hasten to add LOL)

For me is is fun but then am used to ther games, I play myself and rarely do I chat with one girl only. Call me a naughty boy and I will glady accept the compliment

David_33
01-31-11, 21:52
FreebieFan, I have met Jackson many times as well as rented his ST apt. in Buenos Aires. If you are interested in knowing more about him you can check out http://www.argentinaprivate.com/forum/ where he often posts. Very intelligent and a nice guy. Dealing with much of the "flora and fauna" who are ISG forum members is not an easy task.

Run Mann
01-31-11, 22:39
Greed takes over and they continue scamming till they think they have all they can get..Yes but greed is what turns many people into victims by believing that they can get something for nothing or things are as easy as someone is telling them they are.


I hope that one day a scammer gets caught and is strung up by his balls.For every one that gets caught there will be many more standing by to take over and despite all the warnings and pleas to the public there will be other suckers waiting in the queue to get taken.

Flexible Horn
02-01-11, 03:40
Do any of you fine gents ever wonder who Jackson is. Is he an individual, a group of like minded souls, an overweight fellow revelling in sleeze, a guy who takes his briefcase, pecks said wife on cheek and says I'm going to work honey".

We all sit here and revere his work in setting up this fine board, but who might he be.

Oh and does he need an assistant. ? LOLJackson does indeed exist, I 1st met him about 7 years ago in bsas. We have enjoyed (I think) each others company at boxing matches, Rolling Stone concerts, meals and many other monger get togethers.

Jackson is like myself a large guy over weight who enjoys life and enjoys women. He is very intelligent, well spoken on numerous subjects, but the thing that you come away with when you 1st meet him is how loud he is. But a real nice guy.

Hairy Wonder
02-01-11, 05:39
I got tired of YM. It was very irritating to be online doing anything other than chatting, and have some Filipina "buzzing" me over and over again until I would reply to her. Granted, I probably did this to myself. I am not even sure how many contacts I have on my list anymore. At one point, I was simply accepting add requests from anybody. I realized how much of a mistake this was when many of the messages were "Do you want to have some fun?" or "I'm American / British living in Ghana." I tried simply setting my status as "invisible" at the program startup. However, I have since learned about programs available for seeing when a person is logged in, but invisible. It is even more irritating to get buzzed when I am "invisible."

I have tried, in the past, to carry on chat conversations with multiple girls before. And, even though I can tell that they are also involved in multiple conversations, they profess to be chatting with only me, or get irritated that I am chatting with others. I personally get tired of the multiple chat windows, with each girl almost demanding my immediate attention to her message. I know there are some that are truly chatting with me only (at that moment). But I also know that these girls would not be online, if they were not trying to chat with other guys as well.

Paulr1950
02-01-11, 05:55
What is the programe.

Python75
02-01-11, 07:27
What is the programe.You can try IMvisible or ydetector.

A simple google search will identify quite a few programmes.

Run Mann
02-01-11, 09:02
What is the programe.Http://www.ydetector.com/

Buko Max
02-01-11, 11:38
I got tired of YM. It was very irritating to be online doing anything other than chatting, and have some Filipina "buzzing" me over and over again until I would reply to her. Granted, I probably did this to myself. I am not even sure how many contacts I have on my list anymore. At one point, I was simply accepting add requests from anybody. I realized how much of a mistake this was when many of the messages were "Do you want to have some fun?" or "I'm American / British living in Ghana." I tried simply setting my status as "invisible" at the program startup. However, I have since learned about programs available for seeing when a person is logged in, but invisible. It is even more irritating to get buzzed when I am "invisible."Your problem can also be that even though you log in as 'invisible', Yahoo automatically signs you in to all their websites sometimes including various chat rooms. You can change that in your preference settings. Also, you can tell if someone on your YM list is online, even though invisible, through your yahoo mail address book.

Sky Ryder
02-01-11, 12:47
Jackson does indeed exist, I 1st met him about 7 years ago in bsas. We have enjoyed (I think) each others company at boxing matches, Rolling Stone concerts, meals and many other monger get togethers.

Jackson is like myself a large guy over weight who enjoys life and enjoys women. He is very intelligent, well spoken on numerous subjects, but the thing that you come away with when you 1st meet him is how loud he is. But a real nice guy. Freebie,

I like Flexible, have spent a fair amount of time in the company of Jackson. I actually think we mave have been at a few of the same functions. I spent most of the years 2003-2008 traveling to Buenos Aires where Sir Jackson makes his home.

I have attended Thanksgiving dinners in his "home" and spent a few nights chasing some of the finest examples of femininity in the world (IMHO) , as his wingman as well as more than a few other mongers.

While he does like to enjoy the ladies, he is not also without a heart, as he and some of the other expats in BsAs regularly make donations to local food banks and toy drives for kids at the holidays. I suspect in many ways he is "all of us", he just happens to own this website.

The thing I have found about many of the more prolific participants on this board, is that deep down most of them really like women, and enjoy the company of a lady. This hobby allows them the opportunity to do just that in a very intimate way. I have also found that most are very generous with time and information if asked the right way.

And finally, I think many would be surprised at just how generous they are with the girls that truly need the assistance. At least that is my experience. Sorry if I went off on a tangent.

Sky

Gaijin Gigolo
02-02-11, 06:32
Hi guys replying on my question.

Thank you for your suggestions.

My attitude of becoming upset in their multi chattin stems from a time when I still believed in the dream of a "one-to-one" relationship with a Pinay. But this dream has been given up long ago, this chatting attitude remained in me.

But. According your advice. I will cool down in these manners and follow Barba's advice. Just tell them I will txt them after I arrived and then log off.

No need anymore to waste my time.

RamBrother, your dream of a "one-to-one" relationship with a Pinay is not unrealistic, there are definitely countless adorable women who would be interested and remain faithful to you. But it's very unlikely you'll find them on any of the dating sites we banter about on this forum, nor in Yahoo chat rooms. I suggest a trip to the Phils to do some searching if I were you. Take a week or two for your next vacation and just spend a week here. Approach who you like the looks of and see what happens. I am in Cebu City right now and I every place I go I get knowing looks and smiles from shop girls, office girls, nurses, students, etc etc. And I'm no George Clooney, so it's not a matter of me being some super gwapo. Don't give up your dream mate. I think you just need to be here to make it happen.

Rampana
02-02-11, 18:05
Rampana,

If your dream is a one on one relationship with a filipina, do not give up.

There are many of them there, looking for you.

I can attest to that.

But you need to stay away from the women who present as sexy minxes on their profile, look for the quieter ones. Be sincere yourself. Look for sincerity in her.

Be honest, do not ask for sex shows.

They take time and patience, but they are there.

And the payoff is just wonderful.

GHi Gangles and also GG,

Thank you for your nice responses and encouragements.

It is true, I gave up after what happen to me in 2 marriages with pinay.

But I hope I can find back my trust that there is still some good girls out there.

Ram

Teamsatan
02-08-11, 12:10
I am planning on travelling to phils to meet some DIA ladies.

How do I structure my time to meet 2 or more from the one city. Tried to be honest and told some before that they were not the only lady I planned to meet in that city and their angry reaction to my honesty was crazy to say the least.

Perhaps that shows my inexperience in regard to pinay women.

I understand that I should meet them on neutral ground away from my hotel but what is a good stratagy for meeting more than one date per city.

I suppose I am asking for some basic rules to follow when doing the dating thing in the philipines.

Grateful for any advice.

FreebieFan
02-08-11, 14:29
Wandering through the realms of DIA you come across some real gems, and I'm really not saying this to put these sweet gals down. Its just their turn of phrase can be interesting.

Ms Chen Davao says she " wants to meet man who are not idiot.

Jeralden also from Davao says she's young hot gorgeous, and tall. She's 5ft 2.

Dianarose says she looking " man tuelove"

RN from CDO wants " man more than my match "

Jovy from cebu wants "white foreigner 40- 60 senser " (not many white locals honey!)

Fhate from QC " I have friends but I love to spend more time with my laptop than with them "

And Lady BBA from Davao says " those who want me then take me "

I can't find it but there was a great quote from a gal today who said she wanted sincere guy, but it was ok if he visited prostitutes as long as he told her afterwards.

DIA makes great reading!

Fast Buck Artist
02-09-11, 09:58
How do I structure my time to meet 2 or more from the one city. Tried to be honest and told some before that they were not the only lady I planned to meet in that city and their angry reaction to my honesty was crazy to say the least.If they are jealous it means they like you. Just say "I have several ladies I am communicating with but I would like to meet you first" that will be fine with them.

FreebieFan
02-09-11, 13:38
Wandering through the realms of DIA you come across some real gems, and I'm really not saying this to put these sweet gals down. Its just their turn of phrase can be interesting.

Ms Chen Davao says she " wants to meet man who are not idiot.

Jeralden also from Davao says she's young hot gorgeous, and tall. She's 5ft 2.

Dianarose says she looking " man tuelove"

RN from CDO wants " man more than my match "

Jovy from cebu wants "white foreigner 40- 60 senser " (not many white locals honey!)

Fhate from QC " I have friends but I love to spend more time with my laptop than with them "

And Lady BBA from Davao says " those who want me then take me "

I can't find it but there was a great quote from a gal today who said she wanted sincere guy, but it was ok if he visited prostitutes as long as he told her afterwards.

DIA makes great reading!And to add to my own message, saw one girl today from a southern city who said she wanted the normal one who would love her till the day she passed, all the normal soulmate crap, but added, QUOTE " I hope he has a small weiner". Her words. Amazing.