Played out nicely.
She knows I have a daughter here I care about. So I used her as much as possible claiming emergency but did not want to involve anyone. If she believed it or not I don't care but we seem still as beeing fuck buddies. As of today I have ofcourse vistited my daughter and in this humble home it was all harmony. Mother herself have given me up but still like me. So all in all an educational experience.
This is the best piece of advice every monger should know. Especially the FIRST TIME you meet her. That way the expecations are managed appropriately. Thanks, Red.
Hahaha. Ye old bamboo pipeline.
Ass on the line.
Yes I put my ass on the line. But this has only happened to her, one time. I agree with you. I prob got somewhat softhearted over her. I know only one more less pinay in attitude and / or conduct that this one and that is the mother of my pinay baby. As the mentioned this one does not eat rice, like to read thriller books, can watch a hole movie, can articulate in english fluent better than me (I know some of you will say "no wonders as you can hardly speak but anyway" can discuss history in a global scale, hates the philippines due to corruption etc etc. Fuck I got the treatment myself and got to locked on pussy. Well well lets see how this plays out.
Just tell her you wanted to surprise her by coming earlier.
Here's a new one. Why not try to just tell the truth! Why even lie when there is such a over abundance of supply here. I personally don't know why anyone would encourage any further dishonesty.
For someone who is very experienced in the Philippines by now Skog, it looks like you are letting the girls control you and weaving a complicated web of lies in order to keep them "happy".
Once you were spotted arriving you should have just told her that Yes you had to come earlier because of an important business deal.
Guys should always tell girls you meet that you have business in the Philippines because it gives you many many options to change plans etc.
No need to explain the nature of your business; no need to tell them it is "monkey business" LOL. If they know you are on holidays then they also know you have no commitments.
All that other stuff you mentioned about leaving bags at airport and hiding tags etc is silly and time-wasting and will inevitably come unstuck anyway. Just confess and wear the criticism.
The worst that can happen is that you don't see the special girl again but that's unlikely. They have VERY short memories about that sort of thing, and all will be forgiven within a day or two.
Eyes and ears everywhere.
I tried to sneak my way inside philippines in the best stealth mode arriving T3 this very morning. Had a few girls lined up ofcourse but thought I'd play it by hand a few days with a loose scheduel so informed them girls my arrival dates were on the 2,3 and 4 of March.
Here is the text I recieved approx one hour ago:
"Are you in phils? My friend saw you arrived this morning".
Then it all came back to me that one time approx a year ago or so one friend of one of my regulars met me prior to immigration and escorted me in one of the special immigrationlines (I arrived at peak hour so huge lines in the immigration for foreign passports). I simply forgot about that one this morning. Without thinking and as in all automatic I denied I was in phils. Probably would been best if I just told her I arrived and take the "beating" from there. But I decided 3 days ago when I was booking this trip I wanted some freedom the first couple of days here. Maby play a bit with we chat, badoo etc. Visit old huntinggrounds alone etc etc.
Now I have to go through a hole set of new lies just to meet this lovely pussy. She works in the aviation industry herself so first of all she will most likely want to meet me at the airport, secondly she knows about the bag tags ofcourse and thridly she probably want to see my passport stamp. I can tell u she was not convinced by me holding my ground i was still in Norway.
Well well, The latter is easy as I can just claim I lost the passport. The first one can also be handled as she knows by know I don't enjoy beeing met at the airport (and followed). Sometimes I allow it sometimes I don't (if I have nothing to hide that is, hehe). The bag tags can also be removed or I can just leave the airport without my bags and claim it later (lost luggage office if there is one at Naia T3, never needed to find out so dont know). All in all this will be to much for her as i know she is not stupid. I guess the easiest way out of this is to ditch her (but that is going to be a hard one). Again she has the most lovely pussy and body and are probably amongst my top 5 of all my girly encounters mongerwice from the very beginning back in the early 2000...
Anyone had simular experiences? Enlighten me please. Yes you don't have to tell me I fucked up but lets view it from an humoristic point of view.
When i come to think of it i have one regular also know ONE person working in T1. It seems my choices for the future are either tell the truth about when i arrive and depart or use T2 and phil airlines.. Hmmmm...
Another place to find SW's is just in front of the Rotonda Hotel on Taft, just south of EDSA. They can hide at the entrance as there is lots of cover. Prices quoted were 1000, but I did not partake.
Or if you walk around here, guys will pop out of nowhere offering you girls.
Manila couple days
Bored in the afternoons, so I would pass by Manila Bay Cafe around 2-4 pm. What a cattle pen, heifers everywhere. Going in the evening is so much better.
Passed by the casa on the corner of Cortada and UN Ave. Last time I was there the lady told me the girl was 19. Ended up being 24, and had blood from her period. Not alot but enough to gross me out. I was pissed as I had paid 1500 for st, including the room (which was 300). The lady instantly remembers me and says, ok this time no menstruation ok?! There was a really cute girl, probably 19, and was quoted "same as last time", 1500 including room. (How does she remember all the guys? I say I want discount because of last time, 1000 including the room. No dice. I bailed.
Joined Tinder. Wow, there is like 25% ladyboys there and if by chance you ask a real girl if she is a ladyboy they get super offended and you will probably lose them. Had a 18 year old virgin offer me her virginity for 100,000 php. I declined. Met a girl at Greenbelt but ended up not really liking her. I suspected she was a ladyboy, even after eating with her, even though I asked her, but there was just something not right. We departed ways. Another thing that happens alot is you find out that alot of the girls are looking for paying customers. The conversation often quickly turns to "how much you pay me if we meet?
Watch out at Harrison Plaza, 2 x 15 year olds offered their services. They looked it too. Could have been a setup, I don't know and didn't wait around to find out. 1 had a kid already.
Dropped by EDSA International Entertainment Complex. What a sharknado. As I had a full time companion back at the hotel sleeping, I wasn't looking to pickup. The prices are exorbitant anyways. I did not feel comfortable there with the high pressure tactics. Burgos is better and the clubs not as aggressive. Angeles is even better yet. After being in Angeles, I find Burgos and EDSA such letdowns.
Like Pompetus I too was looking for a generic description because when it's specific and exact one it's too crystal clear for me. Generic description is likely better because of "law enforcement", i.e. "the LE". Also. Yeah.
I googled "thermae club" using google(dot)com - here's a link in case y'all don't know 'bout it, www.google.com. You should bookmark it because it's a useful site.
Here's the winner of the top result search contest:
Club Thermae. Boston, MA.
www.yelp.com Beauty & Spas Nail Salons.
What? A nail salon in Boston. Clever. "Nail" a "code word" for "nailing" a girl, yeah? Is "salon" a "code word" for "p00p chute"? This winner of results looked promising because it's a generic description likely to fool "the LE", i.e. "law enforcement".
This is the first runner up:
The Thermae, Bangkok. Stickman's Guide To Bangkok.
This result looked more less ambiguous because I think "stickman" is a "code word" for a man's "stick" and "bang" is "sex action, vigourously type" and "kok" and a deliberate misspelling of "cock" used to fool "the LE".
Which one should I click?
Unlike the unknown unknowns this is the known knowns. Already knowing the knowns beforehand makes searching more less ambiguous and result in more accurate nail hitting. On the head. Especially. Less unpossible.
When Plan A is not possible go with Course of Action 2. When with colleagues.
I like trance music, too. Feat. Pitbull.
La Cafe vs Thermae Cafe vs outside of Home Depot
Geez, I didn't realize how difficult it is for some of the members using a search engine. I think Pompetus could ask his 2-year old grandson how to type "thermae cafe" on google.
La Cafe vs Thermae Cafe vs. "outside of Home Depot". What do these places all have in common? They are "LE turned a blind eye" safe places for employers to employees that do under-the-table work. This is where the mercenary attitude starts. No one wants to be at those establishments; they are all crap holes, but it's way better than working on the streets. They just want to get the highest price and get the fuck out of there.
Zzyzyx and nightclubs, in theory, attract hip women who like to dress up, be seen by their friends, and go have fun. It's a fun place. So, when women "work" there, they should be more relaxed at their environment and are willing to try to have a good time. It seems more natural to pick up working girls at a non-working fun place than at a well-known hooker ebay.
I never used the term "Thermae Club" Pomp. I said Thermae Cafe. When I put that into my Google I get the following headings:
Thermae Cafe inside. . negotiating with hooker.
Nightime Bangkok: Thai girl street walkers at Thermae.
The 4th entry is a series of "Images for Thermae Cafe Bangkok".
I don't think it requires too much intelligence of a board member to work out that if you see the term "Thermae", don't know what it means and decide to google it you will quickly hit on exactly what the OP was referring to.
Anyway, just wanted to clarify.
LA Cafe vs. Havana (Makati) vs. A year in Cebu
Reflections on 5 wks in Manila, after 14 months in Cebu.
You can get better, much better, apartment / living short term situations in Makati vs. Cebu. Just remember economies of scale help, and there are tons more apartment buildings in Makati.
I worked in Cebu for over a 14 months in the past. I like that the girls here in Makati where I've been for 5 wks now can be more "cosmopolitan". If you want to find someone for a fling, pay or no pay, you're more like to find a girl here who's more exposed to other countries. I' m realizing that "traditional" means little exposure to the west or even other countries, and open to hook-ups is the opposite. It's that simple. Girls that never had experience out of their cell-phone shop and parents home in Cebu. They may expect 5 dates to get laid. If they have girlfriends that tell them foreigners fuck after 2 meets then they get they move closer to the 2.
_Over 14 months mongering in the PH, my philosophy_.
This is a bone of contention (sometimes a bone that gets better attention). I'm lucky to have some looks and extrovert charm to make the p4 p work for me in the PH. I think everyone should use their advantages to make P4 P the best "value. " That's why fishbowls are kinda dumb. You haven't warmed a girl up with some charm or trust or REAL attraction so she feels a bit more like GF sex. True, though, sometimes that connection which goes beyond just mechanical sex happens just kissing when you've paid the piper!
I do NOT like Havana club in Greenbelt. Many of these girls think they're special because they wear nice cloths and have been with rich guys. This is rich guy central and tourist ground zero. So, get at LEAST a bit away from ground zero. Honestly I think Havana in Greenbelt is for suckers. BTW: I've been working blocks from here for 5 months.
_About LA Cafe_.
I was there on 2 different weekend nights. You do need to do some work. Move around. Talk to the girls. Don't let them come to you! Never let them come to you in any bar is my MO. At LEAST flirt with who you find cute. That works. But wait for the girl that sits with you and she will probably not be you're type.
So first time there found some real amateurs just looking to make a little extra. I like that. I didn't see much of that at club Havana. Maybe none. I wound up with a girl that wouldn't know how to sit in Greenbelt perfectly because she's from the province a few years ago and from central manila. But I give a shit about high-style if I'm looking for a night of boning. She turned out to be amazing. Total GF all night, and was P3000. No way you'll get less than P4000 at Havana and even under p5000 is tough, and all the girls I went w /, after talking up dozens and seeing what their attitude was like, were out to make a lot of money. They can. There are MANY high rollers coming through and these girls get greedy.
Second weekend night at la caf the quality seemed worse. I don't like girls that look super pros, and there are a lot at LA Caf like Havana. But, I found my girl from the last time, and what shocked me is there are bars NEAR LA Caf with a lot of freelancers that are very cute but not cut out for the meat market and loud music of LA Caf. These places look prime. I'll go directly to them next time.
So, my girl from LA caf and I got together about 4 times all together. She wound up being a little TOO much un-aware of how people act in the cities and that was a turn-off when she was getting sick, visited when I called, and decided to hang with me a spit tons of phlem in my sink a lot. BUT, overall she was a complete sweety, a solid 8, very interested in having real conversations. Was cool hearing about her growing up waayyyy off the beaten road or path in a village in the mountains. And, she was not too pushy at any time.
Also consider Tindr if you are younger (I'm in 40's). Have seen other guys do well there. Fi Heart has NOT worked too well for me. I find that 98% of the girls are used to be gamed and / or just want a husband. I've gotten laid from it, but just not many girls out for a hook-up.
Enjoy the life, & treat 'them right.
Finally, I have achieved the status I have so desperately been seeking! Hahaha.