The New Hanoian. It's a website for expats in Hanoi and HCMC, it has a section for dating and meeting people.
Forgive my ignorance but what is TNH?
Thanks for the reply Pak Mike. I'm from Michigan so my tolerance is pretty high when it comes to cold weather.
December will be cool, or even cold, depending on your temperature tolerance.
Hotel & Weather
Can someone tell me if either Le Foyer Hotel and Sunshine Suites are GF? And also how the weather is in December?
About free sex
First, you need to test your social skill.
Friday night but 10-11 pm, go to Dragon Fly or Funky Buddha. If you can find at least 1-2 girls to hang out, your sex life is good in Hanoi.
They are not a one-night stand, but once you get to know them you will get a lot of sex.
IF you can't, I think TNH is the solution.
Many girls in Hanoi looking for boyfriends.
Please avoid the younger one.
Between 30s & 40s.
Usually meet a cafe, buy her drink, and chat. And go to park to see lake or someting.
Next date, meet a food place, buy her meal. She will probably hug or kiss.
3rd date you will have sex. Probably 8 of 10.
Be patient. Make her feel comfortable and know you somehow.
30s-40s in TNH probably have a job. Some married. Widows.
When you do, go to mobile phone shop.
Buy cheap nokia phone with 100k sim card.
And probably you know what this mean.
Iam in hanoi. I prefer a beer session.
The night auditor at Saigon was a younger guy, he just opened the door for Lan and off we go. While we were partying at Fortuna, all the guys are leaving and Lan was not available after mid-night. Plus I was going back to hotel finish some report but went to a working girl house instead. I do have her phone number but not sure if it's good idea to pass it out.
I just been hanoi around one month, anyone of you still in hanoi? Maybe we can have a tea time session.
I went to check this out
I was curious about this, since I have never seen nor heard of ladyboys in Vietnam. So I cruised all the tam quats along that road near the cemetery, and did not see any ambiguous looking ladies. But I did see one place with a group of ok looking girls, so I went in. Nice surprise! 45 minutes or so with a nice studenty type girl who was responsive to me. I kissed her breasts for a long time and slowly undressed her. She would not let me touch her pussy, but allowed me to kiss it, just lowering her pink and white panties a bit. So I decided to go for it. I pushed her back on the bed, raised her thighs and got to work with my tongue. She closed her eyes and opened her mouth, tensing and sighing. She shifted the angle of my head a few times and I felt her come silently. All this just behind a curtain, and I could hear mates playing cards. She gave me a sweet smile and I lay beside her a while. Then she stood up, I dropped my trousers, out came the wet wipes, and she did what she's been trained to do. Afterwards, I tipped her well, promised to return, and walked out as she sat down to rejoin the card game.
After 24 hours of fantasising all the things I am going to do with her, I went back, but couldn't find the place! They all look the same, and I think different ones open and close each day. Good though for the memory. I tried that street a few times before and it was boring. Nothing more than an assisted wank. It just depends who you get.
I agree with CaseyStar comments on the use of various web sites and have written about my experiences in Vietnam before but if I may I would like to repeat my experiences for the benefit of new members. I was fortunate to work in Hanoi for three years and enjoyed more free sex in Vietnam than anywhere else I have worked.
I am in my late 50's although I am told that I look a lot younger and had a pleasant apartment overlooking Truc Bach lake which certainly helped in my quest. I am not into younger girls preferring the 35-50 age range as not only do I consider them much more adventurous in bed they are also much better company and are looking for less complicated relationships, one thing that did surprise me was the amount of married ladies who were looking for a western sex partner.
The first lady I met was in a small restaurant where she helped translate for me, she was married and was attending a course in Hanoi for two months, we met several times at the restaurant and the night before her return to the south we spent a fantastic night together. After this I started to work hard on various web sites and found the most successful were TNH, Date in Asia and Tagged. My first encounter on THN was with 33 year old who seemed to be in it for the money she asked for 1000000VND but settled for 800000 for three hours one evening and she was one of the best fucks ever and promised to stay all night the next week for the same money. Two weeks later she texted asking if she could come and spend the night for free and that relationship lasted until my contract came to an end and was the only time I paid for sex in Vietnam.
Date in Asia provided me with three ladies one was a television reporter on secondment from the south the second a married lady who said that her husband had never satisfied her and a friend had said she should try a western man as they had bigger cocks, she would call every other week when she fancied having a little fun, the third was a wild one but she wanted to go a little further than being a fuck buddy so I had to cool that relationship a little.
Tagged proved by far to be the best resource throwing up over ten encounters with the most memorable being a university lecturer in her 50's, married with the body of a 20 year old and a sexual appetite that even succeeded mine. A very cute girl who lived in the next street and was engaged to a American who enjoyed popping around when he was out of town on business and would bring her laptop with photographs of them having sex together and a fashion designer who suggested on one occasion she bring a friend with her as she had always wanted to see her fucked.
There were a few I never managed to persuade into bed but we would still meet for a drink or a meal and I still enjoyed the chase and never gave up. There is plenty of free pussy out there if you are prepared to put a little hard work in.
Did the Saigon hotel give you a difficult time about bringing a girl back at that late of the night? Why didn't you stay at the Fortuna, wouldn't it be easier to bring the girl upstairs at the Fortuna?
I don't know much about street name and shop number.
Ciputra has 4 exits. 3 exits are in the same line, and the other is another side.
BJ shops are in the line between 3 exits.
It was very fun experience for me after I worked before I go home.
Like an icy cold beer.
But my last experience. Even though I cumed, I could not go there.
However, all of my masterbation-aid experiences are very good.
And no timing. Just keep rubbing and sucking until I cum.
Street or address
What street are these places on? Any address numbers would be useful. Especially which number shop you got the dude at so it can be avoided!
BJ to go, ciputra
Outside of ciputra, there are several shops offer BJ and go.
Check the Banner, Cafe that offers Tam Quat.
I believe Tam Quat is a massage.
This place translates it as your dick massage.
Many shops has Blue-white blind at the door or enterance.
Price rance is 130k-200k. I think if you can speak vietnamese you can lower the price to 100k.
Just enjoying the simplicity of blow job or hand job.
This place you don't look girls, body. Just let it out.
You don't have to pay fee in advance. I found that's very odd.
I did 6 times with different shops.
There are some shops girls kiss your nipple but not suck your dick.
Or and some girls just love to suck your dick
You can touch her, and if she is pretty and young you can kiss her.
But not recommend. It might ruin everything.
Somewhere nearby cemetry, she was young and sexy.
Probably hard to believe she works in this shop.
Usually girls in the shops are old or bit fugly, .
For less than 200k someone helps to masterbate.
So face and body not important,
But she was very pretty one.
I think her name was Tu.
And she was very good. So I touch her boobs and slowly I move to her bottom.
And I feel weird. And Tu is a dude.
I came few moment later but it was very weird moment and I could go after that