In my humble opinion (feel free to disagree), you are being pretty unreasonable here. She agreed to give you FS and even gave you massage and BB and all these special favors at your negotiated lower price. She did her part already. But you insist that she needs to cater to your every whim and even not allow her to communicate on her phone. Sure, we all want good GFE and for someone to go above and beyond, but in reality we should be happy for a decent effort. Many WGs will be dishonest and will do bait and switch or all kinds of dishonest tactics. In this case I feel like you should have paid her the amount you agreed upon instead of having her not be allowed to text or chat at all like some kinda controlling guy. No one knows if she had someone talk to her about something important or whatever. Seems like she tried to make you happy overall and a lot of people receive much worse effort.
Just my opinion.
Jesus, man. I think you should relax a little. This was a SW. Service may vary. You don't know what was happening on the other end of that phone. This posts reads like you have anger issues, and are mentally unbalanced.
Hookers on hengfend / my encounter from tonight
I stayed at The Courtyard by Marriott on Hengfend for 2 nights. The second night I was walking in front of my hotel when a lady asked me if wanted company because she had girls. I asked her for pictures with their stomachs uncovered and she replies"she come now, 5 minutes. " I had difficulty talking with her so I walked on. BTW I had no intention of picking up a girl for sex. I was just taking a walk to get something to eat. I saw two women walking on the sidewalk near the front of a hotel only 2 more minutes down the sidewalk. The one looks back and I can tell they are hookers. I say "Hi" and chat a little on the sidewalk and she has good English. She wants 200 usd. We agree on 1000 cny. I told her I needed BBBJ. I could tell by the way she answered she would do BB sex. BTW I have never had sex with a Chinese hooker. The timing was perfect as it was only 8 pm on my final night.
Back in the room all is well (at least in the beginning). She takes her clothes off and looks nice. We take a shower together. She gives me an average BBBJ but I was satisfied. I put her in missionary and started rubbing her clit BB. I told her I want 15 minutes of sex, would cum, then take a shower, and then we could go for a second round. 2 hours max I told her. BB sex was good and at 15 minutes I cum and all is well. I take a shower and afterward she gives me a nice 15 minute full body massage. It wasn't profession but enough to relax me. She gives me a 5 minute BBBJ and I am back hard again. Less than a minute before I was ready for a second round she receives a text. She had a mix playing on her phone and it went to half volume. She says one moment and looks at her phone. I told her to come back or I would lose my hard on. She keeps typing and I told her I was serious. She comes closer to the bed and I tell her to stop typing. She keeps typing. I tell her how rude it is to stop having sex to have a conversation on her phone. She just keeps typing. I told her if she doesn't stop in the next 10 second I am giving her 500 and kicking her out. She continues and I scream at her to get out. All this time I am injecting small hints to stop texting followed by firm statements. 30 seconds later she stops and says sorry. I told her to put her clothes on and get out. I told her she had a choice to make (and she made it) and the mood had changed and we were done. She put her clothes on. I put 500 on the bed and she asked for 100 more which I gave her. I am writing this 10 minutes afterward and I am not sure how I feel. It being spontaneous was nice but I would rather have paid her 400 for more sex and a happier ending. I have had a ton of these encounters with Spanish women but never have the subtle hints escalated to this. It is not a surprise this happened in China as the entire culture are slaves to their cellphones as opposed to choosing to use them.
I was in Shanghai May 23 and went to my favorite sauna--the old "999" near Shanghai Stadium--multiple name changes. It was flat out closed--no sign of life. I scrambled to recall how to get to Sarcosa in Pu Dong and was successful-always remember the Burger King for orientation. So I went there for 2 nights--its been 8 years since last trip. The girls are nice enough--no more semblance of a massage routine--just basic suck / fuck service. Night pricing was 700 for one girls (2 shots--60 min) or 1100 for 2 girls. I enjoyed both sessions.
I tried to improvise to find other soapy saunas but found it very hard to research once inside China. The Happy Massage site --most reviews seem 2 years old. The SNG helpful but was not set up / registered to get final location info. Better luck next time. Hope the clamp downs ease up.
A benefit of SNG
Former Beijing monger here. For newbies to Shanghai, SNG is useful. When I first started coming here, I didn't know what to do. And I can't speak Mandarin. Some fellow ISG bros gave me some MP suggestions (via PM), and I'm very grateful to them, but when it got windy, I got nervous. So, I contacted girls on SNG's site. They are willing to book short-time hotels (about 80 kuai) near you. The nice thing about this is that you're unlikely to get ripped off, since they are monitored by Steven and reviewed by mongers, and they have to register themselves to get a room so it's pretty safe. Also, it is away from the eyes of LE. Eventually, I'll learn the lay of the land, but until then, I may continue paying the high price on SNG's site in exchange for the reliable service and convenience.
250 Shaanxi Road
Shaanxi Rd #250, next to the police station, is still open. It has gone way downhill since #3 and #18 left. Never was too clean and the protectors at the door not so friendly. If she is still there #5 has beautiful breasts and a decent handjob.
Jing'an is clamped down, but Gubei and Minhang are opening back up. Yes, Buddha, Ming and Shaanxi Lu are closed but go north for about 2 km and you'll find Lizhuang Spa. Check out my post #10228. Corner of Changshou Lu and Jiangning Lu. Shop is on the north side of Changshou Lu so it's in the Putuo district.
In Gubei, walk along Huangjinchengdao or Ronghuadongdao (south of Carrefour) towards Gubei Lu. You'll find no less than 8 MP's bunched up together in a courtyard. They cater to the Japanese clientele.
PM for more info.
Lets get back to Ladies and Locations
How about we get back to discussion of the sweet ladies and locations?
I only get to come to Shanghai a couple times a year and like to keep informed about the "weather" by reading the field reports on ISG. It has been troubling to hear about the recent closures in Jing An, Gubei and Minhang. That's my normal area. I am not a sauna guy, prefer places like the Buddha place and Shaanxi Lu (both closed I read).
I look forward to reading some updates to prepare me for my next visit in July. I will be sure to file some reports if I find some gems.
I would not completely say its having no value. I found some reasonable contacts there, but what I also do not share is that critical reviews shall be supressed: If they go through an internal reality check. Similar to good hotel search sites like "holiday check"- ok. But not let any critical remarks be posted is not acceptable. I had last month a girl with poor hygiene and only brilliant comments. Another one I fancied to meet but she had some very negative reviews in another website * next to good reviews too. So I can make my own rating if I want to run the risk to see her, which I did not in her case.
That website * more often reports reviews from SNG girls now under "country China" and there you can get a more realistic rating.
But my best experiences for Shanghai and Beijing as of yet I found here in this Forum from recommendations via PM. For example from you BBB for Beijing. Thank you again publicly BBB!
If anybody is interested may be I can give back via PM some of my favorites, although I'd rather kept them for myself.
But I accept: It's a business (still a touchy one that's why the review issue is tricky and personal recommendations also are"YMMV".).
The purpose of this forum is to share information that is good, bad and nuanced about mongering in Shanghai. If a poster shares that SNG doctors its reviews and knowingly posts photos of a girl who is different from that advertised, that is useful information.
It does not mean SNG does not provide an excellent and somewhat unique service.
No reason to cast the issue in extreme black / white terms.
The only expert on the in an outs of raids would be the police in that particular area. The member you are quoting, by his only admission said he does not monger much any more. Which is really means not at all. I would not put a lot of faith in his info. Yes, he lives on this forum and and this forum is like his full time job. So he lives through us. He has a couple allies on this forum to attack people and has already been kicked off the site before. But begs to come back on. He commented on my post under another name recently. That is the only reason I mention it. But, anyway, Bejing4987, China is a fast moving place. Busts happen when they happen. We can all judge the times when we think it would be safest. If a monger gets caught in a raid. It would be very bad for the monger and I am sure worse for management.
No they don't. I have been coming to SH for 20 years. No value at all in this site. And am more than willing to admit I have previously complained to ISG that this commercial site is totally inappropriate on a site which was designed for free information flow. IMHO if he wants to post he should be confined to Classifieds Thread.
I would like to clarify two points:
1) I was not complaining, criticizing nor passing judgment. I was merely informing. Which is a fundamental purpose of this board.
2) I believe sng and ISG to be complimentary resources, not competitive.
It seems as though there is a fine line and clearly history I am not aware of. I will therefore make this my final comment on the subject: all website owners clearly have the right to run their sites how they see fit. It is up to informed customers to decide what resources to use.
Err I have to side with Taz on this one.
As you said "Steven" is not doing his site for free / out of pure kindness for the community as we all do when we share info for free here.
He decided to earn money from it and is publishing content on a freemium / premium basis and pimping girls offering them visibility and a hotline system.
As such it seems totally reasonable for his customers to review / report their experience with his service.
Thats what this forum is for. People review girls, they review other services / stores, why should Shanghai Guide be exempted from these reviews?
Taz's intervention is not purely negative, he voiced his experience in a rather fair way.
If the neutrality of the review system on SNG is indeed being played with by Steeven, censoring / hiding several fair negative reviews by customers, I feel Taz is totally right to voice his experience with the site and warn potentiel users to take it into account.
Its not the first time there have been questions about SNG website. He started his site by mostly copying info which had been published for free by other mongers here, on sammy singapore board, and other places several of us take part in. Several of the advertised girls when he started were also contacts which had been published for free on these boards. So it did raise some tensions when these infos started entering a freemium / premium business for him and same goes when some girls rates became inflated as he put them on his site.
That being said I believe his website offers a great complementary service to the boards as info gets scrolled down / hidden over hundreds of pages and a blog gives a better overall view of the info. Moreover he improved the content over time with info from the chinese boards too and from his own scouting. As such its a great tool for people who don't speak chinese and only spend a few days / hours in Shanghai and don't want to waste time. And even for more permanent people in Shanghai it can be complementary to our scooting / recovering info faster / finding a couple new places without hassle.
So yes his business can both be praised for the good it brings just like it can be criticized for less positive things. Just like any business we review here on a daily basis, with different point of view / experiences from different mongers.
Everyone finds value in SNG.
My thought is Steven runs it the way he runs it. If you don't like it, then you can run your own site anyway you want.
I think he takes feedback and makes changes. He spends an enormous amount of time providing a highly valuable service to those of us who can't speak and read Chinese.
He is not doing it for charity. And anyway he wants to do it is fine by me.
There are a number of things on his site that would like him to differently. I have made some of these suggestions directly to him. But in general unless I was his business partner or thought I could a better job, the best thing I can think to say is Thank you for the information you provide. It is useful and valuable to me.